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shalini626 @shalini626 (56) • India 13 Mar 11

Hi All I am mother of two little ones 3 years and 1 year old. For me most difficult task in a day is look out wys to feed them nutritious food. They would like to est all kind of just but not the good food. It is such a fight...

feeding kids

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shalini626 Good ideas. You seems be very much experienced. Thank you so much for your advise.

15 Mar 11

shalini626 @shalini626 (56) • India 9 Mar 11

Nowadays most couples are content with just one kid citing various reasons like cost of education and cost of growing up kids. its right to some extent to give best of everything to one kids. But in this case aren't we depriving...

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shalini626 Best wishes.

14 Mar 11

shalini626 @shalini626 (56) • India 9 Mar 11

Nowadays most couples are content with just one kid citing various reasons like cost of education and cost of growing up kids. its right to some extent to give best of everything to one kids. But in this case aren't we depriving...

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shalini626 Liked your view. Even we were four siblings, I know you miss the parents love with so many kids around. As echoes by everyone here, no doubt money is a big factor along with parents time for their kids. Thanks for sharing your views.

14 Mar 11

shalini626 @shalini626 (56) • India 14 Mar 11

Everybody knows about life insurance and its benefits. Every earning member of should proactively insure himself/herself to secure the future of family. But not everyone realizes this need sooner in life. There are situation...

life insurance

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shalini626 Good idea. Thanks for your inputs.

14 Mar 11

shalini626 @shalini626 (56) • India 9 Mar 11

Nowadays most couples are content with just one kid citing various reasons like cost of education and cost of growing up kids. its right to some extent to give best of everything to one kids. But in this case aren't we depriving...

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shalini626 Yes, it is very much a personal perception. I feel that my kids should know the relations and grow with the sibling relations instead of just reading in books that there used to be "Sister" a "Brother", aunt and uncle. I don't want to kill this kind of...

14 Mar 11

shalini626 @shalini626 (56) • India 9 Mar 11

Nowadays most couples are content with just one kid citing various reasons like cost of education and cost of growing up kids. its right to some extent to give best of everything to one kids. But in this case aren't we depriving...

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shalini626 yes sure we should be able to raise kids financially. But, when we have resources, we should give them the pleasure of relations. Thanks for your comments.

14 Mar 11

shalini626 @shalini626 (56) • India 13 Mar 11

Hi All I am mother of two little ones 3 years and 1 year old. For me most difficult task in a day is look out wys to feed them nutritious food. They would like to est all kind of just but not the good food. It is such a fight...

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shalini626 Wow... you are lucky for ypue son. May GOD bless him. My 3 year old has become quite choosy about the food she eats. She like new food... I prepare the same old food in different way and give it new name. But then it does not go forever, just 1-2 days....

13 Mar 11

shalini626 @shalini626 (56) • India 10 Mar 11

Girls are born, you take care of them. They grow up and them she has to go away to start her new life. Still girls are more affectionate and caring to their parents even from miles away. Its difficult for parents to let there...

gender bias

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shalini626 you are lucky so am I to have two kids with opposite gender. Though our current generation is more open mined as you mentioned. Here there are different reasons for our elders to wish for a boy. Like someone to run the family tradition, family business,...

11 Mar 11

shalini626 @shalini626 (56) • India 9 Mar 11

Nowadays most couples are content with just one kid citing various reasons like cost of education and cost of growing up kids. its right to some extent to give best of everything to one kids. But in this case aren't we depriving...

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shalini626 I am sorry if you have taken point wrong. I did not mean to blame parents who decide to have just one kid. There are many reasons behind the decision. Good wishes to you and your family. Thanks for sharing your views. Take care.

10 Mar 11

shalini626 @shalini626 (56) • India 9 Mar 11

Nowadays most couples are content with just one kid citing various reasons like cost of education and cost of growing up kids. its right to some extent to give best of everything to one kids. But in this case aren't we depriving...

