Can you say--You are Truly Happy and Satified with your life as it is today?

@mzbubblie (3839)
United States
February 11, 2007 3:13pm CST
Today, I was sitting back listening to some music and started to think about my life in general, from how I grew up to being married, then divorced, to now living as a single mother.... I've come a long way and now I can say, I'm happy and satified with my life thus far. Everything that I've been through in my time was another one of life lessons, however, it took time for me to see this, Those lessons make me a stronger positive woman...I'm happy to say I have a successful career where I can see myself living as happy as I am now. I have my own sense of independency which before, I didn't, as well as maintaing a bond and being a proud mother, raising another strong man in this world, Teaching him morals and values and about life in general...I can say I worked hard to get to where I'm at...and to me that makes me happy, proud, and feel even better about self... I know each day that passes by, There are some people stand by and witness how their lives are being lived without the full happiness and satisfaction they crave and need. I was one of them... Alot of people spend their time stressed out, worried and on a constant panic about what need to be done for their futures, raising their children, wired up over work, school along with everything else. I've found the only way I can live a happy and satisfied life is first and foremost start doing things that make me happy and satisfied. I didn't realize how much I neglected myself, feeling that it would be selfish if I took time out to focus on my own being. I forgot who I was and what mattered to me. I come to realize after some time that making myself one of my first priorities was in fact not selfish, it's actually obligatory to do so in order to succeed in the other subjects ans aspects of my life. Without a happy satisfied me, there was no happy and satisfied life because I was stressed and unhappy. I believe I consciously ignored my needs and desires, but my subconscious mind had not forgotten about me and constantly reminded me through stress, anger, sadness, insecurity and feelings of failure. I found that I had to start listening to myself, becoming my own bestfriend and supporter I needed for self. I realized no one was going to work on my happiness for me, I found the power and modivation stored up inside to direct myself into a path of happiness and satisfaction. With that being said, Can you say you are happy and satified with your life as of now? Where their obstacles you had to cross or even now facing to get that happiness?Or Do you feel you are not the first priority and continue to do for others rather than self? If you have any stories you would like to share, Please feel free to share...
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@shywolf (4514)
• United States
12 Feb 07
Mzbubblie, I'm so glad that you have found happiness and contentment within yourself! You are darn right when you say that we should be one of our own top priorities! *laugh* Not that we shouldn't love and care about other people, because we should - very much so - but not to the point that we neglect ourselves. I cannot at this time say that I am truly happy with my life. If and when I ever finally come out of my shell and become less shy, hopefully then I will feel like I've truly accomplished something. Until then, it's hard for me to accomplish my real goal of finding my true love, and I honestly don't feel that I'll ever be _completely_ happy until such a time as that. It really means more to me than anything else.. yet it is such an elusive thing to find, lol!
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@mzbubblie (3839)
• United States
12 Feb 07
Ohhhh MsShyWolf, remember we are in the "babystep" phase of your shyness :)...It's just going to take a little time.... I'm happy with so far what I've accomplished and continue to accomplish. I don't think I will ever be 100% happy because I'm always thinking of ways to better myself or do for my family... One thing I can say is every now and then, I do take time out for myself. My mother is a huge help to make that happen for me. During the summers, my son goes to stay with her until school starts back again. I have a few months to enjoy, Plus get my son prepared with the next school year...By the time he comes back, I have everything he needs except shoes..(he's real picky on that)..lol Thank you ms soon to be Wolf without the shy part :)
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@tp3144 (25)
• United States
11 Feb 07
I actually very content with my life right now. When I was growing up, I didn't even consider getting married or having kids, but now that I am, I can't imagine my life any other way. It's funny how things turn out sometimes.
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@mzbubblie (3839)
• United States
11 Feb 07
Yes it is...When I was younger the last thing on my mind was having children. Once my son was born, I tell you, my whole outlook on life changed. He modivated me to get out there to provide for us and make me stronger.. I'm couldn't be happier him being in my life... Thank you very much for responding...
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
12 Feb 07
Far as being happy with my life it could be better, but i am blessed and i know things could be alot worse than what they are.I am single mother of three and working full time.My financial situation is my problem and i am not recieving child support due to the fact the father is not working and not being a part of my kids life.So i am working on that issue and trying to start my own business to make things better for my kids and i.
@mzbubblie (3839)
• United States
13 Feb 07
Single Mother - A mother that is raising children(s) on her own...
I totally understand, I am a single working mother myself. I have one son. One thing I can say and you probably can relate, Atleast you can say you are independent and know within self you can provide for not only you but your kids..Trust, I had some rough times getting to where I am now...But, my child kept me modivated,positive, and I wanted a better life for him. He made me strong... I know I'm blessed everyday I wake up knowing I can do this myself. Good luck to you and yours..Also, as long as you stay positive, you will get through your schooling... I'm proud of you myself, speaking from single mother to single mother..
