Started Purging Mother-In-Law’s Closet Today

United States
October 4, 2026 7:38pm CST
I had mentioned here on myLot several months ago that it was our goal to reduce the number of clothes and shoes in the mother-in-law‘s closet Having too many things can be a huge agitation for a patient with Alzheimer’s and we wanted to simplify her life Well, she had a couple of issues come up in the meantime so we didn’t follow through with it until today While I was there checking on her medication situation and she was out with my brother and sister-in-law I took the opportunity to take some of her summer clothes and shoes. I don’t think she’s going to notice the missing clothes because I didn’t take that many and I filled in the gaps in the closet, but she’s definitely going to notice the missing shoes and probably have an absolute fit when she does. I took four pair of sandals and all of her shorts because summer is over and she never wore shorts the whole season. I took 14 short sleeve shirts. I’m going to keep all of the shorts and two pair of the sandals to return to her next year when it’s summer again. But I’m going to give away the shirts because she has four times as many still in the closet. We’re definitely going to give away all of her shirts that have buttons on them because she can no longer figure out how to navigate buttons. At some point, we’re going to receive that “ meltdown” phone call when she figures it out, but we really are doing what’s best for her.
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@MarieCoyle (63788)
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19h
You will no doubt get a call about something you took from the closet, but it was all summer stuff and summer is basically over and done with. If you took 14 short sleeved shirts and she has that many left that’s an insane amount of shirts anyway.
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• United States
19h
Yes that’s always been the problem. She started out with over 400 articles of clothing.
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@MarieCoyle (63788)
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15h
@LooeyVille Sounds like she could have started her own store!
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@rakski (162461)
• Philippines
17h
Good luck to you on your MIL's soon to be meltdown. But I get your point and it is good she has people around her who care
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@AmbiePam (129533)
• United States
20h
It was good to do it without her around.
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@FourWalls (88386)
• United States
18h
I hope you’re pleasantly surprised that she doesn’t have a negative reaction.
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@RasmaSandra (101287)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
Just now
Glad you are at least trying to do the best you can for her, I keep her in my prayers,
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@thelme55 (79976)
• Germany
2h
I hope she will not get angry when she noticed the missing clothes and sandals.
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@wolfgirl569 (141175)
• Marion, Ohio
7h
It's good to get that started
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@JudyEv (389008)
• Rockingham, Australia
15h
I think just taking a few at a time is a good way to deal with it.
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@JohnRoberts (106621)
• Los Angeles, California
10h
You just have to do it.
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@Wrexxo (8878)
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15h
Sounds like a hard but loving move. Less clutter really can calm things down for someone with Alzheimer's, so you're doing right by her. Hope the shoe meltdown call is a gentle one when it comes.
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