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shalini626 yes rightly said. I too respect yours and all other parerts point of view. Sometimes it just happens that parents don't think about all those things like giving company to kid. They have just career and affordability in mind. One of my friend was also of...

10 Mar 11

shalini626 @shalini626 (56) • India 9 Mar 11

Nowadays most couples are content with just one kid citing various reasons like cost of education and cost of growing up kids. its right to some extent to give best of everything to one kids. But in this case aren't we depriving...

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shalini626 Hi Ganela, I understand you point of view. I know, as kids grow up a bit eg 4+ year, they don't want to share parents with someone else. They don't understand the meaning of have a brother or sister. Feel good about your both with your mother. You know...

10 Mar 11

shalini626 @shalini626 (56) • India 9 Mar 11

Nowadays most couples are content with just one kid citing various reasons like cost of education and cost of growing up kids. its right to some extent to give best of everything to one kids. But in this case aren't we depriving...

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shalini626 good luck to you. from my experience I can say that, its best feeling to see kids play together. cousins and friends can not give this kind of company, because cousins are far away and friends don't stay at home. Good wishes to you. Take care.

9 Mar 11

shalini626 @shalini626 (56) • India 9 Mar 11

Nowadays most couples are content with just one kid citing various reasons like cost of education and cost of growing up kids. its right to some extent to give best of everything to one kids. But in this case aren't we depriving...

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shalini626 same here with me. its such a fun to see them play together. we as parents can never give that kind of company to kids. thank for your comment. there are my friends who earn good enough say that one is enough. I feel that we have the responsibility for next...

9 Mar 11

shalini626 @shalini626 (56) • India 9 Mar 11

Nowadays most couples are content with just one kid citing various reasons like cost of education and cost of growing up kids. its right to some extent to give best of everything to one kids. But in this case aren't we depriving...

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shalini626 Rightly said. Affordability is a factor. But I think most of the population can afford atleast two. People can curb the spending, go less to malls etc. Sibling would a best gift we give to our kid.

9 Mar 11

shalini626 @shalini626 (56) • India 9 Mar 11

Nowadays most couples are content with just one kid citing various reasons like cost of education and cost of growing up kids. its right to some extent to give best of everything to one kids. But in this case aren't we depriving...

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shalini626 I agrees for expenses. But as far as time is concerned, I think two kids will have better time together and you are free to do other activities. Thanks for your comment.

9 Mar 11

shalini626 @shalini626 (56) • India 9 Mar 11

Nowadays most couples are content with just one kid citing various reasons like cost of education and cost of growing up kids. its right to some extent to give best of everything to one kids. But in this case aren't we depriving...

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shalini626 I understand. Enjoy your life.

9 Mar 11

shalini626 @shalini626 (56) • India 9 Mar 11

Nowadays most couples are content with just one kid citing various reasons like cost of education and cost of growing up kids. its right to some extent to give best of everything to one kids. But in this case aren't we depriving...

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shalini626 I am sorry for all that happened. I understand the complications. There are lots of factor like affordability to grow up kids, parents wish and medical complications. Best wishes for your family.

9 Mar 11

shalini626 @shalini626 (56) • India 9 Mar 11

Nowadays most couples are content with just one kid citing various reasons like cost of education and cost of growing up kids. its right to some extent to give best of everything to one kids. But in this case aren't we depriving...

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shalini626 I also work and have two kids. but believe in having two kids does not increase your responsibilities that much. they can play together and study together, but when it is just one kid, he/she will always need you for all activities.

9 Mar 11

shalini626 @shalini626 (56) • India 9 Mar 11

Nowadays most couples are content with just one kid citing various reasons like cost of education and cost of growing up kids. its right to some extent to give best of everything to one kids. But in this case aren't we depriving...

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shalini626 you are right. we have been blessed with relations and we cherish them so much. why should we not let your kids enjoy those kind of moments. as far as expenses go, for sure we have to plan our budget and see if e can give rigt kind of education and all...

9 Mar 11

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