Please don't ask me a question if you don't want me to answer honestly
By Jimbo45
@Ineeddentures (44597)
September 15, 2026 6:32pm CST
Please don't ask me a question if you don't want me to answer honestly
Long story short
Woman in hot tub asks me what I thought of her ill fitting bikini and asked me if i thought she looked hot
Clearly had to much Prosecco
Mid 40,s, ridiculous really dark brown tan, skin all dried up and a face like a man and quite stocky
So I told her I didn't think she looked hot and also I would be worried about the risk of skin cancer given her tan and dried up skin and also respectfully suggested the wee thong bikini bottoms she was wearing were not a good choice for a variety of reasons.
I wasn't rude
But I wasn't lying.
Wish I had taken a photo for you all to see
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10 responses
@MommyOfEli2013 (93189)
• Rupert, Idaho
2h
Well that is good you can be honest without being rude at least. Doesn't sound like a fun situation
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@MommyOfEli2013 (93189)
• Rupert, Idaho
1h
@Ineeddentures That is a real bummer that you wish you would have stayed home after paying a lot.
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@Ineeddentures (44597)
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2h
Her skin looked like a dirty baked potato
I've paid a lot of money for this vacation
And wish we had stayed at home
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@rakski (161283)
• Philippines
3h
@Ineeddentures
oh that is right.
well, enjoy the rest of your vacation
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@Ineeddentures (44597)
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2h
@rakski
Another bus trip today
Yay for us.
Going to Balloch, it's a wee town at the end of Loch Lomond
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@Ineeddentures (44597)
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5h
Can't take pictures of people in hot tubs here Raquel
Could have got us thrown out of the resort
And we won't be home until Monday.
Don't want to spoil our last week of vacation
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@snowy22315 (212807)
• United States
5h
Umm, I think I would have said something like not my style or something and left it there. There is a fine line between being honest and humiliating someone.
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@snowy22315 (212807)
• United States
5h
@Ineeddentures OK, but that isn't how you wrote it. I saw a sportscaster who did look like a woman..but her voice was as deep as a mans. She had a female name though so I guess she was. Not sure a real trans woman's would be big into sports, but then there is Caitlin Jenner.
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@Ineeddentures (44597)
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5h
Not at all.
I didn't humiliate her,
I told her I didn't think she was hot
And that her "garment" didn't cover what it was supposed to cover.
I actually thought it was a bloke in a bikini , maybe trans
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@Ineeddentures (44597)
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5h
@snowy22315
I think that is basically how I wrote it
There are hundreds of trans women really into sports,
It's been in the news a lot of late.
But they are just men, shouldn't be competing against women
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@toniganzon (80884)
• Philippines
6h
She asked. She got her answer.
Thanks for the warning.
You think I'm hot? 
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@toniganzon (80884)
• Philippines
1h
@Ineeddentures Yeah and that's an honest answer.
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@LeaPea2417 (40018)
• Toccoa, Georgia
2h
Wow, you said what I would think but couldn't bring myself to actually say to the person.
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@LeaPea2417 (40018)
• Toccoa, Georgia
2h
@Ineeddentures Sorry that happened to you.
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@Ineeddentures (44597)
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2h
She basically invited herself into our hot tub although Yvonne did say she was welcome to join us
She was quite drunk.
I was a bit shocked that she managed to get in without letting her Prosecco go and she didn't spill a drop
I got an eyeful, I was traumatised lol
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@Ineeddentures (44597)
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2h
@LeaPea2417
Yvonne thought it was funny
Said I am not cut out to be a diplomat
@lovebuglena (53241)
• Staten Island, New York
2h
What was her reaction to what you told her?
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@lovebuglena (53241)
• Staten Island, New York
2h
@Ineeddentures Good that she wasn’t offended.
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@Ineeddentures (44597)
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1h
@lovebuglena
Too stupid to be offended or embarrassed I think
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@Ineeddentures (44597)
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2h
She giggled and knocked back a big glass of Prosecco
Saying she bet I had enjoyed the view.
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@Ineeddentures (44597)
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6h
I couldn't believe it when Yvonne said she could get into the hot tub with us when she asked Yvonne if it was alright
Yvonne was being mischievous lol
@Ineeddentures (44597)
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2h
Maybe
But I chose to speak
And I honestly thought I was doing her a favour mentioning the disappearing thong !!
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..I wouldn't want her to feel bad