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sallyj @sallyj (1225) • United States 7 Oct 12

I have been married over 39 years to the same man. I had foot surgery seven weeks ago. Removed and tried to fuse five joints. Lived with pins sticking out of my toes and through the bones to my heal. My husband took me to have...

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sallyj It is hard to know when they appreciate you. I'm sure he knows how much you love him, but we often take it for granted they know what we are thinking. Does he withdrawl his feelings in order not to upset or worry you. I know I was so hurt that it...

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sallyj @sallyj (1225) • United States 7 Oct 12

I have been married over 39 years to the same man. I had foot surgery seven weeks ago. Removed and tried to fuse five joints. Lived with pins sticking out of my toes and through the bones to my heal. My husband took me to have...

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sallyj Shaggin Thank you. I read one of your entries and am so glad you understand. I have not put anything on facebook, because they are family (mostly) and my friends. He is a good son,father and grandfather. These people do not need to know I am emotionally...

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sallyj @sallyj (1225) • United States 7 Oct 12

I have been married over 39 years to the same man. I had foot surgery seven weeks ago. Removed and tried to fuse five joints. Lived with pins sticking out of my toes and through the bones to my heal. My husband took me to have...

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sallyj Yes 39 is a long time. We have been through a lot. We have 9 grand children between us. He had a set of twin boys and our son. Each of us has lost a parent, and last year his one twin died leaving an early teenage girl. That was hard, but together we made...

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sallyj @sallyj (1225) • United States 7 Oct 12

I have been married over 39 years to the same man. I had foot surgery seven weeks ago. Removed and tried to fuse five joints. Lived with pins sticking out of my toes and through the bones to my heal. My husband took me to have...

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sallyj It is very hard to teach an old dog new tricks. I am so hoping God takes him before I have to have this type of surgery again. He is 70. Thank you for reading Sally

8 Oct 12

sallyj @sallyj (1225) • United States 7 Oct 12

I have been married over 39 years to the same man. I had foot surgery seven weeks ago. Removed and tried to fuse five joints. Lived with pins sticking out of my toes and through the bones to my heal. My husband took me to have...

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sallyj I know. I though he had grown up. I was about to move out and get away from such an A. I started looking for one bed room appartments and can not afford one. I have a son, but can not move in with family of five. That is to much to ask of them. To bad he...

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sallyj @sallyj (1225) • United States 7 Oct 12

I have been married over 39 years to the same man. I had foot surgery seven weeks ago. Removed and tried to fuse five joints. Lived with pins sticking out of my toes and through the bones to my heal. My husband took me to have...

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sallyj Thank you. It has been very depressing. Now I have to find the real me, for he is to have some sun damaged cancers removed Thursday and I am not sure how to react to this. I think I am a better person than he is. Maybe if I explain my thoughts with his...

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sallyj @sallyj (1225) • United States 7 Oct 12

I have been married over 39 years to the same man. I had foot surgery seven weeks ago. Removed and tried to fuse five joints. Lived with pins sticking out of my toes and through the bones to my heal. My husband took me to have...

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sallyj Thank you. I do think things will improve, but wow. I am glad things have gotten better for you. It takes time and things should even get better for you in the future years.

8 Oct 12

sallyj @sallyj (1225) • United States 7 Oct 12

I have been married over 39 years to the same man. I had foot surgery seven weeks ago. Removed and tried to fuse five joints. Lived with pins sticking out of my toes and through the bones to my heal. My husband took me to have...

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sallyj It has been two weeks since his misbehavior, and my mylot friends are the first to hear of this. Everyone needs someone. At our age, most everyone from our circle of friends have died.

8 Oct 12

sallyj @sallyj (1225) • United States 7 Oct 12

I have been married over 39 years to the same man. I had foot surgery seven weeks ago. Removed and tried to fuse five joints. Lived with pins sticking out of my toes and through the bones to my heal. My husband took me to have...

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sallyj Thank you. I think I will get to pay back. Thursday he will see a new doctor and have some possible cancers removed from his hand. He is already asking me if they will bandage his whole hand. It has been two weeks of tears and frustation, I don't think I...

