An FB post that hit me the wrong way

@sissy15 (13515)
United States
September 20, 2026 12:44pm CST
Just saw someone actually post something that blew my mind and decided not to comment to keep the peace, but I find what they posted completely idiotic. It was a meme saying paying 4 dollars for a gallon of gas sucks, but they found it ironic that those same people would pay 9 dollars for a small fancy coffee. There is so much wrong with this comparison. First, I have never in my life paid 9 dollars for a single small cup of fancy coffee. I have paid six dollars at most for a medium cup of coffee, and not on a regular basis. One occasional splurge for a cup of coffee is not the same as 4 dollars (actually more in a lot of places) PER gallon of gas, where it costs over 60 dollars to fill up a car to get to places you NEED to go. The fact that they thought this was a smart post boggles my mind. I can easily go without a fancy coffee to save money, but we HAVE to go to work and get groceries. The comparison sounds absolutely idiotic. I have found people using this ideology when they don't have an intelligent answer to explain how ridiculous things are. They use it when they refuse to admit they're being taken by someone they voted for. They have explained away every single bad thing someone does and refuse to admit when they are wrong. No matter what the person does, they make an excuse for it or say it isn't true and instead bring something forward about someone else instead of admitting that someone is wrong. I have never seen a loyalty quite like this during my lifetime, and it baffles me. Let me be very clear about something: I am not a liberal. I am also not a conservative. I've been politically middle-of-the-road the majority of my life. I was raised in a very conservative family. I have beliefs that fall on both sides, and I have always believed that anyone who goes too far left or too far right is going to cause problems. I have made mistakes when voting in the past because it's hard to know how someone will do until they're in office, but when you have flat-out seen the mistakes and continue to vote for them, it baffles me. I have defended people I didn't like because I believe in honesty. I don't believe in placing blame when it doesn't lie with said person, no matter how much I don't like them. I don't believe gas prices are always the president's fault, but some choices the president makes can directly impact gas prices. I think people really need to open their eyes and see what is in front of them, and stop making excuses. Most of the posts I have seen from certain supporters lately haven't had an ounce of fact in them but rely heavily on opinions and feelings instead of any logic or fact. If you know what a straw man fallacy is, you'll know that politics often heavily relies on this tactic. It never uses actual reason or logic, and it's something I've been seeing a lot in conservatives lately. I have seen liberals use it a lot in the past and took issue with it then too. This isn't even about political parties anymore; it's more about using our brains to see the real issues instead of letting our emotions lead the way. People who are narrow-minded and refuse to change their opinions when new facts and evidence present themselves are often the most uneducated people I've ever met. This goes for each side. I will always listen and take in the new information and weigh it against other information, and I have been known to change my opinion. I believe people should have the character to admit when they are wrong and try to change to better themselves. Old habits die hard, and I know that. I know it's difficult to admit mistakes and try to change. We have all been wrong in our lifetime because we are human. We can either sit and be ignorant, or we can change and try to do better, but what do I know? I'm only human.
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@celticeagle (194384)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Sep
Prices in some areas of the U. S. is outrageous. I think your last paragraph says so much. Some people seem like they think they are better than others. I so agree with what you are saying.
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@sissy15 (13515)
• United States
21 Sep
While there are definitely people who think they are better, a lot of the time it is less about them thinking they're better and more about just thinking they're right, even when all of their evidence is wrong. People just hate admitting when they're wrong, and it's easier to keep arguing even though everything they have said has been disputed because they are so deep into their opinion that they refuse to see logic or reason.
@celticeagle (194384)
• Boise, Idaho
23 Sep
@sissy15 ..........reminds me a lot of my ex husband.
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@RasmaSandra (101311)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
20 Sep
I usually don't pay attention to all the odd and sorted posts I looke to see what people i know have posted,
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@sissy15 (13515)
• United States
21 Sep
She is someone I know. It's a cousin. She's quite a bit older than me and stuck in her ways. She refuses to see things as they are and thinks everything is the way it was in the past, or so it seems.
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@AmbiePam (128143)
• United States
21 Sep
Girl, we’re back to someone we mentioned the other night. They seem to migrate issues rather easily. Said person said there was no rhyme or reason for gas going up…I said, oh, there’s a reason… You are so busy you probably don’t even remember us talking about the “person” who says low income people make excuses. This person wanders to other issues easily. I don’t think it’s a secret I’m a conservative, but I have never been a MAGA follower, and I do not always vote for conservatives. I mainly do, but good grief, how many times do people play the fool? Incidentally, I don’t drink coffee, have never been to a Starbucks, and won’t pay nine bucks for any blasted drink.
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@sissy15 (13515)
• United States
22 Sep
I have been to Starbucks and think it's highly overrated. I prefer a local coffee place in my town and only go there on very rare occasions. I actually do remember that conversation. People like that seem to know very little about the things they're talking about but somehow manage to form opinions around them anyway. The gas prices are going up due to the war. Crude oil is bought and sold on the global market, so when something big like, I don't know, a conflict with Iran happens, it creates a supply and demand chain reaction. Even though most of the US oil supply actually comes from the US, since it is bought on the global market, it actually causes gas prices to raise here too. The president doesn't directly set prices, but the decisions he makes can cause gas prices to raise. He took credit when gas prices were low during the pandemic, when they were only low because no one was out and driving. He didn't have anything to do with that unless he was the one who caused COVID. Individual states chose whether people were in lockdown or not; it was never a federal decision, and thus he had nothing to do with the gas prices then, but he sure took credit, and his supporters were quick to give it to him. We won't even begin to get into COVID vaccines, and how most of his camp was against them and still are nevermind HE actually got vaccinated, but that's a discussion for another day. I am not anti-conservative. There are plenty of decent conservative people out there who aren't complete idiots, but then there are the other supporters who all seem completely blinded by everything their leader, who carries felonies, tells them. I have voted for both sides. I would have loved if McCain had won and was so bummed he didn't, but he chose a terrible running mate in Palin who was basically an idiot. McCain was a conservative who was closer to the center politically. He would have listened to everyone in a way that anyone far left or right would not have. Palin just screwed him over, especially after she ranted about how parents who have pregnant teen daughters are terrible because they should know where their child is, and then, shocker, her daughter ended up as a pregnant teenager. Those words really came back to bite her.
@JudyEv (389021)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Sep
Some people never think through their arguments. It's probably best that you didn't answer. Some people/arguments aren't worth worrying about.
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@sissy15 (13515)
• United States
21 Sep
That's pretty much where I am at. I won't argue with people because ultimately it does no good. They will never change their opinion because they refuse to admit when they're wrong. I learned a long time ago that you can't change someone's mind if they don't want to be changed, and it just brings me down to their level.
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@Wrexxo (8298)
•
20 Sep
The gas vs coffee comparison never made sense to me either, it's like comparing a need to a treat. Honestly refreshing to see someone call out bad reasoning without picking a side. We could all use more of that kind of thinking tbh.
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@sissy15 (13515)
• United States
20 Sep
The issue with picking sides is that instead of gathering all of the evidence, you cherry-pick through it to make your argument instead of seeing the whole picture, which causes more issues. You can look for evidence to support your claims and form an opinion based on information, but completely ignoring all of the evidence because you don't like what it is telling you is idiotic.
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