Son wants to get friend a hospital bed

@snowy22315 (211574)
United States
August 18, 2026 2:29pm CST
Of course friend won't follow up with his doctors so we don't know for sure what is wrong with him, but son treats him like an invalid and I am not sure why. I mean he doesn't have a lot of energy but was able to do a good bit of the driving when we went up to PA without a problem. I think treating him as sicker than he actually is is probably counter productive. When friend has something he is motivated to do like take someone shopping or to do a notary assignment he seems very able to do it..so I don't get it. Son says he has a list of doctors and he doesn't know which one is his main one..it probably doesn't matter because friend is unlikely to follow through anyway..
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@toniganzon (79314)
• Philippines
8h
Your friend seems to be a very stubborn one.
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@snowy22315 (211574)
• United States
8h
I think he is fearful, but stubborn too yes
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@Wrexxo (5370)
9h
Sounds like someone who doesn't care about his health
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@snowy22315 (211574)
• United States
8h
He doesn't care about too much actually
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@AmbiePam (125151)
• United States
5h
It’s nice of him to care so much.
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@kaylachan (86183)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
12h
In a way this is kind of like George. I can see that he often doesn't have energy and is getting weaker, but when he's highly motivated to do something like get groceries he's all for it no questions asked.
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@snowy22315 (211574)
• United States
11h
It's frustrating. I am sure there are days they feel better than others, but we all have those.
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@TheHorse (240015)
• Walnut Creek, California
10h
Hope he sticks around for a bit.
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@snowy22315 (211574)
• United States
9h
I am sure he would if he got proper medical treatment. I think he just don't have the courage to really find out what is wrong. Thanks
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@nawala123 (21213)
• Indonesia
9h
Some doctor are to busy to make friends with event theye are polite to everyone
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@LadyDuck (507589)
• Italy
Just now
You are right, I never treated my husband as an invalid, I encouraged him to walk and to try to have a normal life. Your friend is only a stubborn man.
@JudyEv (386439)
• Rockingham, Australia
1h
People like this are hard to help. I think I'd eventually would give up even trying.