sunlightday

@sunlightday (16)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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relation with a married woman

nicola82 @nicola82 (478) • Italy 25 May 07

Hi guys in this period I'm having a relation with a married woman ten years older than me.. It's not my first time in such a situation and neither she is the oldest woman I've been with.. In your opinion what I'm doing is the...

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sunlightday Yes,it's actually irresolute question.But if i was you,i will stop this situation,and regard her as a friend.

25 May 07

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Which kind of flower can stand for your nation?Let's understand the culture .

sunlightday @sunlightday (16) • China 25 May 07

There are so many flowers in the world,but how many is so fortunate to be chosen for one country's represent? China is my motherland.penoy is our nation flower.It means prosperity .which flower is yours. Talk about,let us...

life

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I can't forgive my boy friend!! He don't have time for me, all time avoid talk

al87exa @al87exa (720) • Romania 25 May 07

Maybe i know others things about relationships, but i am sure that who love other, want to be with he,she all the time. Right?Or want to talk with person with who are inlove!! My boyfriend, no. He like to know that i exist, that i...

love

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sunlightday I also encountered this kind situation.I went to ask him if there anything to happen to him.in fact he just need some times to have a rest,Not like that we thought.so you can tell him your feeling,see how can he say.if it's a good and believable...

25 May 07

age difference

sands01 @sands01 (16) • United States 21 May 07

I was wondering what kind of age difference you had between you and your brothers/sisters? I am the oldest. My brother is 7 years younger, my sister is 10 years younger and my younger brother is 12 years younger. Does anyone...

age difference

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sunlightday I have only one brother,10 years older than me.he 31 and I 21. when we were young ,honestly we didn't often associate.Because he always looked me as a baby or a child.Maybe...haha ..he thought we weren't on the same level step.But when I grow up until like...

25 May 07

What would you do in my situation??

StrawberryKisses @StrawberryKisses (2833) • Canada 25 May 07

Ok my father is getting married here in june, well he is not my biological father but he has always treated me like his daughter and my kids are his grandchildren. As soon as his fiance found out I was not his daughter...

step mothers

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sunlightday I'm sorry to hear that.I don't have that experience.But,I believe COMMUICATION is the key or the best solution.you can firstly tell your thought to you father,and then let your father play the role of the accommodator,or have a family meeting,put it on the...

25 May 07

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Do you put bad family members before good friends?

Leca @lecanis (16647) • Murfreesboro, Tennessee 24 May 07

I've noticed that anytime I mention a situation with my family on mylot, there are always people coming to tell me I should love my family more than my friends. Just so those of you have said so don't think I'm being mean, I'm...

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sunlightday Lecanis,I'm very sorry that you have so bad family menbers.I don't have.but I can understand you.you can communicate with them telling what you think about when they do like that to you.If it ddoesn't work.maybe I think you really can reconsider,regarding your...

25 May 07

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Is Computer/ internet helpful for students in their studies?

skbadhan @skbadhan (879) • India 20 May 07

At the time when I was student there was no pc at my home.Now a days parents are much conscious for future of their childrens as we know internet my be harmful as it has some of disadvantages like pronographic matterial on...

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sunlightday Indeed,everything has good effect or bad effect that the two parts are ambinalent .Something is controled by good person,it will benefit,or by bad one,it will be harmful. I'm also a student.yes,internet actually give me much convenience.recently,I'm busy for...

21 May 07

Do You Worry when your loved one is away?

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 19 May 07

Matt, my fiance has left today for a week to work in another province. He rarely calls me when he is away because he says the cellphone bills are too much. He does call his mom who is in her 80's and I call her too, because we...

worry

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sunlightday I'm always faraway from my parents because of going to school,from middle scholl to college.I also worry about them.When haven't call home for a long time,I will worry obout that if there had something happen about them. Maybe,we love,we worry about whom.

20 May 07

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Do you worry a lot?

dopey22girl @dopey22girl (3319) • United States 20 May 07

Are you one of those people who worries all the time, like I do? I seriously seem to worry about every little thing. Anyone else like that? Maybe we could start a support group lol.

life

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sunlightday I appreciate you.The inner feeling inside us is most important for ourself.yes,it can help us better face the difficult things calmly.

20 May 07

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Do you worry a lot?

dopey22girl @dopey22girl (3319) • United States 20 May 07

Are you one of those people who worries all the time, like I do? I seriously seem to worry about every little thing. Anyone else like that? Maybe we could start a support group lol.

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sunlightday maybe yes.it's normal.I also worry or feel nervous sometimes.At that time,i will choose to sing or do a sport,and tell myself"take easy".ti can remove your attention.another efficient method is that tell your freind your worry.When feel somebody keep around...

20 May 07

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Are You superstitious oR Not ?

skbadhan @skbadhan (879) • India 14 May 07

hi friends iam as hindu india and there are so much superstitions in hindu culture even i can't count them. i hate all these things like as wait for someone else to cross first if a cat corred your path. sneezing is also...

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sunlightday yes,all of us isn't superstitious,but it's actual ture that around us,so many strange thing we can not explain with correct knowledge. but I think we always tell ourselves that everything has it's own reason.doing like that,when we encounter that kind of...

20 May 07

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Do you think the interest is the most important in your study?

fei1123 @fei1123 (56) • China 18 May 07

More and more students want to study in "hot" majors.As a result,many students want to give up their interests and study in these areas such as foreign languages, international business and law,etc. Fewer and fewer students...

study

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sunlightday The interest is most important.it's can not imagine,when you don't have any passion on your work.everyday with whine and be tired.In the third year of my university,I began to worry about my future ,because I didn't know what my interest.yes,it hear to be...

18 May 07

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