vglusker

@vglusker (24)

United States • Age 41

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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Can a Man and Women be Friends

Bytemi @Bytemi (1553) • United States 17 Jan 07

Can a man and women be friends and not have an expectation of anything else? Lets take this one step further, if the women is marriage and the friend is not, is the friendship allowed? I am one of the those weird women, I get...

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vglusker I think it really depends on their personality. I tend to fall in love fast, and its hard for me to be friends with a guy but some people are completely different.

17 Jan 07

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Yes I live in Vegas...NO I don't spend all my time on the strip!!

happymommy6 @happymommy6 (35) • United States 11 Jan 07

I don't know why people think that just because I live in Las Vegas I spend my days and nights at the strip hotels gambling and seeing shows. That stuff is for the tourists....thats why they are called TOURIST ATTRACTIONS. I...

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vglusker I live in NY and feel the same way. Anyone who ever comes to NY always stays at my house, never in a hotel and trust me they can afford one.

12 Jan 07

What are some of your favorite holiday traditions?

Kashari Williams @Levianak (9) 7 Dec 17

Right now I am pregnant with my first and I have been thinking a lot lately what would be some traditions that my new family would take on... Both sides of our family have different beliefs and views and tend to do things a...

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vglusker Right now I am pregnant with my first and I have been thinking a lot lately what would be some traditions that my new family would take on... Both sides of our family have different beliefs and views and tend to do things a little bit different. As for us, we...

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Road Rage~!

Jusred @Jusred (1578) • United States 11 Jan 07

Do you, or anyone that you know, suffer from intense 'Road Rage'? Have you ever been a 'serious' victim of it~? It is becoming an increasingly problematic problem..As speed limits increase, and the amount of drivers on the...

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vglusker I find myself in different moods. When i am calm, i can drive slowely and without any rage. This is rare though. Most of the time i am in a rush somewhere and absolutely can not stand when people drive in the left lane of the high way 20 miles below the speed...

12 Jan 07

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Target

lilttownmommie @lilttownmommie (1473) • United States 11 Jan 07

After reading this and finding out the Target stores will not allow the Salvation Army to stand outside their stores and ring thier bell during Christmas time simply because they feel "they do not need to support Christian...

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vglusker I agree with you that it is absolutely rediculous. They have the right to seel what they want inside the store, but they shouldnt control the outside, plus salvation army does a good thing and it shouldnt be rediculed.

12 Jan 07

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Real Life heros

suscan @suscan (1955) • United States 11 Jan 07

There are two stories I have heard in the news recently, and they deserve to be repeated. We so often go on and on about the bad parts of humanity,but these two people are shining stars.The man in New York who risked his life...

heros

humanity

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vglusker I havent heard these storied, but sometimes, things that people do just amaze me.

12 Jan 07

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Have you ever met anyone famous?

Adrenochrome @Adrenochrome (1653) 8 Jan 07

Due to a great diversity in careers, I've met quite a few celebs, and wonder - who is the most famous celeb you've ever encountered? And, where they all you hoped, a disappointment, or just damn awful? (Please do not choose...

celebrity

fame

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vglusker I have not met any celeberty, i have seen keaanu reeves once next to my college, but thats about it.

9 Jan 07

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ExtraMarital affairs.....What do you have to say about it.

jackslaiter @jackslaiter (371) • India 9 Jan 07

Affairs after being married...do you think is it right and what is the reason people induldge themselves in such activities. My personal views on it are very clear. I have to say that it generally happens when one is not satisfied...

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vglusker I am a very open minded person but i have to say that i think affairs and cheating are big sins. I am not sure why i feel this way, maybe because i imagine my husband cheating right away and it makes me sick. On the other hand, i can understand that sometimes...

9 Jan 07

this is a warning!!!

BittyBiddy @BittyBiddy (2903) • Ireland 8 Jan 07

I've seen a couple of posters complaining about music that starts automatically on profiles and sites, so I'm just sending out a friendly warning to you all. Do NOT click on my profile if you don't want to hear my haunting...

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vglusker Hey, Thank you for letting me know, i personally have the volume turned off on all of my computers so i dont hear anything.

9 Jan 07

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sardarji.... why always they?

dihearted @dihearted (2688) • India 6 Jan 07

why r always jokes created on sardars? r they good for humour...? or they r just used for fun? is it fine to make jokes on them? i think its bad to involve them n make jokes on them ....

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vglusker What is a sardar?

7 Jan 07

How Does One Best Deal With Depression Brought On By The Death Of A Loved One?

danishcanadian @danishcanadian (28954) • Canada 6 Jan 07

Someone very dear to me recently lost someone very dear to him. I did not personally know the friend whom he lost, but I knew so much of her that she fast became important to me too. Not only did he lose her, but he was the one to...

