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SpikeTheLobster @SpikeTheLobster (6398) 6 Jan 09

I've been writing bits and pieces on my 'writing' blog for a while and have just been offered my own domain for it. Now, the basic theme of the blog is to chronicle my attempt to become a freelance writer online. You know, stuff I...

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sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 29 Jun 08

But….today’s society has made me skeptical of “nice” gestures by strangers..I guess that is because there are not too many strangers these days that do nice things for people which is sad. Ladies, does it really bother you when a...

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granite_butterfly I am relieved to know that I am not the only one feeling this skepticism because, let's face it, being nice has been so terribly distorted that we can no longer trust the genuine. Our society is so confused by entitlement and common courtesy, I sometimes want...

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sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 29 Jun 08

But….today’s society has made me skeptical of “nice” gestures by strangers..I guess that is because there are not too many strangers these days that do nice things for people which is sad. Ladies, does it really bother you when a...

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danishcanadian If a man wats to do something for me pecifically because I'm a "lady" I'm insulted, but i another person wants to do something for me because s/he and I are both human, that's a different story. If someone holds the door for me because s/he happens to already...

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sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 29 Jun 08

My question to you is this.....Does anger get your point across better than calmly discussing something? Do you use passion or persuasion? Love or hate? For me, it's a pretty easy answer. Anger accomplishes nothing. When...

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Gargoyle0134 Actually negotiation works for me and the hubby? When we do not agree, we get out 3 pieces of paper. On one he write everythng he wants. On another I do the same. Then we sit together, switxh papers and look at what the other person wants. Then we negotiate...

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sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 29 Jun 08

My question to you is this.....Does anger get your point across better than calmly discussing something? Do you use passion or persuasion? Love or hate? For me, it's a pretty easy answer. Anger accomplishes nothing. When...

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Lakota12 whe every one is hollering all at once very hard to get over a point I wait til they all shut up then Holler at them lol finally they listen and it seems like we dont holler it never gets across specially when they are acting smart and trying no to listen

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sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 29 Jun 08

My question to you is this.....Does anger get your point across better than calmly discussing something? Do you use passion or persuasion? Love or hate? For me, it's a pretty easy answer. Anger accomplishes nothing. When...

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moonlitmagikchild i persuade till people change their minds and choose what i want

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sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 29 Jun 08

But….today’s society has made me skeptical of “nice” gestures by strangers..I guess that is because there are not too many strangers these days that do nice things for people which is sad. Ladies, does it really bother you when a...

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Lakota12 thats what I do. smile and say thinks or I hold the door for someone in a wheel chair only nice thing to do

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sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 29 Jun 08

But….today’s society has made me skeptical of “nice” gestures by strangers..I guess that is because there are not too many strangers these days that do nice things for people which is sad. Ladies, does it really bother you when a...

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laglen I am all for random acts of kindness. and I hate what women's lib has done to men. The fact that a man can't compliment you because it makes it harassment. What has this world come to? I wouldn't date a guy if he didn't open doors etc. I am old fashioned but...

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sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 29 Jun 08

But….today’s society has made me skeptical of “nice” gestures by strangers..I guess that is because there are not too many strangers these days that do nice things for people which is sad. Ladies, does it really bother you when a...

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saivenkaat802003 Skeptical in a way gives one the awareness of not be defrauded or cheated, through any of their actions. As the modern world has too much centred on selfishness and egotism, these kind of offering seat.. are a genuine warm smile to make a true friendship...

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34momma @34momma (13882) • United States 29 Apr 08

As most of you know, The p1kef1sh is gone. He got very upset by a response to a post that a good friend of his posted. I am sad to see him go. What I really need to know is why do we give our power away? Why do you allow...

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sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

Are we responsible for the debt of a love one like our parents, husband, wife? When one of our family pass away do we inherit or get to pay their debts....

debt

pay

responsibility

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Lakota12 To me I paid what I could then stopped for how can they collect from a dead person if your name isnt on it!

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sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

I have been through a lot in my life and I would like to think I know myself pretty well. How other's perceive me and my friends has helped me to discover what kind of a person am I too. I know my strong and weak...

attitude

character

self

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Lakota12 I have been told by friends on here that I am a strong person and loving well I did know some of it but it is hard to take compliments on myself

28 Jun 08

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sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

I have been through a lot in my life and I would like to think I know myself pretty well. How other's perceive me and my friends has helped me to discover what kind of a person am I too. I know my strong and weak...

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Grandmaof2 This is an interesting post because I for one have never really gave this much thought and really now that you bring to my attention I think it probably wouldn't hurt for everyone to give this type of thing some attention. I think I know myself fairly well,...

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sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

This is what drives us to reach and achieve our goals in life. What is Life without ambition? A person without any goals in life feels lost in a sea full of sharks . To succeed in this generation we have to...

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saivenkaat802003 Good post sutan. I had one long undying aim of making 1000 dollars a month through online. It is in the process of it i am at learning stage. Every step that i take, or every minute that i spend online is worth learning,.. and sure i have a confidence that i...

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sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

This is what drives us to reach and achieve our goals in life. What is Life without ambition? A person without any goals in life feels lost in a sea full of sharks . To succeed in this generation we have to...

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cwilson26 Yes goals and dreams are important in life. My dream is to become a published author some day soon. Sometimes I get so depressed and think I have nothing to live for but I realize that is not true because I have my family, my writing that I will not give up...

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sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

I have been through a lot in my life and I would like to think I know myself pretty well. How other's perceive me and my friends has helped me to discover what kind of a person am I too. I know my strong and weak...

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fratertelo My friend told me that people who know me more than others is i myself. So, till now, i am still in searching about myself. the question about "who am i" is still relevant for me.

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sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

Are we responsible for the debt of a love one like our parents, husband, wife? When one of our family pass away do we inherit or get to pay their debts....

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mensab we are responsible for our own debt. the debt of our parents, brothers, sisters, husband or wife is not our responsiblity, unless we are a co-signee or guarantor. if one passes away, it also brings with her/him the debt s/he owes. the living relatives are not...

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sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 30 Jun 07

Do you believe this is a good quality to have in our character?? Would people take advantage of us if we are empathetic to others..... I often find myself being sensitive to others and their feelings. Because I think that this...

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KURIAN Showing sympathy is a godly character may god help to roll out this.

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sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 30 Jun 07

Do you believe this is a good quality to have in our character?? Would people take advantage of us if we are empathetic to others..... I often find myself being sensitive to others and their feelings. Because I think that this...

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webeishere E M P A T H Y !!! What a great word. Now I never knew nor praticed empathy in my life until I sobered up. As an addict/alcoholic all I cared about was myself, my feelings, and my wants/needs. So when in treatment I was asked if I ever felt empathy towards...

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sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 30 Jun 07

Do you believe this is a good quality to have in our character?? Would people take advantage of us if we are empathetic to others..... I often find myself being sensitive to others and their feelings. Because I think that this...

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Willowlady Opening up and becoming empathic could allow you to know others more and much better. Possible to become hurt so be sure you know what you are doing. There is a possibility of being too sensitive which could drive others away. It must come from a place of...

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