Why?
By Toni
@toniganzon (82614)
Philippines
October 30, 2026 6:38pm CST
An office of the Bureau of Jail Management Penology came to my work yesterday.
He's a man in his 60s and well dressed.
What I didn't appreciate is that he's touchy! When he talks to me he places his hands on my shoulders.
Does he do that coz he sees me the way he does his daughter? Probably. I would like to think that.
But the next time he comes in, I will have the staff talk to him.
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8 responses
@toniganzon (82614)
• Philippines
3h
He's s stranger and I don't like it coming from a stranger.
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@kaylachan (86868)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
6h
Just tell him you don't like that. If he still continues, go up the chain of command. He needs to hear it from you, first.
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@snowy22315 (214362)
• United States
8h
Good idea...hands on shoulders is too familiar.
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@toniganzon (82614)
• Philippines
8h
Yes, but he was a stranger.
I'm just not comfortable when a stranger does that to me. So yeah, I'm avoiding him next time he comes in.
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@moffittjc (128848)
• Gainesville, Florida
8h
That's not really appropriate for a stranger to do that.
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@2ndchances24 (12469)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
6h
There should be no reason for any 1 touching you
when they come up to you for a conversation specially a
stranger, that's rude & uncalled for.
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@JudyEv (390578)
• Rockingham, Australia
52m
People need to be considerate of stuff like this. Hopefully he just doesn't think about how his touching might affect others.
