rosgill

@rosgill (45)

United States • Age 69

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When a man says "I need space"

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 19 Jan 10

What does it usually mean? a. He really needs space as in time to think about things b. He just really doesn't want you around for now. c. It is over.

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rosgill If a man says he needs space, then you should let go and give him that but that also means he's probably wanting out of the relationship. If he isn't willing to talk about why he needs space there is a problem. It won't do any good to ask him why or try to get...

19 Jan 10

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Is it wrong to tell your boyfriend or husband about your weaknesses?

divineathena @divineathena (1746) • United States 19 Jan 10

Once when I was talking to my friend's boyfriend he gave me an advice. He told me that in a relationship it is more important for a girl to be stronger. He also asked me never to reveal my weaknesses to my boyfriend/husband if I...

relationship

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rosgill If he truly loves you then your weaknesses don't matter. Women are strong in many ways and so are men, but in relationships when there is love nothing should matter. Don't go spilling your life story to a man you have only just started dating but if you are in...

19 Jan 10

Chivalry - Yay or No Way

UpsideDownPineapple @UpsideDownPineapple (643) • United States 6 Jan 10

Hi all in MyLot Land, :) I was thinking about this topic with some friends a long time ago and I thought the concept of modern chivalry was weird. By chivalry I mean men being super considerate and extra courteous to women. Not...

chivalry

love

romance

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rosgill There's nothing wrong with chivalry, in fact, it's showing respect. It's nice to be thought of and treated well by a man and having the door open for you is an act of kindness. All the other shows respect and caring which helps in a relationship or in...

8 Jan 10

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Let my baby cry?

jhess3366 @jhess3366 (67) • United States 30 Dec 09

So my baby is now almost 4 months old and she cries alot. Even after I have made sure she is A-Ok in every aspect she still cries to be held....all the time. Its my fault because I am at home all day and I cater to her. How can I...

babt

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rosgill It is very difficult to let your baby cry but sometimes you need to. Make sure the baby is fine, no feaver, clean diaper, etc, and if she continues to cry then just close the door and let her cry herself to sleep. She will stop and it's not being a bab mother...

30 Dec 09

How much would you give for love?

Ongtina @ongtina (1232) • Singapore 29 Dec 09

If after knowing that your husband had cheated on you, had managed to maintain the marriage because you hanged on and refused to divorce, after a year and a half, had finally seen the breakup between them, but the breakup came...

general

love

relationship

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rosgill I'd have left him a long time ago. My xhusband cheated on me and when I found out he claimed it was over and he was still seeing her. It destroyed all the trust I had in him and he only blamed me for it. It's not worth letting his afairs destroy your life....

30 Dec 09

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When working in customer service and you ask someone how they are doing...

Bethany1202 @Bethany1202 (3431) • United States 24 Dec 09

Don't you just hate when you are a cashier, bartender, waitress, salesperson, banker, etc and you ask the client how they are diong, and they ignore you or just say, "Yeah I wanna make this deposit," or "Get me a...

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rosgill I totally agree, I work in customer service in a call center and it is the same way over the phone. You try to be helpful and kind and they are ruid but you have to continue to smile and be pleasant. Don't you just wish you could tell them off without getting...

24 Dec 09

Advice please???

phoenix1344 @phoenix1344 (698) • United States 16 Dec 09

So I actually am looking for adivce on two different things going on between my boyfriend and I. The first advice I need help with is do you think its okay for my boyfriend to call another woman sexy? On Facebook (of course,...

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rosgill I don't think you are being nitpicking, it bothers you and it shows disrespect to you when he does that. Men like to look and that is normal but when they are with their partner they should keep their opinions to themselves when commenting on another woman. Do...

16 Dec 09

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9/11/2001, during this day what do you remember? and what were you doing?

Fulltank @Fulltank (2882) • Philippines 8 Dec 09

I knew most of us would never forget this tragic day our our history. And I also knew that most of us never forget what was that were doing before we receive the bad news. I guess I have to start with myself. "I was working on...