8 Oct 12

sallyj @sallyj (1225) • United States 7 Oct 12

I have been married over 39 years to the same man. I had foot surgery seven weeks ago. Removed and tried to fuse five joints. Lived with pins sticking out of my toes and through the bones to my heal. My husband took me to have...

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sallyj His mother is alot of his problems. He went to visit her early in Sept. Her anniverary and deciesed daughters birthday were the same day. He did not want her to get too depressed. If she is nasty to him, she feels better about her self. I things will get...

8 Oct 12

sallyj @sallyj (1225) • United States 7 Oct 12

I have been married over 39 years to the same man. I had foot surgery seven weeks ago. Removed and tried to fuse five joints. Lived with pins sticking out of my toes and through the bones to my heal. My husband took me to have...

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sallyj Yes I think so. He will be 70 in May, and there is no changing him. We have raised his boys (now one, the other died a year ago)and our son. I raised a fine man, sometimes I think it is because he saw so many flaws in his father.

7 Oct 12

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sallyj @sallyj (1225) • United States 7 Oct 12

I have been married over 39 years to the same man. I had foot surgery seven weeks ago. Removed and tried to fuse five joints. Lived with pins sticking out of my toes and through the bones to my heal. My husband took me to have...

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sallyj He fixed our meals, did the laundry. He went to my sons to get the oldest off the bus most every day. He was okay till that day. Most all my friends are gone. I have a very good son and daughter in-law, but of course they both work. I sure have been...

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sallyj @sallyj (1225) • United States 7 Oct 12

I have been married over 39 years to the same man. I had foot surgery seven weeks ago. Removed and tried to fuse five joints. Lived with pins sticking out of my toes and through the bones to my heal. My husband took me to have...

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sallyj It is hard to handle. He will soon be having skin cancers removed from his hands. Not sure how I will behave in light of all this.

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sallyj @sallyj (1225) • United States 7 Oct 12

I have been married over 39 years to the same man. I had foot surgery seven weeks ago. Removed and tried to fuse five joints. Lived with pins sticking out of my toes and through the bones to my heal. My husband took me to have...

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sallyj I have RA and did tell him I was looking into appartments, but cannot afford one on my disabbility. He has been quite distant most of his life. He gets nasty for a couple of weeks after he sees his mother. She is nasty and her behavior is hard on...

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STOUTjodee @STOUTjodee (3668) • United States 3 Oct 12

I've been seeing lately a lot of discussions are depressing. It's almost like Facebook, people air their problems and people have lost hope. I wonder really how bad their lives are? Do they have a roof over their head, do they...

hard times

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sallyj Thank you, but we barely touched the tip of the ice burg.

5 Oct 12

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elfbwillow @elfbwillow (307) 8 Jun 10

How much did you spend on your big day? So many people go mad on their wedding budget spending tens of thousands of pounds or more. Personally I dont understand why. It is one day and why spend so much when you have the rest of...

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wedding

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sallyj It did not make us more or less married, than those who spent mega bucks and divorced only a few months later.

28 Jun 11

aimeedia2x @aimeedia2x (374) • India 10 Jun 11

what you prefer to grow, permanents plants or annuals plants. ? Annual plants has life me one year only. Permanent plants remains green the whole year. I have some permanents and love to grow annuals for different colorful...

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sallyj Yes, me too.

12 Jun 11

sallyj @sallyj (1225) • United States 21 Apr 11

Did you know why? According to a Fourth Century ruling, the date of Easter is set for on the first Sunday following the Paschal Full Moon, which is the first Full Moon of Spring, occurring on or shortly after the Vernal...

calander

easter

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sallyj Thank you

23 Apr 11

sallyj @sallyj (1225) • United States 21 Apr 11

Did you know why? According to a Fourth Century ruling, the date of Easter is set for on the first Sunday following the Paschal Full Moon, which is the first Full Moon of Spring, occurring on or shortly after the Vernal...

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sallyj Thank you. I will have to go out and look at this sight. Thank you

23 Apr 11

sallyj @sallyj (1225) • United States 21 Apr 11

Did you know why? According to a Fourth Century ruling, the date of Easter is set for on the first Sunday following the Paschal Full Moon, which is the first Full Moon of Spring, occurring on or shortly after the Vernal...

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sallyj I think it should be, but that is the first thing I look for when I get a new calendar.

23 Apr 11

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