smile823

@smile823 (45)

China • Age 45

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Did you have a part time job when you were a student?

youless @youless (114112) • Guangzhou, China 23 Nov 09

I was a tutor for a high school boy when I was a college student. This was a nice experience for me because it was my first time to have the "work". And I could earn something extra by myself.

job

part time

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smile823 Hi,youless. Yes,in the college.i did a lot of part-time,for example,home teachers,promoters,market investigators.These part-time of great help to me. of course,do these part-time jobs must did not affect your learning.You can choose to do it during weekends...

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What kind of job do you want to have?

monkeylong @monkeylong (3139) • Guangzhou, China 24 Nov 09

Hi my friends and mylots, what kind of job do you want to have? Hvae you dreamed about the job you will get? Do you reach the job that you dreamed? As far as I'm concerned, I just want a job to research some computer work...

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smile823 Hi,monkeylony.welcome to mylot. My ideal career is to become a lawyer, i have got a legal professional qualification certificates,but because of pregancy,i did not go to law firm work,and i know that in the future will certainly many difficulties,but i...

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Does your mom mind who your friends?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 24 Nov 09

When I was still studying, I can't just bring anyone to my home. It should me someone who's presentable, someone who loves to study, not into drugs or whatever negative attitude or habit. My mom would always be there ask and...

friends

mom

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smile823 Hi ,careguarden.Welcome to mylot. I understand your mother"s behavior.Because my mother and father as well.Every parents want their children to have a bright future.Chinese proverb that said"close to red man red,close to the black then become...

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If our pets could cook

catdla1 @catdla1 (6005) • United States 24 Nov 09

When you celebrate a holiday, do you share the festivities with your pets? Many of us share little gifts, but do your pets get a special dinner too? What do you think would happen if our pets could plan and prepare a holiday meal....

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smile823 Hi ,catdlal. Welcome to mylot.hehe,if the pet can cook,this is a very interesting topic.Your imaginations is very rich.Wish you have a wonderful life.

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what would you think is the best way I can do with my neighbor?

celestial052506 @celestial052506 (2914) • Philippines 24 Nov 09

My neighbor is in a hard time. they have so many problems left and right, they have lots of debts to pay, bills, mortgage and everything. Only the husband has an income and it is always short every month. I can hear the wife...

debpts to pay

help

neighbor

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smile823 Hi,celestial.Welcome to mylot. You say they are two people only the husband at work,if they are economic predicament is not due to gambling or other bad habits,then you can suggest the women go to work,when there are job opportunities for you to give her...

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My Mood Swings. What affects your mood?

hotsummer @hotsummer (13975) • Philippines 16 Jun 09

Do you think that the food we eat affects our mood everyday. in a way i feel that food affects our mood. but i consider our situation in life mostly affects our mood and food only only share a small percentage in affecting our...

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smile823 Hi,hotsummer. Welcome to mylot.I wish you have a good mood every day! Affect my mood,there are a lot of factors,but at present,it may be work, i just graduated this year,got a master"degree,but i missed a lot of work opportunities.Now i have 5 months...

25 Nov 09

Man or Woman, who is likely depressed by financial crisis?

Zhu Huifen @zhuhuifen46 (3483) • China 24 Nov 09

A survey is run on the subject, and the result is man more likely to be depressed by financial crisis. Maybe because they bear more responsibility for the family? Not exactly. Women find relief from love to children, to spouse,...

enjoy life

life

man and woman

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smile823 Hi,zhuhuifen46. Welcome to mylot. Public opinion polls reflect my point of view,money and bring greater satisfaction to the man enough.So when the family"s economy into a corner.More pressure on the majority of men. Have a nice day!

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There is no place like home...do you miss your hometown?

Jane @jaiho2009 (39133) • Philippines 23 Nov 09

Hello friends and dear mylotters, Do you live in another place now...and not in your birthplace or hometown? If you were living in another town or another place,do you miss your hometown and wished one day to live in there...

birthplace

hometown

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smile823 Hi ,jaiho Welcome to mylot. I am not at hometown,of course,i miss my home,like my mother,mother"s food taste great.Give my mother full-body massage,and nails make me very happy.I wish all the parents healthy and longevity. Good luck to you!

23 Nov 09

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Would you attend your ex's wedding if you are invited to it?

bryandairogarcia @bryandairogarcia (265) • Philippines 23 Nov 09

I've been invited about 2-months ago to attend a wedding by none other than my 2 year college girlfriend. I will be attending not because I want to see her and rekindle anything (as it is too late already) but more because she was...

lover

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smile823 hello,bryandairogarcia. yes,I will attend only because she is still my friend.

23 Nov 09

Do you mylot everyday?

bodhisatya @bodhisatya (2384) • India 23 Nov 09

Do you mylot every day? If yes, what makes you to visit here, is it the money, is it the invaluable friends you made out here, or is it that you just love being in a part of some discussions? If you aren’t regular here then...

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smile823 hello,bodhisatya. Welcome to mylot.In the morning ,the first thing what I do is to enter mylot.Not just for the money,but also to learn English.For a long time without the use of English,many words are familiar to.In short,I love mylot. Have a nice day!