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vglusker I understand how you feel and hope that you will find a way to help your friend and be there for your friend. It is very hard to cope when someone close to you dies, but everyone at some point in there life has to go through this and each person has their own...

7 Jan 07

Is the Title Boyfriend Appropriate????

Bytemi @Bytemi (1553) • United States 6 Jan 07

I am in an interesting situation. I am the mother of a 3 year old little girl and have been divorced for 2 years. I am 31 years old and feel weird everytime I introduce my boyfriend as that. It makes me feel like I am in high...

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vglusker Hello, I think the title boyfriend is appropriate, he is what he is. I personally has never been comfortable calling my boyfriend, fiance, even husband any of those names, i just like to use his name. I guess now that i am married, when i say husband it...

7 Jan 07

How many are active....

wildguy2 @wildguy2 (1349) • Canada 7 Jan 07

Has anyone else noticed that of all the members Mylot shows, which is about 54000+ that a lot are not even active anymore, I just went through my friends and most of them haven't even logged in for weeks, are a lot of these...

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vglusker I am new to mylot, but i log on every day.

7 Jan 07

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Who have you seen in concert?

BittyBiddy @BittyBiddy (2903) • Ireland 6 Jan 07

Just wondering what pop/rock stars you've seen in concert and what were they like? Over the years some of the concerts I've been to include: Lionel Richie - Great concert but halfway through the concert he shouted "Hello...

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vglusker I have acctually never been to any concert accept for the mix christmas concert from a popular radio station in NY z100. I wish i have been to many more, but when i was younger i didnt have the funds, and now i am older, pregnant and got a different life...

6 Jan 07

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Love and Like....What is most important.????

Polly1 @Polly1 (12644) • United States 6 Jan 07

Here is something to think about. You can love someone intensely and not like them. You can like someone and not love them. We don't always choose who we love, we do choose who we like. What is most important? We can love and like...

important

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vglusker I think i might feel like that about my husband sometimes. I definitly love him and care about him but i so dont like him sometimes. Sometimes he makes me crazy and insane.

6 Jan 07

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Sick to death of people making marriage a joke

killailla @killailla (1301) • Canada 6 Jan 07

I am sick of cheaters Sick of people who get married and divorce a short time later People who marry multiple times people who dont take their marriage vows seriously I am sick to death of the fact the 50% of marriages end...

marriage vows

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vglusker I am sick of people cheating too. My husband is away all the time in another country for work. I trust him, and i am pretty confident in him but every once in a while i get suspecious. I cant help myself. I wish there was a way to know for sure. I agree that...

6 Jan 07

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Remember Paper Mache? Let’s make a piñata!

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45941) • United States 6 Jan 07

I remember doing paper mache projects with my Girl Scouts. You can do so many projects using paper mache. One of the favorites of my Girl Scouts was the Pinata. You start with a large balloon, blow it up and tie it off.Dip...

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vglusker I remember doing this for a school project when i was in junior high school. My mom taught me, i think i even got s second place. I made it look like planets.

6 Jan 07

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Is Marrage Anything More than a Piece of Paper

Bytemi @Bytemi (1553) • United States 4 Jan 07

My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 1/2 years now. We have both been previously married and divorced (we did not know each other at the time) and I guess I have been a little hardened by that experience. We own a house...

buying a house together

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vglusker I definitly think that a marriage liscence is just a piece of paper. I have been living with my fiance for over a year and we recently got married because we are expecting out first child together. Since the day we got married absolutely nothing has changed....

4 Jan 07

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A young girl of 18 started loving me it seems, But I am fifty two

oarnamav @oarnamav (2708) • India 4 Jan 07

I am a married and 52 years old man. I am very much happy in my family. I love my wife too. I have a son who is 20 & about to become an engineer whithin a years time. I am volunterily retired person (an engineer). My wife is...

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vglusker The age difference if not a big deal, but you are married. If you were single you can persuite it, but i understand that you are happiky married. It is a possibility that the girl is just friendly and outgoing. It can also be a crush, i honestly dont think...

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Giving up myself for being a mother

kidsrock @kidsrock (64) • United States 4 Jan 07

I'm not sure if it's my age...just climbed over thirty, or the passing of the year but I woke up in the middle of the night and thought to myself...why isn't anything about me anymore? I'm sure there are a lot of other women out...

mother

taking care of ourselves

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vglusker I definitly can imagine understanding how you feel. I am 22 and expecting my first child in 3 month. Just 22...not finished college yet, not seen the world yet. I am very excited and do not regret any part of my life, but i would definitly do some things...

4 Jan 07