Am I boring you?
By ginagee
@ginagee (843)
January 30, 2007 4:47am CST
I just want to ask because though I've only been a member a short while nobody has requested to be my friend aaah! It's not that I'm feeling paranoid, well maybe I am, but I'm wondering what I have to do or say that would encourage others to ask me? Perhaps someone could give me some tips! I've posted discussions, I've replied to discussions, I've filled in my profile even added photos. I don't think I've offended anyone or been rude, perhaps I'm too boring - well whatever the reason can people please respond and put a nutty old woman out of her misery!!
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79 responses
@iamiramadnama (421)
• Canada
31 Jan 07
Hmm.. I don't know if I want a desperate person being my friend. There's not telling what a desperate person will do! Perhaps no one has come across you yet, and with the number of posts people get in a day, it's not suprising.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
31 Jan 07
Well, I have many people I have added personally as Friends, and some of them have become really Good friends. Sometimes you might have to be the one to ask, but since you are New sometimes it takes a person getting known around here to be able to get a lot of friends on here as well. I have never really figured it all out though either, and I have been here for almost 5 months now, and still having Fun.
@vivek6831 (211)
• India
31 Jan 07
I just want to ask because though I've only been a member a short while nobody has requested to be my friend aaah! It's not that I'm feeling paranoid,well maybe I am, but I'm wondering what I have to do or say that would encourage others to ask me? YOU ARE NOT BORING ME.YOU ARE ENTERTAINING ME VERY MUCH...
@kidstaxi1971 (48)
• United States
30 Jan 07
Well, I am starting to be paranoid to. I have only been here a few days to and nobody has asked me to be their friend either. So sad. When you figure out how to get friends let me know.
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@alpha_scan (353)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
Don't get upset okay. Chher up. Post interesting topics so that members would respond. Good luck to you and I wish you all the best.
@wesker311 (508)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
i've invited you to be friends with me i hope you'd accept! anyway i dont think your boring and your picture is cute though! is that your daughter? goodluck on mylot!
@yanjiaren (9031)
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31 Jan 07
me iz da mad greek ..da edmontonian quee3n o' bling wivout da bling cos i iz not got da dosh to buy it sis..me iz nutty to da extreme..count me in as one o' da bredren yo' an' ya betta av' da plantain ready when i iz landin' in london yo"..i love plantain!!!
@ginagee (843)
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31 Jan 07
When I posted this discussion I did not have any friends which is why I asked the question and now I'm inundated with requests ha! As I've said before I'd rather have friends that are interested in the same sort of things so we can get some good discussions going - hopefully!!
@Sweetpeas (738)
• Australia
31 Jan 07
lol I noticed that too but thats ok as I see we have alot in common so Ill keep an eye for you anyhow wether we're 'friends' or not lol
@few00cent (2183)
• India
30 Jan 07
just one question to you ?..why don't you try to make friend ?..nautty woman..lol
see the thing is that people here actually got bored because no one really trying to be friend..just adding them in list for sake and blah..forget it !..if you make a search you will find that many people are complaning about there friend on some subject.usually people are adding here just to help each other by making post in discussion..respectively.
be regular and active i bet you will get many friend request.
@few00cent (2183)
• India
30 Jan 07
lol..you didn't make any comment on my post..why nautty why..lol...by the way who is on 3rd picture(2 girl)..i'll rate your picture they seem good ;)
@bosing143c (564)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
i am also new here in mylot and i would like you to be my friend and all the rest of mylotters who have responded/articulated well in the topics posted here. The problem is i dont know how. Although i was also requested by four or five members here to be my friend, it was easy becuz all i have to do is press the accept button. Will you be my friend? and please will somebody help us where can we find that request button?
@bosing143c (564)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
oh yeah thanks my friend and i'll look for it. since i've accepted you as my friend minutes ago, no to request your accepetance as my friend. ok with you?
@Gmens91 (389)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
Been here a week. I have one friend so far. I'm starting to feel lonely :(
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
31 Jan 07
don't feel lonely. i had been in this site for 5 months now, turning 6 on february. the first 2 months, i had no friends at all, now, my friends' list is up to more than 200 already. don't lose hope. you'll find more and more friends in days to come. cheer up!
@HeavenUnaware (1757)
• United States
30 Jan 07
Hi Gina
I'm new too and this is my first time seeing a discussion by you so that's why I didn't request to be your friend. I've actually only requested a couple of people - so don't feel like it's you. :)
You know, you can also request people to be your friend if you want. You do not have to wait for them. So get out there and start adding people to your friends list!
Good luck and welcome to MyLot!
@FrancyDafne (2047)
• Italy
31 Jan 07
Uhm.... I don't think you are boring or something like that. I think that the fact is that on myLot we are 64,329 persons, and it isn't so easy to ask everybody, or to give tips to the whole forum.
I have your same problem, till now almost nobody answered to the discussions I started, but I don't think it's a problem.
@FrancyDafne (2047)
• Italy
1 Feb 07
Yes, yes, I agree with you, you did well starting this discussion, it's nice :-)
@anne_143god (5387)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
It's okey ginagee you will have friends soon since you just new here maybe alot of people dont yet notice your post or your response but I'm sure after this post you will get alot of friends.
@theeverglow (32)
• Italy
30 Jan 07
I think that your avatar is not beautiful...Change it and friends will be more than now!
