When You Have Your Doubts
By RasmaSandra
@RasmaSandra (101270)
Daytona Beach, Florida
September 25, 2026 3:58pm CST
In the film "Dracula" (1931), the quote goes: "They're all crazy except you and me. Sometimes I have my doubts about you.”
An asylum employee says this to a nurse who works there. It fondly reminded me of some of the best friends I have ever had in my life and how sometimes we did such crazy things you would have to wonder. A very dear friend of mine from high school days was my good buddy hanging around NYC, particularly in the summertime, and often we went wandering, winding up in some bar for a cold beer.
One time we entered a small, dark bar and saw that no one was there. It being late afternoon, we wondered where everyone was. We got our beer and then we noticed some strange things. They put a chair in front of the open door as if to not let anyone else in. It was odd. I looked at him and he at me and we decided whatever strange things might or might not happen, we did not want to get involved, So we paid up and walked around the chair and were happy to be back in the sunshine.
With sadness I have to say this buddy of mine always kept in touch even when I was in Latvia. He said we would laugh about all those crazy times when we were old and gray. Unfortunately, he went through some tough times and took his own life. I sure miss that guy.
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@celticeagle (194322)
• Boise, Idaho
16h
I love every bit of the 1932 Dracula.
Old friends are the best. I just hooked up with one I hadn't spoken to in a couple of years. So very sad that your friend did that.
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@RasmaSandra (101270)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16h
@celticeagle It was devastating and I think if I had been there in the US and in NYC before he did that i might have been able to stop him,
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@wolfgirl569 (141025)
• Marion, Ohio
16h
He sounds like he was a wonderful friend
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@RasmaSandra (101270)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16h
@wolfgirl569 He was, but I did get a bit miffed at him leaving me in this world like that. Then I realized I knew the reason he did what he did and just hoped he would be forgiven in the next life
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@LeaPea2417 (40038)
• Toccoa, Georgia
17h
Oh my goodness. I am so sorry your long time friend took his own life. So sad. There was this guy from High School and College who was a pal of mine. We honestly were just friends, no romantic notions. I kept in touch with him until my first child was born. He even met my first child when he was a baby. The last time I heard from him was 32 years ago. Then, nothing. I have tried finding him on Facebook and never found him. I am hoping he is still alive somewhere.
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@JudyEv (389020)
• Rockingham, Australia
10h
We have that saying here and use it often between ourselves and with our friends.
@Ineeddentures (46088)
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15h
Really sad that the guy took his own life Sandra
But at least he decided what the terms of his end of life would be
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