rockyk

@rockyk (159)

India • Age 53

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Just Be Happy

adforme @adforme (2114) 22 Mar 13

So many people "looking for the one". What if he or she is not out there? There are people having expensive divorces and having a relationship with someone means taking chances. I did not say that one should not take a chance on...

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rockyk Very true. People should learn to be happy. Does not matter whether you are in a relationship with someone or not. One should have a good relationship with oneself first. If you have a good relationship with yourself, you act like a magnet to other people. The...

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Inner beauty is better than nothing?

Shavkat @Shavkat (140922) • Philippines 16 Mar 13

Is it balance to have inner and outer beauty? I assume that people had their preferences. Is it s gift to have them both? Some people would say, inner beauty counts the most, others will say that the outer beauty is far better. If...

beauty

inside

outside

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rockyk I think inner beauty is more important. Outer beauty is temporary. It does not last. It can be destroyed as well. However, inner beauty always remains. You can trust inner beauty to last forever. But outer beauty can disapper any time. You can't trust it.

23 Mar 13

Mistake teach us lessons

Professor2010 @Professor2010 (20156) • India 22 Mar 13

[b]Friends, when you make a new mistake for the first time, it is not really a mistake; but you have learned a valuable lesson. But if you keep making the same mistake over and over, it is a mistake no doubt, in fact a big...

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rockyk I completely agree. If you make a mistake, you should learn from it. If a lesson is learnt, it means that you won't repeat the same error again. But if you continue making the mistake again and again, you need to go in a little deeper and ask yourself, "What's...

23 Mar 13

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should I help my ex ?

Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 1 Mar 13

My exboyfriend and I,we were college mate ,we had relationship for almost 3 years. we love each other much at that time,our only problem was we both had a bad temper and we never try to accept and bear each other.but i do not...

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rockyk It will be a very sweet gesture on your part if you do help him out with money. But this is a very vulnerable situation. He seems to have feelings for you still so if you carry out their interactions alone, one thing may lead to another. As you said, you...

1 Mar 13

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A thousand REASONS to smile... CLICK!

Mavic123456 @Mavic123456 (21891) • Thailand 20 Feb 13

Once again, I made it through the night. whew.. everyday is a survival day, we wake up in the morning.... we work ... we sleep. Every day is such a day that maybe some of us were bored and some of us find it exciting. Every day I...

smile

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rockyk Wow, I needeed that post to lift me up too. Even I have hundreds of reasons to complain and cry. But I too try and focus on the present moment, those small things, and it just makes me feel better. I think the more we focus on our problems, the more sad we...

25 Feb 13

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money can't buy happiness ?

Angelpink @Angelpink (4031) • Philippines 23 Feb 13

Hello there ! Friends , they said that money can't buy happiness but what if my happiness is eating chocolates and cakes , isn't it that i need money to have those ? Or what if my happiness is to travel and travel , isn't it that...

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rockyk Well, chocolates and cakes make me happy. So, I am all for the money! You are right, money cannot buy happiness but money can definitely keep you away from depression and sadness. If you don't know where you next meal is going to come from, you surely cannot...

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I want only A child not a Husband

iamJB7 @iamJB7 (122) • Philippines 4 Dec 12

I have this thought of not having a husband for the rest of my life. I only wanted to have a child so that someone will be there when I get old. I don't like to live alone. One thing I don't like to have a husband because I know...

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rockyk Well, if you don't want a husband because your parents were not happy or because you have seen others get separated, then maybe you should think again. In my opinion, you should be open to the idea of finding that special someone who stays with you for the...

5 Dec 12

Have you ever felt that you are awake but unable to move?? :'l

nelerkz @nelerkz (467) • Philippines 4 Dec 12

Last Friday night, I went to Myanmar for a tour, to see the awesome attractions there, to take some pictures and buying some stuff. I traveled it for 7 hours by bus since that I am in the north of Thailand, so I'm quite near...

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rockyk I have never experienced it but I know that it is sleep paralysis. It is quite scary. I read some pretty scary experiences in this forum. Just check this out. http://roohikhan.hubpages.com/hub/Do-you-have-Sleep-Paralysis-The-Old-Hag-Syndrome These are...

