Some things make me think even harder about safety

@MarieCoyle (63343)
September 23, 2026 7:01pm CST
I've been pretty much in shut down mode since yesterday afternoon. It was not intentional. At a little after 5 PM, I left the hospital complex to head home. Familiar route, I know the traffic patterns, but of course I was in the 5 o'clock traffic. It happens. The hospital is about 6 blocks from the main big intersection that I have to go to in order to turn north and head out for home. Waiting in a left turn lane, 2 state police helicopters swooped really low right over the line of cars. Scary! Shook the car...I turned and we were at a standstill. So many police cars and one helicopter landed in a nearby parking lot. My son turned on a live feed we both have on our phones and have rarely even used, two men got in some type of argument at McDonald's and one pumped bullets into another one...and then he disappeared, fast. They have had drones and dogs and many law enforcement people out and about. They still haven't caught the shooter. Yes, many of us hear of shootings in nearby cities and towns quite frequently. It happens, unfortunately. But for some reason, it really shook me up, I try so hard to be safe and travel safely and be aware of my surroundings. But no one can see everything or read people's minds. Son and I were talking while we sat there waiting, with the doors locked of course, and the windows up. Since the shooter was on the loose law enforcement was checking with every driver and every vehicle. Finally, we were allowed to slowly continue, get out of the city and head home. We try to stay safe...but no matter what, no one can predict the actions of others. This one hit home hard, as it happened so close. When we reached home, I think I just shut down for the night.... I evidently shook me up more than I thought it did. I use the road by that McDonald's all the time. We don't go there, but there is a side road there that leads to places we need to go to. Be aware. Be as safe as you can be.
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7 responses
• United States
5h
You just never know when someone’s going to go crazy
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• United Kingdom
5h
@LooeyVille That is the scary part. You can be careful and aware of your surroundings, but you still cannot predict what someone else might do.
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@MarieCoyle (63343)
5h
No, we don’t. All we can really do is to be as aware as we possibly can be.
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@MarieCoyle (63343)
5m
@septabchips No, we can't. No one knows what someone else might do.
@AmbiePam (127822)
• United States
5h
The helicopter thing would have really freaked me out.
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• United Kingdom
5h
@AmbiePam The helicopters would have scared me too! Seeing them suddenly swoop so low over the traffic would make you wonder what was happening, especially before you knew the reason.
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@MarieCoyle (63343)
3h
We have never seen one swoop so low over traffic like that before.
@jstory07 (149790)
• Roseburg, Oregon
5h
It seems like there are a lot of people shooting each other lately. It even happens in this small town.
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• United Kingdom
5h
@jstory07 It is worrying when something like that happens even in a small town. You would think smaller communities might feel safer, but unfortunately violence can happen anywhere.
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@MarieCoyle (63343)
3h
@septabchips Yes, it can. I don’t want to be scared all the time and live life like that, but I am more aware of my surroundings than I’ve ever been before.
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@rakski (162149)
• Philippines
2h
that is really scary. We just really need to be careful every time
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
Just now
There's staying safe and there is living life in fear. The latter I refuse to do.
@septabchips (1827)
• United Kingdom
5h
That sounds genuinely frightening, especially being so close to where everything was happening and knowing the shooter was still out there. I can understand why it affected you more than you expected. You did the right thing by staying in the car, keeping the doors locked and waiting until it was safe to leave. It is a good reminder that sometimes things happen completely outside our control.
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@LadyDuck (509288)
• Italy
Just now
What a scary moment. I know we live in dangerous times, but when something happens so close where you are it's really frightening.