i have a jealous friend..

@baby88 (696)
Singapore
February 6, 2007 6:47pm CST
hey guy, do u have friend who is always jealous of you? i hv a friend who is always jealous of me n from the way she speak or talk i can feel it. i just wonder y she's that kind of person? i always treated her very well n even treated her as a good friend but just dunno y? she seem like only pretending to be good with me. everytime when i have something to happy abt, she will try to do something else n seem like never like to bother abt me. do you guys hv friend like this? share with us.
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@sunita64 (6469)
• India
7 Feb 07
That is a very normal human behavior, Even I have some friends like that, they are very sympathesising if anything is wrong.But when things are on a better side I do not find them happy for me.
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@baby88 (696)
• Singapore
7 Feb 07
exactly
• United States
7 Feb 07
My ex-roommate was extremly jealous of me. It got to the point that we could no longer be friends. She wanted everything I had and if she couldn't have it then she didn't want me to have it. Our friendship finally ended when she went so far as to actually try to break up my marriage because she was single and jealous. Some people will just never be happy with what they have and will always want what someone else has, whether that is emotional things or physical things.
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@baby88 (696)
• Singapore
7 Feb 07
exactly same like me. they just never be happy.
@vendan (127)
• India
7 Feb 07
If a person is jealous, he/she is no more a friend.. So, dont care abt the person who is not ur friend!!
@baby88 (696)
• Singapore
7 Feb 07
u r right. thank you!
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
7 Feb 07
if all she worries about is what you have that she doesn't have, then your friendship is not as solid as you thought, maybe vendan is right.
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
Hi Baby, In my experience, I have one friend w/c has the same attitude as your friend. I feel that he's always against me. Whatever I want to do, he always had a negative feedback.... You know, If that's always the case, I can say that they are not worth to be our true friend....why? Coz a true friend, is the one who is always want to support you and help you in times of troubles, they're happy of whatever your achievements... If I were you, I will find another friend or friends who is worth of my care..... I hope, this short mesaage of mine will enlightened your mind.. Its meh, Gilmar
@baby88 (696)
• Singapore
7 Feb 07
thanks 4 ur advised..! i will see how.
• India
7 Feb 07
strat ignoring her she will understand ur priority .... just be calm and quite when ever she meets u
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• United States
7 Feb 07
That's an interesting question. I don't really know if I've ever had a jealous friend. I've had plenty of "friends" who only hung out with me because I was smart and could help them with their homework. I never had anything they could be jealous about because I was short for my age, had braces, etc. Nowadays I am really careful with the friends I choose to keep in my life; none of us are jealous of one another. Not seriously, anyway.
7 Feb 07
I don't think that you have to have something that they can be jealous of -- maybe it's something you can't see yourself, I mean, I don't think anyone really thinks of themselve as that 'amazing' lolz...
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
7 Feb 07
Basically most human beings are jealous one way or the other. It is rare to find a person who is not jealous.YOu should try to reform such people by telling stories who jealosy removes the fabric of friendship.
@baby88 (696)
• Singapore
7 Feb 07
i understand wat you mean but for me i will not be like this. i will always like to hear happy thing from my friends. i really don't get jealous so easily.
• United States
7 Feb 07
thats sad that your friend is like that. do you have better things or better life than her? thats te only thing i can think of her being jealous about. i find it kindof ridculas. she seems kindof fake. is she worth the trouble?
@samraf (725)
• India
7 Feb 07
friends friends and friends they are really hard to find one the one who is really royal to you and really know what friendship mean.. its really not possible to have more then couple of sincere freind along with you. anyways i got many of these kind of so called friends who really are just try to ruined my day or my night. they never got happy if ill be in happy mood they always try to ruined it . so its better to have less friend rather then having alot of jealous friends. Regards, Sam
• China
7 Feb 07
Yes,baby. I have these friends ever. but we don't contace with each other when time goes. When you meet this friend, don't feel angry and other, just think he jealous to me because I have many advantages which he haven't. Don't care about other's feeling and trear ourselves more well. Good luck, little girl.
@baby88 (696)
• Singapore
7 Feb 07
thank you!
@nawaab (168)
• India
7 Feb 07
well sorry but my views are a little different . .having a jealous friend gives or rather additional responsibiliteis on a person .. Now take this point in notice that they are "friends" .. and not just two people who sumhow managed to know each other . . And it is the duty of a friend to make sure that his/her friend do not gets indulged in sumthing wrong .. or if he/she is not feeling well for sum reason or other .. or if sumthing is troubling him . . it is d friend who should go and help him .. I am not saying that simply go to him and say .. Man I thin kyou are jealous of me ..this will even complicate the situation and but what you can do to be modest .. and help him to rise in the field he is lacking behind you and later on when again relationship gets better you can undoubtedly explain him the life is not all about competeting with other but infact it is about competeting woth yourself and keep track of whether you are doing better or not than what you used to do before (provided you yourself understand all this ) ,.. I had a many friends who at times are not comfortable with me .. but I am happy that I learnt a lot from them and developed a self cofidence as I could make them back to my old pals by talking to them and spending more time woth them
@ranmy1 (71)
• India
7 Feb 07
I too have similar friend like U have baby. He always compares the salary, the items I have and try to get things better than what I have. I guess everyone will have a friend like this...
@reaperz (1266)
• United States
7 Feb 07
everyone has friends like that! friends are always jealous of your talent, richness or something stupid...i don't know why they are jealous...though..?
@Chinese (55)
• Canada
7 Feb 07
Not really, If I have a jealous friend I'll just leave them alone
@donglory (677)
• Ghana
7 Feb 07
i dont have any friend who is jelous but i think a jelous friend is a bad friend yes i think so
7 Feb 07
Yeah, I do -- but I think that it's more out of insecurity than jealousy... Maybe she feels that you show off, or something, and that you're lucky to have all these good things happen to you... She may just feel that you get to do better things than her, or maybe she doesn't like you?
@vityota (878)
• India
7 Feb 07
i had a friend like this and i just called and told her on her face see dude i don like people interfering in my life like this and i would appreciate if you just mind your work and if you dont like me or are jealous of me for whatever the reason might be lets finish our friend ship here.. i think this is better rather than having friendship with such people
@andiruleu (310)
• United States
7 Feb 07
i dont think i have friends that are jealous of me? but i do have some friends that envy some parts of my personality.. but jealous over everything? that just seems a little scary dont you think? its like one of those movies.. when the killer is jealous of the person, and then the person that the killer is jealous is killed and then the killer becomes that person.. ahhhh!!
• India
7 Feb 07
i ain't got a single true frient till date. and the reason being, they are too jealous of me. i didn't realize this before but i can find out from the way they try to back-bit me, make fun of me among my friends, making me feel gulty of my small mistakes, and so on...
• Canada
7 Feb 07
I had a friend like that. Always jealous of stuff I did. Couldn't accept the fact how I lead my life. Couldn't trust his girlfriend. Was such a jealous guy. We're not friends anymore, his negative way of life was bringing me down and I ended it.