my mumjust phoned and my auntie just died..
By yanjiaren
@yanjiaren (9031)
March 13, 2007 3:27pm CST
Sorry guys but I won't be around much for the next couple of days or so till I really get my head around what life is all about..My mumm just called me half an hour ago that her sis..my Auntie died of a stroke and she was only 67 years old. It has made me realised hjow stressful life has been and what am I doing about it.
I also took drastic action today and cleared my inbox of every thing plus turned all friends notifications off..the friends that never respond to my discussions as I really need to orgasnise myself.If i see a discussion of theirs that is interesting then i will post,..I will post in my frinds that do post and also giveothers that are not on my friends list a chance. I am sorting my life out basically. I am sorry if ihaven't done enough for every one here..I have done my best..I feel a little discouraged today as I sent several pms tomy friend here and publically told her i need a reply aND I HAVEN'T RECIEVED ANY THING..I REALLY Hope i haven't offended her in any way..i feel soembarrassed to be rejected and not knowing why..So sorry as youknow who you are..if you are out there and want to send me a pm ..i reallly would be grateful as life is short and i never want to leave this life having offended any one..I f i have..i am really sorry..
it looks like my song was a waste of time too..
never mind..i won't be posting any more of those on here and make a fool of myself..thpough thanks for the fewe who politely said it was good..
i feel like a failure today and embarrassed..
bye
11 people like this
37 responses
@aidonia (4209)
• Greece
13 Mar 07
I'm really sorry for your aunt filenada but what are all this you talk about....I'm at your friend list and I don't care if you turn my notifications off this is not important....the important is how you feel.I can understand you are sorry for your aunt,but you was so happy with your song now why you feel embarrassed and failure?The song was nice and how much you care about your husband and him language is wonderfully.It was the first thing I did when my son came from him English lesson....I put he listen your song and believe he liked t a lot.OK I'll not say more here...I go to pm you.
2 people like this
@yanjiaren (9031)
•
13 Mar 07
thanksguys..for every thing..i need to go make tea..i am having a crying fit..sorry..love you all sorry..
1 person likes this
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
14 Mar 07
I am really sorry to hear the loss, this is irreparable.
Secondly, why did you have to think that way?? One or two bad example donot prove that ppl are bleak. Life is not all that drab, there have been ppl who do care and know how to care. I am sure you have good friends, count on them and not on the morons.
However, having said this, I do feel dejected and down at times. But then I tell myself that we cannot convince all to like my posts. Even I cannot relate to some posts and cannot respond to them even though with the strongest of intentions. And dear, there are friends who would respond to no matter what, they make sure to respond even to my stupidest of posts!! We are lucky to have them. Aren’t we ?
Sweet heart, donot ever think of leaving, take a break, do the bereavement, come back. We will be waiting for your post. Trust me, they are very special.
Smiles………
1 person likes this
@greengal (4286)
• United States
13 Mar 07
Oh yanji, I'm so sorry for your loss. And don't think you are a failure dear, maybe everybody hasn't seen your post on the song yet. You are the best and are always thinking of others, so don't feel bad at all. I checked your song in the morning but for some reason my system hanged so I had to reboot and haven't been able to get back since then. I will do it now I promise. It is not wrong to ask others for responses,I'm sure she will understand too. Here is a big HUGGGG to make you feel better. Take care!! :)
2 people like this
@doodlebug5250603 (1993)
• United States
14 Mar 07
I don't see that any of your post or discussions are a waste of time. i enjoy them, and i'm sure that alot of memeber here do aswell. I'm really sorry about your aunt. and i wish that i can do something to help you.
1 person likes this
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
14 Mar 07
I'm so sorry to hear about your aunt.. Take some time to reflect on her life and goodness, and know that the great spark that was her, cannot disappear. Life has great purpose. Evolution theory is actually outdated, more and more evidence everyday pointing to an intelligent designer.. and IF he is, he can only be Perfect, and that means the 'end' result of all this (life and human history) can only be the best possible 'end' result. Nothing else is possible. Prayers for you and your family dear..
1 person likes this
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
14 Mar 07
Sorry to hear about your loss. Take time to gather your thoughts, and think out what you want to do with your life, and then come back. Not everyone is going to understand and that is OK. Things do take time, and we are here for you when you decide to post again on here.
@GardenGerty (157562)
• United States
13 Mar 07
Sometimes the pms do not seem to work, or people who are really popular get really full. I have had that problem.People whom I expected to respond did not. I am sorry about your auntie, where did she live? I will say that if notify is off, messages might not get through, so if your friend had hers off,she might never have known. All of these losses that people go through can be really life changing. Again, I am sorry for your loss.
1 person likes this
@yanjiaren (9031)
•
13 Mar 07
the buttons were not working..i finally got pmed i am glad because i hate to lose a friend without reason..if i have been close with them especially..
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
14 Mar 07
Sorry about your loss. I know how it is, I've lost my unfair share of friends and relatives. Just do what you need to do to relax and get through it, and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers, along with the rest of your family.
1 person likes this
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
14 Mar 07
I am really sorry for your loss. It is understandable that u will be away for a time. When someone passes it really lets us know ho fragile life is and that usually makes people get thier in order.
once again -I am sorry for your loss!
1 person likes this
@Cephoozee (373)
• United States
14 Mar 07
I hate it when people die, even if I don't know them, but it makes you think of where they are. You know your aunt has to be in a much better place now, whether you believe in reincarnation of heaven after one life, it will most likely be better as it seems your aunt was a very nice person for having you care so much about her. I give my condolences, Yanji, take care of yourself ^.^
1 person likes this
@cachekitten (463)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
Ohh im sorry to hear that! All i can say to you is CONDOLENCE!
@raphael_volts (1131)
• India
14 Mar 07
Don't wory Yanjiaren, you definitly ain't a looser. Don't worry cause yes sometimes people do find it difficult to reply sometimes for some reasons so don't get sad. Its not your fault and you have been so good to everyone. Don't worry.... And about your aunt sorry to hear that but since every body has to go someday and it was her time. May GOD Bles Her soul.
You Take Care and no need to feel low
May GOD Bless YOU
@recycledgoth (9894)
•
14 Mar 07
I'm sorry to hear that hun, take the time you need, I'm sure your friends here won't mind and will completely understand. Please don't feel a fool or embarassed, it doesn't matter now. (hugs)
1 person likes this
@winky73 (1404)
• United States
14 Mar 07
I'm so sorry.....I understand that you are going through a very tough time right now.I'm sure that we can all understand if you need to have some time to yourself.Take all the time you need and get to feeling better.Just come back when you are ready and in the mean time....remember that we are thinking about you.
It's never wrong to ask a friend to there for you.....after all that's what friends are for.Take care!!!
1 person likes this
@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
14 Mar 07
Hey what kind of talk is this, chin up I think your song was fantastic. Sorry to hear about your Aunt. I think it is right that you take some time off, you have been crazy busy the last couple a weeks. Come back refreshed, you are one of the best here my friend, God Bless and take care
1 person likes this
@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
14 Mar 07
Hi.. I am very sorry to hear about this. God rest her soul.
Take as much time as you need. myLot should not be the center of your life. Have faith, be brave, my friend. ;-)
