What can I do to make sure that I will get married in this lifetime?

Just find the right one. have money, a house, a car, and a well-paying job. that should do it. at least for me that should work.

Never give up my friend..one day you'll have somebody. People cannot gain anything without sacrificing something, we have present something of equal value to gain something. Think about it. Thanks.

i had sent a quote from a poet yesterday"youth is not a time of life but a state of mind"

i don't think there's a surefire way of securing a married life eventually. heck, married couples can't even tell if their marriage will last. just be ready for it when it comes, i guess. if it's bound to come, it will. and when it does, just make sure you don't waste that opportunity. but if it doesn't, there's always next lifetime. just enjoy and be positive about what you'll end up with in this lifetime. besides, i know a lot of successful single women out there who are just so happy and content with their lives.

I think marriage could be a good thing for you if that is what you desire. I also feel old but I am in my 30's and have been married for 12 years this July.