Do you think 8 is too young for a mobile phone?

@nhtpscd (1416)
Australia
December 17, 2006 5:32pm CST
My ex wants to give my 8 year old her own phone to keep on her where ever she goes. Do you think this is too young. Let me know your thoughts
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24 responses
@megs85 (3142)
• Australia
27 Dec 06
I think that to give an 8 year old a mobile phone is disgusting. If you cant supervise your child well enough that they require one, perhaps you neednt have children at all. What good parent lets their 8 year old out of their sight long enough to need one, besides at school wher mobiles are banned and teachers are supervising them, or at a friends house where hopefully there is an adult around to care for them- otherwise they shouldnt be at their friends house. Cmon, what a stupid question, as if you didnt know the answer to this already. Pft.
@nhtpscd (1416)
• Australia
27 Dec 06
Please read the post carefully it is not me that wants to give her the phone it is her father who only sees her 1 day per fortnight It explaind my daughter only goes to school and is with an adult at all other times.
@ahsanxr (341)
• Pakistan
25 Dec 06
i do think that 8 is a very young age for a child to own a mobile phone. a child should be atleast 14 to own a cell phone.
@iyamapa (259)
• Philippines
27 Dec 06
i think 14 is still young what more an 8 yr old
@calvin222 (1606)
• India
21 Dec 06
8 is definitly too young for a cell. the cell offers uncontrolled and unmonitered access to the world outside and makes a child accessible to people outside, definitly not good.
@nhtpscd (1416)
• Australia
21 Dec 06
Thanks for agreeing 8 is too young
@lsen06 (4998)
• India
23 Dec 06
yes,it is.
@nhtpscd (1416)
• Australia
23 Dec 06
thanks for the reply yep I think she is too young
@shiboleth (270)
• Canada
18 Dec 06
A mobile is good to have in case of emergency. If your child is lost or if somebody tires to hurt her, then she can call you for help.
@nhtpscd (1416)
• Australia
18 Dec 06
other than school she goes no where without me. Thanks for the response
@tba123 (457)
• United States
23 Dec 06
Does she go places by herself a lot? If so a prepaid phone might be a good option so y'all can get a hold of her when you need her and in case of emergency she can get a hold of y'all. Other than that I can't think of why a 8 year old would need a cell phone. There is the landline to talk to friends with. To me a cell phone for chatting is a big responsibility for a 8 year old, just my 2 cents.
@nhtpscd (1416)
• Australia
23 Dec 06
nope she goes no where as I stated before except for school. thanks for your reply
• United States
17 Dec 06
That's pretty young. Does she have a lot of afterschool activities where she needs to call you to pick her up? If so, it may be a good idea. Make sure she doesn't take it to school. I'd definately do one where she can only call parents on it too.
@nhtpscd (1416)
• Australia
17 Dec 06
Nope from school to home. I think he is using it as a tool to make out he is a better parent. Thanks for the response
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
17 Dec 06
Of course it is too young. You even have to ask. I dont even think teenagers should have one. It is out of control. Get a grip on your childred and yourself.
@nhtpscd (1416)
• Australia
17 Dec 06
Hy thanks for the response. I said no but he is still trying through my daughter. My 16 year old only just got heres for her birthday
@Bbilal (1998)
17 Dec 06
mobile - mobile
Yeah it is, but hope for the best=p
@nhtpscd (1416)
• Australia
17 Dec 06
Thanks for the reply. If it shows up I will just be a meany and hide it from her. Perhaps even send it back to him via reg. post
@mauier113 (688)
• Philippines
17 Dec 06
It depends. If your 8-year old cban handle having a mobile phone. Why not? If it is for her security that you would want to know her whereabouts, then go. Nowadays, in this age of technologies coming in, having a mobile phone is already a commom thing.
@nhtpscd (1416)
• Australia
17 Dec 06
Don't think he has security in mind as they only places she goes is school or is accompanied by me. Thanks for the reply
@bsabers (668)
• United States
17 Dec 06
I think it all depends on the situation. Of course having a cell phone is always important in case of an emergancy, or things like that. But at 8 years old, obviously she won't be out driving or anything like that, and usually there will be supervision at all times on the 8 year old. Very rarely do I see just 8 year old girls walking around together without an older adult. So I would say no to the cell phone. Just starting a bad trend at a young age. We don't want our kids to everyday start depending on a cell phone. Especially at such a young age.
@nhtpscd (1416)
• Australia
17 Dec 06
my daughter is either at school at home or with him. She doesn't go even to the local shop alone. I thought I was right in telling him know I just wanted to know how others felt. Thanks for the reply
@tanaclark (570)
• United States
18 Dec 06
PERSONALLY YES BUT THESE DAYS THE WAY KIDS GROW UP SO FAST AND OUR BUSY LIVES I THINK IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE CHILD AND SITUATION.
@nhtpscd (1416)
• Australia
18 Dec 06
Thanks for the reply. At present I am a stay at home mum and my daughter only has school which I pick her up and drop her off at
• United States
17 Dec 06
my take on it...when theyre old enough to pay the bill then they can have one. if they get the bill paid they keep it. or if the parent is going to pay for it i say 13. but for an 8 year old get her one of those phones where you can program like 4 numbers into it. so she can only call those four numbers. like ur work or the house number, in case an emergency does arise. and u dont have to worry about her calling timbuktoo
@nhtpscd (1416)
• Australia
17 Dec 06
No he was going to pay it not me. I worry because it will get used to play games etc instead of doing her school work. Thanks for the response
• United States
17 Dec 06
Way too young..they should still be with an adult. This might be the age of technology but there has to be some limits.
@nhtpscd (1416)
• Australia
17 Dec 06
Thanks cole for your response I feel the same way. I recon today technology is pushed way too young. My grade 2 needed a calculator
@14missy (3183)
• Australia
1 Jan 07
When my husband and I were separated I bought my daughter a mobile phone. She was 9 years old then. I wanted her to be able to ring me if she felt unsafe or I could contact her if she was with him and away somewhere for the weekend. She was very good and didn't abuse the system at all. I think if you give some children resposibility, they will go with it and make you proud. My daughter is now 12 and has another phone which is now more a fashion accessory. Oh well it worked when I needed it to.
@utsadetti (4589)
• United States
28 Dec 06
sure it is.
@vikceo (1301)
• India
29 Dec 06
nope this is absolutely wrong to do so. you should not alow such a small kid to keep a cell phone. children do have bad effects of such things as they do not know the importance of such things.
@sunnypub (2128)
• United States
17 Dec 06
I have an eight year old daughter and I would not let her heave a cell phone right now. She never goes anywhere that I don't know about and she is always with another adult so I don't see a reason for a cell phone.
@nhtpscd (1416)
• Australia
17 Dec 06
It is his little power trip. I think he just wants to play bigdaddy nothing more.
@rhorry93 (164)
• United States
1 Jan 07
8 might be pushing it. I would say 10 or 11 would be the earliest. Only because you would be somewhat more responsible at that age.
• United States
28 Dec 06
I don't think it's too young. We gave my daughter a cell phone when she was 9. With everything happening in the world, a cell phone is rapidly becoming a life saver. I want her to be able to call us whenever there may be an emergency. We are going to upgrade to a GPS phone for her when she is 13 :-)