Do you need another side dish, even though there are already vegetables?

@May2k8 (20152)
Indonesia
September 13, 2026 10:56pm CST
Today, I cooked a clear vegetable soup consisting of spinach, carrots, and shallots that had been peeled and crushed. As for me, I could probably eat without needing any additional side dishes—like fritters, for instance. But my father always asks for fried food. If the food is fried, we certainly need to drink plenty of fluids, yet my father—he probably never even finishes a single glass.
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@Wrexxo (7330)
12h
That soup sound so clean and good, spinach and carrot combo always hit different. lol dads and their fried food need, no matter what somebody cook they still want something crispy on the side. and true sha, he go dey ask for fried food but won't even finish his water...that last line is pidgin English.. never mind
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@May2k8 (20152)
• Indonesia
7h
When it comes to eating fritters he devours them eagerly; but if there aren't any, he refuses to eat. Well, you know how it is with someone who's senile—they'll always come up with some excuse.
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@Nawsheen (28909)
• Mauritius
13h
That vegetable soup sounds really healthy and comforting, especially with spinach and carrots. I think I would also be quite happy eating it without anything fried on the side. Maybe you could encourage your father to take a few sips more often, even if he doesn't want to finish a whole glass at once. Does he generally drink very little throughout the day too?
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@May2k8 (20152)
• Indonesia
7h
He won't listen to reason; it's very hard to persuade him to drink plenty of fluids, but when it comes to ice cream, he loves it.
@GardenGerty (170591)
• United States
Just now
I would think rice or warm bread. I do not eat much in the way of fried foods.
@DaddyEvil (178391)
• United States
10h
If I'm cooking for more than just Pretty and I, then I make meat, two veggies, some type of bread and a drink (usually water for me whatever the other people would like to drink.) If I'm just cooking for Pretty and I, I make some type of meat, one veggie (I ask Pretty what she'd like) and some type of bread. If we want drinks, we can get them ourselves.
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@May2k8 (20152)
• Indonesia
7h
My older brother doesn't like meat, though everyone at home generally enjoys vegetables. Everyone has their own preferences, so we need to know what they like to ensure no food goes to waste.
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@DaddyEvil (178391)
• United States
5h
@May2k8 You know you can freeze most food so nothing goes to waste, right?
@rakski (161222)
• Philippines
8h
My grandma is like that too
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@May2k8 (20152)
• Indonesia
7h
like going back to their childhood.
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@rakski (161222)
• Philippines
7h
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@May2k8 (20152)
• Indonesia
7h
@rakski The older one gets, the greater the likelihood of that happening.
@nawala123 (23100)
• Indonesia
8h
Of course yes. At least tofu or tempe. Btw your soup is better if you serve fried tempe too
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@May2k8 (20152)
• Indonesia
7h
I don't mind; sometimes I only eat rice with sambal.
@AmbiePam (127023)
• United States
6h
Fried food is so bad for us. We need to get as much healthy as we can in our bodies, especially as we get older.