How many is too many?
By Toni
@toniganzon (78835)
Philippines
August 10, 2026 6:45pm CST
A friend of mine married a man when she got pregnant and later on separated because she found out he was gay.
She vowed never to have a Filipino guy ever. So her boyfriends were mostly South Koreans or Chinese. These Asian guys stayed only for a short time in the country so they only had short relationships.
Each time she saw someone she liked, she always ended up with that guy. Until Adrian. Adrian, another Korean was her longest relationship. It lasted years. I thought he was the one but he wasn't.
She got tired of Asian men. Dave, the man in the photo came into her life. He's 20 years older than her. Thought they were gonna last but a year after, I saw Dave with another woman. They had broken up.
I couldn't count how many guys she had been with both serious and non serious.
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7 responses
@kaylachan (86012)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
6h
Some people never settle down with just one person.
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@toniganzon (78835)
• Philippines
1h
That's true and she's the cheating type too actually. I remember when she was still in a relationship with someone, she would sleep with other guys that she likes.
@DaddyEvil (176803)
• United States
6h
I guess as many guys as it takes for her to find the one she wants to stay with... It happens a lot.
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@toniganzon (78835)
• Philippines
1h
Collect and collect and then select. But she seems to can't choose exactly who she wants to be with permanently.
@rsa101 (41599)
• Philippines
29m
It’s unfortunate that she hasn’t found the right guy for her. I don’t really know your friend, how she presents herself to men, or how men see her as a partner. So I wouldn’t judge her or her partners since I have no idea. But after several attempts to build lasting relationships, it seems none were successful in the end. For that reason, it might be wise for her to stay single for now or stop actively searching, as I believe that sometimes good relationships come along when they’re not being sought.
@toniganzon (78835)
• Philippines
1h
She's someone who seem to can't live alone without a man. And every time she has a boyfriend, she always ends up living with him.
And you are right that she needs to learn to be happy by herself.
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@toniganzon (78835)
• Philippines
6h
I lost touch with her when she moved to another region. But I think I saw her in the mall from afar one time and she was with another white man.
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