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dlkuku @dlkuku (1935) • United States 9 Feb 08

My friend is a married woman who goes to church every Sunday. Last Sunday, after church she stopped at the grocery store she works at, and because she was dressed nice she got some comments about how pretty she looked which made...

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rcdrury Not at all. I'm saying nothing about your friend except that she made a error. Hopefully, she has the integrity to own up to it and show proper gratitude for his extension of kindness.

11 Feb 08

moms_the_word @moms_the_word (185) • United States 17 Jan 07

Suze Orman's Young Fabulous & Broke book It is the best!!!

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rcdrury Also, keep in mind that she's a huge supporter of Hillary Clinton's campaign. How could any Democrat be qualified to comment on the responsible handling of money.

11 Feb 08

dlkuku @dlkuku (1935) • United States 9 Feb 08

My friend is a married woman who goes to church every Sunday. Last Sunday, after church she stopped at the grocery store she works at, and because she was dressed nice she got some comments about how pretty she looked which made...

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rcdrury You almost had it, Kuku; except that there's nothing to let go. She should be reasonably grateful that someone was kind enough to pay her a compliment. Until something further happens, and it appears nothing has, that's the way it should be interpreted.

10 Feb 08

dlkuku @dlkuku (1935) • United States 9 Feb 08

My friend is a married woman who goes to church every Sunday. Last Sunday, after church she stopped at the grocery store she works at, and because she was dressed nice she got some comments about how pretty she looked which made...

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rcdrury Yes, it is a public forum and everyone is entitled to their opinion. Some of us, however, have the integrity to limit our input to qualified opinions. As for rudeness, you unjustly berated an individual you don't know based primarily on his gender. We all know...

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dlkuku @dlkuku (1935) • United States 9 Feb 08

My friend is a married woman who goes to church every Sunday. Last Sunday, after church she stopped at the grocery store she works at, and because she was dressed nice she got some comments about how pretty she looked which made...

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rcdrury Now we're getting somewhere. Her self-esteem issues prevent her from graciously assuming the best of this guy. How sad.

10 Feb 08

dlkuku @dlkuku (1935) • United States 9 Feb 08

My friend is a married woman who goes to church every Sunday. Last Sunday, after church she stopped at the grocery store she works at, and because she was dressed nice she got some comments about how pretty she looked which made...

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rcdrury And she may not. He didn't make her feel uncomfortable; she chose to assume the worst and allowed herself to feel uncomfortable.

10 Feb 08

dlkuku @dlkuku (1935) • United States 9 Feb 08

My friend is a married woman who goes to church every Sunday. Last Sunday, after church she stopped at the grocery store she works at, and because she was dressed nice she got some comments about how pretty she looked which made...

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rcdrury Exactly my point throughout this discussion. No one but he knows his intentions; and you have no right to presuppose. If this is the isolated incident you've described, it sounds like he's probably a decent guy.

10 Feb 08

dlkuku @dlkuku (1935) • United States 9 Feb 08

My friend is a married woman who goes to church every Sunday. Last Sunday, after church she stopped at the grocery store she works at, and because she was dressed nice she got some comments about how pretty she looked which made...

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rcdrury Nothing you've written necessarily suggests that he was "scoping her out." He saw her, he paid her a complement. give it a rest already!

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moms_the_word @moms_the_word (185) • United States 17 Jan 07

Suze Orman's Young Fabulous & Broke book It is the best!!!

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rcdrury Yep; it's definitely an okay read, with lots of good information. However, it's all pretty fundamental. You'd get better advice from any financial advisor in the phone book because he'd base it on your situation, and you'd probably get it free. Don't waste...

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moms_the_word @moms_the_word (185) • United States 23 Apr 07

Has anyone read it. I wanted to buy it but didn't have enough! I was so pist! I think all WEMON need to buy it!

suze orman book

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rcdrury I have been involved in the financial industry for over a decade, and have owned my own planning firm for eight years. I've kept a close eye on Orman since she became a household name. Without exception, every piece of advice I've heard from her lips has...

10 Feb 08

dlkuku @dlkuku (1935) • United States 9 Feb 08

My friend is a married woman who goes to church every Sunday. Last Sunday, after church she stopped at the grocery store she works at, and because she was dressed nice she got some comments about how pretty she looked which made...

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rcdrury I sense you exceeding critical angle of attack. I don't want to send you into a tailspin. (Sorry, I'm a pilot, so I have to engage in such metaphors.) Everyone else understood my comment just fine.

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dlkuku @dlkuku (1935) • United States 9 Feb 08

My friend is a married woman who goes to church every Sunday. Last Sunday, after church she stopped at the grocery store she works at, and because she was dressed nice she got some comments about how pretty she looked which made...

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rcdrury Omigod; you can't even figure it out.

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dlkuku @dlkuku (1935) • United States 9 Feb 08

My friend is a married woman who goes to church every Sunday. Last Sunday, after church she stopped at the grocery store she works at, and because she was dressed nice she got some comments about how pretty she looked which made...

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rcdrury Wow! Women are allowed to be as flirtatious as they wish, and it's okay. When men are even mildly (and this was extremely mild - and apparently innocent) flirtatious, they're engaging in some sort of preparatory adultery.

10 Feb 08

dlkuku @dlkuku (1935) • United States 9 Feb 08

My friend is a married woman who goes to church every Sunday. Last Sunday, after church she stopped at the grocery store she works at, and because she was dressed nice she got some comments about how pretty she looked which made...

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rcdrury Excuse me, but NO stalking occurred here. He paid her a compliment; apparently one she doesn't deserve. She owes him a HUGE apology!

10 Feb 08

dlkuku @dlkuku (1935) • United States 9 Feb 08

My friend is a married woman who goes to church every Sunday. Last Sunday, after church she stopped at the grocery store she works at, and because she was dressed nice she got some comments about how pretty she looked which made...

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rcdrury So, what makes you think that HE'S interested?

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dlkuku @dlkuku (1935) • United States 9 Feb 08

My friend is a married woman who goes to church every Sunday. Last Sunday, after church she stopped at the grocery store she works at, and because she was dressed nice she got some comments about how pretty she looked which made...

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rcdrury Before WHAT gets out of hand? He paid her a compliment, and as nothing else has occurred, that's apparently all that was intended. She should accept it graciously and move on.

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