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thecaitycat @thecaitycat (267) • United States 15 Feb 07

This is something I see a lot of people doing - especially women. We define ourselves as someone's wife, or someone's girlfriend, or someone's mother and it seems like a lot of us lose our own identity in the process. I believe...

identity

individuality

relationships

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thecaitycat Yeah, I've never seen a man with a username like that. They don't say "amyshusband" or anything like that, either.

15 Feb 07

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thecaitycat @thecaitycat (267) • United States 15 Feb 07

This is something I see a lot of people doing - especially women. We define ourselves as someone's wife, or someone's girlfriend, or someone's mother and it seems like a lot of us lose our own identity in the process. I believe...

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5 people

thecaitycat Exactly. I'm Nathan's girlfriend, but I have a name and identity other than merely "Nathan's girlfriend".

15 Feb 07

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thecaitycat @thecaitycat (267) • United States 15 Feb 07

This is something I see a lot of people doing - especially women. We define ourselves as someone's wife, or someone's girlfriend, or someone's mother and it seems like a lot of us lose our own identity in the process. I believe...

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5 people

thecaitycat Right. Sometimes it's appropriate in context, like when I'm introduced to one of his friends or something. But after that I want to be known as "Caity", or at least as "Caity, who is Nathan's girlfriend" rather than just "the girl whose only identity is...

15 Feb 07

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13 Sep 08

jmhall @jmhall (143) • United States 4 Sep 08

This is a topic we are currently discussing in my psychology class. Whether or not a woman should have a large family say 15 or more children. In class they used the example of the Dugar family. They have 17 kids now and one on...

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thecaitycat This is a topic we are currently discussing in my psychology class. Whether or not a woman should have a large family say 15 or more children. In class they used the example of the Dugar family. They have 17 kids now and one on the way. I know not all large...

4 Sep 08

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13 people

jamesnogra @jamesnogra (381) • Philippines 22 Aug 08

MyLot forces me to create posts like this, posts that is not nonsense and people should respond my post. I have to create lots of posts and doing this kind of hobby needs faster brain activity and typing skills. And creating many...

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thecaitycat MyLot forces me to create posts like this, posts that is not nonsense and people should respond my post. I have to create lots of posts and doing this kind of hobby needs faster brain activity and typing skills. And creating many posts makes me type faster......

22 Aug 08

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thecaitycat @thecaitycat (267) • United States 6 Feb 07

Everyone knows of at least one or two bands/musicians who get overlooked by the media (and the world) and deserve a lot more recognition. The Ramones and Mary Timony are two examples of underrated musicians who deserve better. Who...

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thecaitycat Thanks for the recommendation; I'm always looking for more music to listen to.

6 Feb 07

faerieingrey @faerieingrey (322) • United States 4 Feb 07

Going through high school and college, everyone is required to read quite a few books that they probably would not have chosen to read for pleasure. Was there one (or more) that you can remember as being just an overall painful...

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thecaitycat I must be a weirdo, then. I loved "To Kill A Mockingbird" and everyone else seemed to hate it, though.

6 Feb 07

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thecaitycat @thecaitycat (267) • United States 5 Feb 07

My boyfriend and I are a rather unconventional couple. He loves to cook and I'm better with home repairs, for one thing. I also take charge of finances and bills. We're both introverts, but I have an aggressive edge to my...

gender roles

love

relationships

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thecaitycat That's awesome! I would much rather receive a tool kit than a crockpot or cooking set.

5 Feb 07

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jumpinjack00 @jumpinjack00 (3054) • United States 20 Jan 07

How many do you have? What are their names?

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thecaitycat No, I've never given her the opportunity to eat jellybeans. :-P

5 Feb 07

Geminigirl @Geminigirl (1909) • United States 3 Feb 07

I'm thinking of looking at their online selection. Is the aulity good? Or should I bother?

shoes

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thecaitycat What a coincidence! I've been really happy with the shoes I buy from zappos.com; their shoes are almost always on sale.

3 Feb 07

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dihearted @dihearted (2688) • India 3 Feb 07

no i dont ..... not at all.... how abt yu?????

gay

people

support

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thecaitycat I'd support him 100%. I would expect my parents to support me. Being gay isn't hurting anything.

3 Feb 07

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4 people

Munchkin547 @Munchkin547 (2778) 18 Jul 08

a few years ago i was watching the news with my grandmother and they mentioned guerrilla (not sure on spelling - sorry!) shooting people, and my grandmother said "well what on earth are they doing given gorilla guns?" this really...

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thecaitycat a few years ago i was watching the news with my grandmother and they mentioned guerrilla (not sure on spelling - sorry!) shooting people, and my grandmother said "well what on earth are they doing given gorilla guns?" this really made me chuckle, have you or...

18 Jul 08

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