23 Nov 09

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What is the first thing you do.....

momtrying2makeit @momtrying2makeit (3270) • United States 23 Nov 09

When you turn on your computer? Me I usually head straight for the emails and check all my earnings sites. This is what I do and I am curious what others do when they first get online for the day or the hour. Let me know and happy...

what is the first thing you do online

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smile823 I just like you,first thing in the morning is to enter mylot and check my earnings. But i have a question .How i have just launched a topic,grade dropped by one then?(from 17 to 16). What are the reasons ?

23 Nov 09

Are you scared of death?

bluesinjid @bluesinjid (658) • Canada 22 Nov 09

I am sure lots of you have question about this, and the worst part is, no matter how many theories, we have no idea how death will be like. Sure, we are told we go to heaven or hell, but we won't be able to tell anyone when were...

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smile823 hi,bluesinjid welcome to mylot.If the deaths caused by too old,i am not afraid.However,because of accidental death when i was too young,i will be very sorry.There are so many things not done,too many people do not love enough.And i have my baby now.I very...

23 Nov 09

Do you have allergies? How do you cope?

dloveli @dloveli (4366) • United States 22 Nov 09

I have a friend who is allergic to so many things. She is allergic to cats, dogs, pollen, dust, etc. She has to carry antihistamines and inhalers. Oh and lots of tissues. When I was about 8, and my next door neighbors went to the...

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smile823 Hello,dloveli. yes,i also had allergies,are allergic to cosmetics.My face ,who are itch.Eyes are swollen depends unclear.Fortunately,taking good care of my husband every day to me applicator.After a swelling of 10 days or so.If you have skin swelling...

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Which do you think is more effective to lift the tense?

Zhu Huifen @zhuhuifen46 (3483) • China 23 Nov 09

After a quarrel with spouse, some would say nice words such as "I love you." "I am sorry." Others just hand over a cup of tea, or a pair of slippers. Which do you think is more effective to lift the tense.

relationship

spouse

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smile823 Hello,zhuhuifen.Welcome to mylot.I agree with his views that words and act will be fine.I and my husband sometimes quarrel.But there is always fast and good.He would appologize to me or to give me a hug.I woulld to apologize to him too.

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did the movie the notebook make you cry?

maria120883 @maria120883 (392) • United States 18 Nov 09

When I saw this movie I cryed alot I mean alot. I just love it. It is one of my favorite movies. I wish I could live this I really do. Except the fighting thing. Do you love this movie as much as I do? I love the primary...

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smile823 Yes,i cried a long time.Empathy,their experiences and my experience is very similar.Fortunately,i and my lover are together now.

22 Nov 09

Does your family depress you?

HansonFan @HansonFan (1653) • United States 22 Nov 09

I love my grandmother to death, but she completely depresses me. I live with her while I go to college and sometimes it just kills me to go home. She is negative all the time. She might say one positive thing a week if I am really...

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smile823 Hello ,Hansonfan.Welcome to mylot.I sympathize with your experience.But she,after all,is your grandmother.If no relative around accompany her and she certainly very lonely.More understanding and tolerance.

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Have You Ever Helped Out In A Giveaway For The Less Fortunate?

KrauseHome @KrauseHome (36427) • United States 22 Nov 09

Being one week before Thanksgiving, our Church decided to do a Turkey giveaway again this yr. We also had bags of food to go with the Turkeys as well, and it was a wonderful time. A lot of the people who came to get Turkeys were...

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smile823 Hello,krausehome.Welcome to mylot.I am from china.Thanksgiving day in china is also increasing popular,,particularly sought after by the merchants.But perhaps few activities for the other peoper.I think the festival held in thanksgiving day must be very warm.I...

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What langguage do you wanna learn and speak?!

IceTroll @IceTroll (77) • Philippines 22 Nov 09

I really wanna learn french because of the way it sounds. It sounds very charming and inviting. Its as if when they speak they are really sure of what their saying (well thats for me though) maybe thats why paris is very romantic...

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smile823 I want to learn a foreign language a lot,but the most favorite thing in french. French is the language of one of the most charming.and i love the city of paris,i also like to watch french films,there are a lot of french film enchanted me,for example Amelie,you...

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What will you do in this situation?

lichee_china @lichee_china (506) • China 22 Nov 09

Your two best friend are quarrel in front of you,and they don't listen to you.you have said a lot to stop them,but it doesn't work,your friends are still quarrel and even worse.what will you do?I give both of them a box on the...

friends

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smile823 Hello,dear friend.Welcome to mylot.In this situation,you can stand next to remain silent,wait for them to calm down and then get them to talk about your feelings.Choose to leave and stuff your ears,they will feel that you are not really good friends.

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How much money have you saved?

ersmommy1 @ersmommy1 (12587) • United States 21 Nov 09

using craigslist or ebay? Buying something from a garage sale? My son will be a year old on Dec 10. I want to get him a rocking horse. The one I found at Target is about $90. So I went to our local craigslist and found comparable...

horse

online

savings

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smile823 As you do the same.I will buy 30 U.S.dollars.

22 Nov 09