4 Dec 12

oh how I love sleep

xdest246x @xdest246x (68) • United States 3 Dec 12

If I could sleep 8 hours a night, I would. During the week I feel as thought I never sleep. It's never a deep sleep when I do either. It's usually only during the week though. On Friday night, I'm in bed as early as 9-10 and its a...

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rockyk Well, I do sleep 8 hours every night or at least most nights. But then I work all day and I think that tires my mind a lot, so I fall asleep quickly and wake up in the morning. But when I am under stress or have a lot of things on my mind, I don't get that...

4 Dec 12

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Partly an odd beauty service: Ear cleaning

heaytheblogger @heaytheblogger (2876) • Philippines 3 Dec 12

The Philippines has indeed lots of beauty services to choose from, many go from traditional, modern, and international beauty services. This is because physical beautification and pampering is well endorsed in the country as a...

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rockyk Well, I am from India and here there are people on the roadsides in some towns who provide this ear cleaning service. I have never got it done. I think no one should. As doctors say, the ear has its own self-cleaning process and you should not put anything in...

4 Dec 12

Superstittion

Jessiii1805 @Jessiii1805 (20) • Mauritius 30 Nov 12

Are you superstitious? I confess that im a superstitious guy. For example every morning while getting off my bed i'll make sure that my right leg touches the ground first.lol.It sounds stupid and it is stupid i know but i do...

non scientific belief

supernatural

superstition

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rockyk Well, I won't call myself superstitious. I don't stop when someone sneezes or dont think that putting on my right socks first is important. But I am superstitious about things such as black magic and curses. I have experienced things that can just not be...

2 Dec 12

Is your full concentration or focus on pray or pooja or mind is moving

smilywomen @surekharathi (14146) • India 30 Nov 12

I notice myself If I am doing pray or pooja in front of God then my mind is going here and there think about other things like about shopping, eating, remember old memories etc. means not concentrate on prayer. My body is there...

cocentration

lack of focus

no attention

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rockyk It is natural for the mind to wander during prayers or for that matter while doing any activity. What I usually do is to just gently bring my attention back to my prayers. I don't force and stop my thoughts. Just watch them, continue with my prayers, and they...

2 Dec 12

IS is ok accept clothes from which the owner is already dead

fearlessgara @fearlessgara (1113) • Philippines 30 Nov 12

My family member found a new job. And they required to wear jeans and shoes. and He don't have any jeans.Now one of my neighbor which is widow give him jeans,shirt and shoes from her late husband( just died almost 1 yr now). Is it...

clothes from the dead

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rockyk It depends on what you think. In my family, we don't keep the clothes of the departed. Because firstly it acts like a reminder and will only interfere in the grieving process. Secondly, by giving the clothes away to the poor you somehow are involved in a...

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Don't You Hate The "It's All About Me"

KrauseHome @KrauseHome (36445) • United States 30 Nov 12

and never about you, especially when it comes to people who want you to always consider them a friend. Anytime they have a problem or an issue, it is always Poor me, I need more time to do something, I cannot do that as I am...

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rockyk I know what you mean. There are people in my life who are always busy complaining. But when you ask them to try something, they would always find excuses NOT to do it. So, I say, OK why not think about a solution on your own and then try it out. Do what you...

30 Nov 12

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food makes me happy :)

naryshkashian @naryshkashian (139) • Philippines 29 Nov 12

eating has always been one of the best thing i love to do :) especially cakes and icecreams and chicken and hot noodles... allyou can eat is like super worth it for me because even if I am petite I eat a lot :) not just now...

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rockyk I love cakes and icecreams too. Can't really stop myself at all when these are there. But I have quite a high metabolic rate so I don't gain weight. In fact, I wish I could gain some weight. I also love Mughlai food. Talk about kebabs and biryani. Ah, mouth...

30 Nov 12

Ugh typo in the title

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163772) • Garden Grove, California 29 Nov 12

I sit here wondering what on earth made me blind to the typo in my title a few minutes ago? I edited all my discussion very closely yet still managed to miss an error in the title? the most glaring error of all? Am I losing my...

hate errors made in my titles t o discussions

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rockyk I know how that feels. I wrote an article once and the url of that article gets generated on its own. I don't know how but somehow there was a 1 in the url. I deleted in the article title but the 1 is still in the url. Hate when I look at it.

30 Nov 12

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