Chatmates
@marief2rnurse (2704)
United States
February 6, 2007 8:37am CST
I'm sure a lot of you out there have had chatmates or email penpals. Some show a lot of interest in you then all of a sudden just disappear. Why do you think this is? What is the real reason for them to just stop contacting you... please share your experiences on this. Either they disappeared on you or you disappeared on someone, can you tell me why?
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
6 Feb 07
I'm not sure why people reach out to someof us we give them all we got with a wide opened mind and heart and our ears. We try to get to know them and try to tell them about ourselves and we no more than get going to have a nice friendship and they just disappear. That has happened to me several times. It leaves you wandering if you said or did something wrong. I don't think so, but still they could at least say it's been nice, see ya, LOL.
@Willowlady (10657)
• United States
6 Feb 07
I am one of those chatmates that may have disappeared. I was chatting a while back and then got busy at work, working double split shifts and so was not on enough to take the time to chat. I still send birthday cards, Christmas cards and the like. They also leave messages offline that I get when I sign in. Anything that needs responded to is done. I am still busy, catching up and now at this site that eats up your time. Those that had good repoir with me is still kept in the loop at our sites and off line messages and such. Hope this gives you some possible reasons so that you can understand.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
6 Feb 07
I'm not sure why people reach out to someof us we give them all we got with a wide opened mind and heart and our ears. We try to get to know them and try to tell them about ourselves and we no more than get going to have a nice friendship and they just disappear. That has happened to me several times. It leaves you wandering if you said or did something wrong. I don't think so, but still they could at least say it's been nice, see ya, LOL.



