rey m

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Canada • Age 61

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Working through pains to get the gains

thisweeksthought @thisweeksthought (15) • United States 9 Sep 19

I've been doing this for a while now - reaching out in pain to get to the next level. It has been good and bad at times. The biggest thing I've had to realize is the acceptance of the results. It seems like every time I reach out...

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rey m I think being satisfied is the ultimate goal. The problem: it's never enough!

10 Sep 19

It’s Difficult to Lead a Healthy Lifestyle…

[eds] @ZedSmart (19839) • Philippines 9 Sep 19

That was my thought. We may try to live accordingly but there are many triggers that mislead us. Eating a balance diet, an exercise, and maintaining a good night sleep is not that achievable to some of us. I have my share of...

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rey m The influence of modern lifestyle must not be underestimated when it comes to living healthy. However, there are those who are stronger because of their upbringing. Thanks to the foresight of health conscious parents for they have raised children that are now...

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Let's Talk About Fitness

Jeffrey Delos Reyes @iamchibiii000 (49) • Manila, Philippines 10 Sep 19

One of the things that interest me most is FITNESS. It has become a way of life and passion which includes dedication and perseverance. Into FITNESS? Yes, it requires time and effort. Who among you are into this kind of activity?...

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rey m Is it possible to be less muscular in the mirror and still feeling fit? If Fitness is to look good with muscle, is it really fitness? Healthy liver, hearth, lungs and other hidden body parts maybe is more important than the obvious pecs, delts, biceps,...

10 Sep 19

Question about wisdom....

Aanshi Raghava @Aansh13 (11414) • New Delhi, India 4 Sep 19

Today I had a long long debate with my boss, and surprisingly it has nothing to do with our work. He asked me, what exactly the wisdom is...??? There were other colleagues involved in the discussion but they left sooner when they...

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rey m Wisdom is a knowledge beyond the surface and common sense. It is a deeper understanding honed by experience overtime.

4 Sep 19

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The quality of life. Body knows.

marguicha @marguicha (230099) • Chile 2 Sep 19

These last years it seems that all sorts of food are bad for one or another part of our body. And we finally ask ourselves if it is better to die of hunger. My mother was a diabetic (among other things) for several years. After...

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rey m There's more to quality of life than eating. Eating is important for obvious reason. Time well spent with family, friends and the environment can have a huge impact on the quality of life even without all sorts of different flavors in food.

3 Sep 19

Being fully present in the moment. Present moment living.

emptychair @innertalks (23656) • Australia 1 Sep 19

Being fully present in the moment. What could that ever mean? What does it mean to be fully present in the moment? Is anyone ever fully present, except for perhaps, God, and what is this mythical moment? Love is most alive in...

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rey m It is possible that love can exist only if one's state of mind is sound.

2 Sep 19

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Success Instills Happiness in the Family

Nocturnal Writer @Nakitakona (59987) • Philippines 25 Aug 19

Attaining one's success takes a great deal of efforts and sacrifices. It's not achieved overnight. It has to go a long process before a goal is reached. Life is undergoing a process of overcoming any form of trials and...

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rey m Perhaps the question maybe: when does the process of success stops and the happiness begins? Happiness is quite contagious. To stay happy, does one need to be always successful?

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To get marry is more and more difficult?

Ken Kennedy @lin0775 (124) 21 Aug 19

According to the 2018 China statistical yearbook, The number of single people in China has reached 240 million, more than the combined population of Russia and Britain.My friend Wong just celebrated her 35th birthday, his birthday...

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rey m Marriage can be a good thing, but there are more to do in the world than being in a romantic relationship. Having good friends and close families can bring so much joy with less emotional investment. If marriage finds you, go for it, but looking for someone to...

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There's always a first time...

Toni @toniganzon (76726) • Philippines 20 Aug 19

A couple of weeks ago, as some of you may already know, I went on a road trip with my friend. Driving back home takes 120km and since my friend is not familiar with the road, it was I who drove the car. We were in the middle of...

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rey m sometimes that's the stuff that makes the road trip a lot more fun.

20 Aug 19

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What or who makes you smile every morning.

IamKYLE @IamKYLE (2279) 19 Aug 19

Seeing my employees happy working everyday makes me motivated and happy. I'm so grateful that because of my company they're able to buy new cars, houses and etc and I'm so glad that

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rey m A good night sleep usually does it for me.

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How difficult is inter-cultural marriages?

cyclopz @cyclopz (251) • Sydney, Australia 19 Aug 19

I have always wondered how hard it is settling down with someone from a different culture. With each partner having his/her own culture, religion, beliefs and spoken language. I think it would be interesting because it would feel...

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rey m Perhaps, if there's such as a thing as mutual "unconditional love", inter-cultural marriage should not be a problem. Otherwise, like any other marriage, it will be very very challenging.

19 Aug 19

Every Chance I Get

J.N.R Dutton @jnrdutton (3436) • United States 18 Aug 19

So the other day, I told my son "I Love You", as I often do. His response, was "you don't have to tell me so much" or something to that affect. I tell him while I can though, because I know one day I won't be able to (because my...

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rey m Telling your love ones "i love you" as often as possible is very important. This does not have to be just verbal, other expressions of "i love you" are also important.

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Greed or Give?

Jace Cstr @jacecstr1995 (33) 9 Aug 19

Many say it is better to give than to receive. But I say, "It is more blessed to give than to receive." Some of us thinks that when we give, we lose something. But in reality, when we give, we bring hope to the ones whom we give...

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rey m When one is asked to choose between greed and give, it assumes that there's a need to do so. Perhaps, when a society has less needy people, less emphasis will be on "give". Similarly, when most are affluent, being greedy may not be as tempting. Anyway, being...

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Thank you, Jose Rizal.

Beatburn @Beatburn (4286) • Philippines 30 Dec 18

Today is Rizal Day. I almost forgot. To my international friends, Dr. Jose Rizal is our national hero. He gave up his life for the country, serving the people, advocating for reforms with Spain, and promoting nationalism that...

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rey m Perhaps, when it comes to the question of remembering the memory of Heroes, often the answer does not depend on the increasing struggle to forget but rather on the diminishing commitment to remind. Maybe one of the biggest reason why devotees do not forget is...

3 Aug 19

Trusting God

Denise Knight @gnatsmom (2575) 23 Jul 19

"Just trust God". It is a statement we hear often, yet sometimes how to believe. When our world is spinning out of control, when we are perplexed and burdened, and when we see no solutions; it can be hard to simply trust God. We...

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rey m That trust is a matter of free will, means one has a choice to make: to trust or not to trust. This is all good. However, perhaps trust in God is not a matter of free will, that is why it is so difficult. Maybe it is not a Choice that one can make, but a Grace...

1 Aug 19

Achieving perfect understanding.....

Aanshi Raghava @Aansh13 (11414) • New Delhi, India 28 Jul 19

Is it ever going to be possible for any human being to be able achieve perfect understanding of another? I mean we have friends and family, with whom we live our entire life, still at points we find ourselves clueless about their...

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rey m On one hand, lack of understanding can surely lead to chaos, on the other hand, perfect understanding maybe ideal but it can be dull. Maybe a measured level of knowledge and understanding among people is healthier for it can maintain the element of mystery,...

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every day humanity is less tolerant?

isaias valera @isaias29 (30) • Venezuela 29 Jul 19

every day we see how people seem to enjoy breaking the rules, violating the rules or just making any fuss to get attention

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rey m What you said is very true. However, maybe it is a matter of perspective: is the glass half full or half empty? For there are also a lot of good and law abiding people.

1 Aug 19