• United States
12 Feb 07
I am happy and satisfied with my life...to a point. There are still other things that I want to do, to try, and to add to my life. So, it will probably be a while before I can really look back and ask myself that question, because I feel that I still have so much more to do. I hope that there is a chance for me to do all that, and more. I want to make a positive difference in my life and that of others. I am doing alright so far, but I really hope that it gets better.
@mzbubblie (3839)
• United States
13 Feb 07
I agree, I'm happy with mine, although I have more dreams and goals for myself..I know they will come in time as I continue to be positive... Good luck with what you set out to do...Also, thank you for responding...
@lifeiseasy (2292)
• United States
12 Feb 07
I am fairly happy with my life right now ...a few years ago I wasn't ..but that has changed and I am glad for that ... I think that I have basically grown up and realized what does make me happy I was always trying to make someone else happy and that was bringing me down ...I agree with what you have said about making yourself a priorty ...you have to sometimes ...otherwise you don't apreciate all the things that go on around you ...it makes you say wow that was nice when you get to do something for yourself ...I love to do for other too and I get enjoyment out of that as well...
@mzbubblie (3839)
• United States
12 Feb 07
Very well said and very true...I was just like you at one point, I was not happy with my life..Now, I can say I'm happy... I love doing for others as well, I feel good about myself even more...KNowing I put a smile on someone(s) face.. As always thank you for responding mslady..
@rain07 (132)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
I just graduated from college last year and got my first job two months after. I was a Process Associate for GE Money Bank but after six months, I had to resign because of health concerns. I was doing well with the job bu there were a lot of times when I had to go home during office hours because I couldn't stand the pain in my stomach. Then I found out that it was because of gastritis. Good thing that it was diagnosed before it turns to ulcer. Now, at the age of 20, I'm still suffering from gastritis which hinders me from pursuing jobs which are stressful. I'm not working as of the moment that's why I can't really say that I'm satisfied with my life. I want to find a good job where I can work again and be able to learn new things and also to practice the skills that I have. I'm planning a lot for myself right now and I do hope that things will turn out great for me on the next career that I will be pursuing.
@mzbubblie (3839)
• United States
13 Feb 07
Well, I have faith in you and know that things will work out for you as you want them to. Just keep your head up, think and live positive... Everything happens for a reason good and bad, just another one of those life lessons we have to work through. You graduated, that's a plus and congratulations on that huge achievement... Thank you for responding...
@moneymind (10510)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
Nope not me, the fact is that i am still strugling to make my life better and that i needed to work to make life as bearable as possible. Also that i think that even those millionaires and or billionares are still looking for ways to make their wealth grow and that to me is being unsatisfied in life. greetings. : )
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
12 Feb 07
Oh I wish I was truly satisfied with my life, but if I was then life would get boring? Having everything in life and not striving to make life better. Think of it you had everything you desired and never had to improve or want for anything then you'd never know what real happiness is. I sometimes thing I have hardship in life then I look at disabled people and people who are blind and think, hey they are worse off than me, what reason do I have to be sorry for myself and yet they are mor happier than me, doesn't make sense! There is always someone worse off than yourself and thinking that makes me feel slightly better. In the real world no one is completely satisfied with their lot in life.
• United States
11 Feb 07
No one is ever going to be 100% happy. Even if everything seems to be going right, there's always going to be at least one tiny problem that's constantly in your life. Right now, yes, I'm happy. There's room for improvement, but I definitely can't complain.
@mzbubblie (3839)
• United States
11 Feb 07
Very true, That's why I can say I'm happy with my life...Not 100% because I'm always wanting to better myself and have goals set for myself.. Thank you for responding...
@vityota (878)
• India
11 Feb 07
i will tell you something no body is fully happy and satisfied in this world and we all are just living for the sake of living but one thing is if we have a positive and courageous approach towards our life than we can surely be happy with what we have
@mzbubblie (3839)
• United States
11 Feb 07
I understand no one is fully happy...That's why I said are you truly happy not totally happy... Also, yes we sure can be happy with what we have..I would agree with you...thank you for responding
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@vityota (878)
• India
11 Feb 07
i will tell you something no body is fully happy and satisfied in this world and we all are just living for the sake of living but one thing is if we have a positive and courageous approach towards our life than we can surely be happy with what we have
• United States
15 Feb 07
I am really happy with my life because I've made my decisions with conviction, and I've always done exactly what I felt was right for me. There are always roadblocks, or obstacles, that try and prevent us from achieving our true potential, but I believe we all have special purpose in this world. Sometimes I feel that doing for others is truly doing for myself, especially when I give without expectation. Every day is a blessing to behold, and I try my hardest to cherish every moment I have.
• United States
13 Feb 07
Wow. No its not. By now I was sure I'd be married (at 27) and not living at home with my parents in a new city I might add. I am jobless and still not in my career I went to college to get a B.A. for! So yeah I am not happy with my life totally not.