User-Friendly Gestures: Can You Endure It
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (141971)
Philippines
September 25, 2026 10:25pm CST
It has been a month since a virtual friend in a livestream ignored me. In short, he was unable to join my livestream because of a gifter's request. Since then, he has stopped entering or visiting my livestream. It's okay with me because he only recognizes me when he needs something. It is commonly said that someone is a user-friendly soul in this world. I have a big heart, so I brush off the idea of knowing them like this. At the back of my mind, they can still change to a new leaf. However, it never happens for some, and that includes him.
What is your standpoint in dealing with a user-friendly person?
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@valherma00 (6185)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
29 Sep
sweet dreams by annie lennox says it all. there are so many people out there who want to use us and you did a great thing here. i like how you're chilled about this and stay like that
in my case, i hate to be surroudned with these kind of people but at work, it's hard to run away from them
in my case, i hate to be surroudned with these kind of people but at work, it's hard to run away from them1 person likes this
@Shavkat (141971)
• Philippines
10 Oct
@valherma00 As long as we know what is right or wrong and that would be fine.
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@valherma00 (6185)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
8 Oct
@Shavkat me too but at work or at the street, the most of us are in a survival mode, i think. but, yes, i hate pleasing too.
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@Wrexxo (11110)
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26 Sep
That's rough, but honestly you sound like you already know his pattern won't change much. Some people just show up when they need something and disappear the rest of the time, and it's not really on you to keep giving chances. Protecting your energy for people who actually show up for you sounds like the better move here.
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