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rosgill I was at work that day and as it happened my co workers started talking about it. I work for a hotel reservations and a customer told me she saw the plane go by and passengers looking down at her before it hit the Pentagon. We were all crying and kept watch of...

9 Dec 09

I'm tired of living!

savak03 @savak03 (6684) • United States 9 Dec 09

Many of you know that I moved from South Georgia to Tennessee to live with my daughter. She promoted this because as she said she wanted to 'take care of me.' I had spent 20 plus years taking care of my disabled husband and had...

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rosgill You need to take care of yourself, you are important and they are old enough to be responsible for themselves. Unfortunately, the children are suffering here too. I've not had to deal with something like this but I do know people who have. Your daughter can...

9 Dec 09

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Single moms out there...need your help!

dadelkoy @dadelkoy (37) • United Arab Emirates 3 Dec 09

How would you react if one day, the father of your kid comes to your place (with his wife and baby) after not seeing him for more than 6 years. My son doesn't want to see him anymore and he already knew that. I don't want to come...

family

mother

son

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rosgill He may be the father but he has never acted upon that right until now. Technically he needs to earn the right to see him through making it up to your son and to you. I'd get legal advice about this, take him to court for past child support which he will have...

8 Dec 09

Twilight New Moon

Shybaby83 @Shybaby83 (2) • United States 7 Dec 09

How many of you people loved the movie new moon? Who is your bestie Edward or Jacob? What was your favorit part of the movie. Yeah you can call me hopeslee romantic mine was when edward asked bella to marry him.

movies

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rosgill Edward was the hottest to me, he was more like a man even though he wasn't as buff as Jacob. Jacob is hot too but he has a boyish look compared to Edward. Yes, at the end when he asked her to marry him was really cool, I can't wait for the other two movies,...

7 Dec 09

The Movie 2012

Qtpienyouri @Qtpienyouri (35) • United States 7 Dec 09

So what do you really think of the Movie 2012? Is there anyway that this could happen? What are your plans if you are a believer? Honestly, i saw the movie and my hair stood up on my head! The graphics were GREAT! There were...

the movie 2012

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rosgill The time will come but I don't believe it will that way or in 2012. This movie was made to make money and to feed on those who are panicing about the predictions. If you are religious and believe in the Bible, this is not the way it is supposed to happen. Yes,...

7 Dec 09

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i am 2 months on the family way, this is my first... i need your advices

kenchiprincess @kenchiprincess (5296) • Philippines 28 Nov 09

Hi, it has been a while that i haven't been active here in mylot. reasons for this is i was busy preparing for my wedding 3 months ago and i was busy adjusting to married life. Last month i was feeling weirdly like i get tired...

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rosgill Every woman's body reacts differently when they are pregnant but the most important thing you must remember is to take care of yourself and rest. Your body is changing for the baby, your hormones are heightened and your emotions can change in a moments notice...

5 Dec 09

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Rapture

beautifulBrooke @beautifulBrooke (191) • United States 5 Dec 09

Many Christians have been taught about the Rapture or the "Second Coming of Christ". The books/movies of LEFT BEHIND has heightened our interpretation of what and how it will happen. There have been debates as to whether it will...

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rosgill Only God and Christ really know how it will happen but it will happen according to the book of Revolations. If you've read the books 'Left Behind' series and studied the Bible, it is pretty clear what to be looking for and the signs when it begins. Each...

5 Dec 09

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Problem with Love.

prasant_sp3214 @prasant_sp3214 (137) • India 5 Dec 09

Hai everybody, I have a problem, 3 years back one of my friend loved a girl and she too loved him (I can't mention their names, sorry), due to some problems from their parents there were not able to marry, that girl married...

deadlock

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rosgill If they love each other and both are adults, then it's no body's business whether they see each other or not. Go for it but stear away from her brother to be safe. There's no point looking for trouble.

5 Dec 09

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