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draconess @draconess (650) • Canada 28 Mar 07

We eat a lot of pasta, but I'm getting bored with the same old spagetti sauce. I'm looking for lots of new, different yummy recipes for pasta sauce. Preferably homemade recipes that aren't too difficult or time consuming to...

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draconess @draconess (650) • Canada 1 Apr 07

Have you had laser eye surgery, or do you know anyone who has? I'm sort of thinking about it, I think in the long run it would save money, since my glasses are so expensive. I have a lot of questions about it though... How do you...

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maxxine @maxxine (610) • Philippines 31 Mar 07

im a roman catholic......

religion

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meeandnotyou I am Thelemic. A Thelemic person holds dear all of the teachings weather it is the Verdes, Quran, Bible, Talmud, Quabballah, Liber AL, whatever. We hold all of them in a place of honor as Holy. We believe the divine split it's infinate wisdom up between the...

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maxxine @maxxine (610) • Philippines 31 Mar 07

im a roman catholic......

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thecaitycat @thecaitycat (267) • United States 10 Feb 07

Who are they, in your opinion? They may be your favorite, or they may be in a band you don't like but still admire for their musicianship. Perhaps it's a drummer who influences your own drumming. I don't even really have to...

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jajatisalgoe The son of Ringo Starr, Zak Starsky or something, don't know it right, but he's fantastic. He is know in the Who, and he toured with Oasis last year and the year before.

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jumpinjack00 @jumpinjack00 (3054) • United States 9 Mar 07

I've been trying to figure this out for some time and have not found a legitimate answer. Can anyone tell me the real reason the stars and bars are being worn backwards on their uniforms? We've never done this before, so I...

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michelledarcy @michelledarcy (5220) 9 Mar 07

Yet again I have had to speak to my daughters teacher about her having reading books that are too easy. She said she would change it for me and she didn't do it. This has happened several times before. Does anyone know how I can...

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lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 2 Mar 07

Yesterday I went to bed at 6am. I tried hard to sleep but my mind was undergoing a power overload and I was turning and tossing till I finally manage to fall asleep at 10am. 40 min later at 10.40am, I was suddenly woken up...

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trippyteresa @trippyteresa (87) 23 Feb 07

I'm 30 years old and today i'm going to be having my first ever job interview, after countless job applications/letters and emails, someone finally wants to see me in person!!! I'm pretty nervous i don't know what to expect at...

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joey_matthews @joey_matthews (8354) 15 Feb 07

I heard today on a talk show that some of the classic bands are return. The eagles, The Police, Genesis and (maybe Wham) What do you think? We've seen a return of boy bands like take that. I personally think it will be nice...

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thecaitycat @thecaitycat (267) • United States 15 Feb 07

This is something I see a lot of people doing - especially women. We define ourselves as someone's wife, or someone's girlfriend, or someone's mother and it seems like a lot of us lose our own identity in the process. I believe...

identity

individuality

relationships

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jwfarrimond I suppose that you might identify yourself as "N"'s girlfriend if you where speaking to someone who knew "N" but not you. But it should be: "I'm Y, N's girlfriend" I can't think of any reason why anyone should just identify them as a sort of appendage to...

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thecaitycat @thecaitycat (267) • United States 15 Feb 07

This is something I see a lot of people doing - especially women. We define ourselves as someone's wife, or someone's girlfriend, or someone's mother and it seems like a lot of us lose our own identity in the process. I believe...

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zavebe I've had this same discussion with friends before. To be honest, I think most women would introduce themselves as "N's girlfriend" because of European history, and culture. When a women is inntroduced, historically, they're "Misses (their first name) (his...

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thecaitycat @thecaitycat (267) • United States 15 Feb 07

This is something I see a lot of people doing - especially women. We define ourselves as someone's wife, or someone's girlfriend, or someone's mother and it seems like a lot of us lose our own identity in the process. I believe...

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onesiobhan I don't see a lot of that myself, but what I do see is people defining themselves as mothers and nothing else. I never see men going by user names like "Brad's dad" or "fathertobarbie" or "gothdad", but I see women do it all the time. I find it kind of creepy....

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thecaitycat @thecaitycat (267) • United States 15 Feb 07

This is something I see a lot of people doing - especially women. We define ourselves as someone's wife, or someone's girlfriend, or someone's mother and it seems like a lot of us lose our own identity in the process. I believe...

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ctinabina I also introduce myself as "___'s wife" if the context is appropriate. Just like what thyst07 said, if I'm introducing myself to someone who knows my husband or my husband's family, I put in the role-identification language. But I don't EVER just use my...

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thecaitycat @thecaitycat (267) • United States 15 Feb 07

This is something I see a lot of people doing - especially women. We define ourselves as someone's wife, or someone's girlfriend, or someone's mother and it seems like a lot of us lose our own identity in the process. I believe...

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thyst07 I occasionally introduce myself as "___'s girlfriend" when I'm introducing myself to someone who knows my boyfriend. But in this relationship, I think I definitely keep my own identity. True, my boyfriend has become a part of who I am, because he is so...

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thecaitycat @thecaitycat (267) • United States 15 Feb 07

This is something I see a lot of people doing - especially women. We define ourselves as someone's wife, or someone's girlfriend, or someone's mother and it seems like a lot of us lose our own identity in the process. I believe...

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misskatonic I can't stand that. I've never understood the need to define ourselves by another person. Because it goes beyond that - it gets into defining worth by another person. Relationships become a marker of personal value and it makes me scream. We are not our...

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thecaitycat @thecaitycat (267) • United States 15 Feb 07

This is something I see a lot of people doing - especially women. We define ourselves as someone's wife, or someone's girlfriend, or someone's mother and it seems like a lot of us lose our own identity in the process. I believe...

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dragonflyfli that makes sense! i never really thought of it like that. i will pay more attention to how i introduce myself next time.

15 Feb 07

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thecaitycat @thecaitycat (267) • United States 8 Feb 07

Who here often wakes up with weird aches and pains due to how they sleep at night? I often wake up with a sore neck or a tingly arm.

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cintinue I always have issues.

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thecaitycat @thecaitycat (267) • United States 8 Feb 07

Who here often wakes up with weird aches and pains due to how they sleep at night? I often wake up with a sore neck or a tingly arm.

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ctinabina What I hate most is when I get a cramp in my foot while I'm falling asleep. It's like my foot suddenly has a mind of its own. I also sometimes get tingly fingers. I think this is due to laying my head on my hand, and somehow cutting off the circulation that...

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thecaitycat @thecaitycat (267) • United States 8 Feb 07

Who here often wakes up with weird aches and pains due to how they sleep at night? I often wake up with a sore neck or a tingly arm.

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randomosity_prevails I quite often wake up with weird aches and pains. Generally, my neck aches, or I have a dead arm or leg, depending on how I've slept. They almost always go away when I've been out of bed for a bit, though I did manage once to strain my shoulder muscle in my...

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