vrajase

@vrajase (17)

United States • Age 52

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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How will you spend this money?

Daddy Neil @neildc (17238) • Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines 4 Feb 09

If you have something about $800 you've got from a loan, how will you use it? I planned to get such loan but as matter of fact, I still don't know how will I actually spend to? I thought of getting a laptop so I can have my own...

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vrajase I have never gotten a loan without knowing what it was for. I hope you are able to pay the $800 back. Use the money for what ever you really need and will be worht the investment in the long run. You can only decided what that is but think before you buy.

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what do you do when you get depressed?

figjam00 @figjam00 (1444) • India 5 Feb 09

Guys when I get depress first thing I do is that cry out loud as it helps me to release my emotions. What do you guys do????

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vrajase I look at the things that are going good in the world, if not my life. I also do something I enjoy. I volunteer because heping others makes me feel good about myself. If all else fails I remember that there are others that are doing worst than me.

5 Feb 09

Would you rather a mortagage or rent?

juveriam786 @juveriam786 (111) • United States 5 Feb 09

When my hubby and are planning to move out of my mom and dad's house, we weighed the pros and cons of renting and paying a mortagage. In the end we picked mortagage. Why? because when we decide that we want to move again, or we...

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vrajase This is the time to buy because prices are so low. Just calculate what you can afford each month before buying and stay within your means. Also, if you go with adjustable think really hard first because you never know what it will adjust to and it may be the...

5 Feb 09

Home Mortgages unable to be refinanced.

vrajase @vrajase (17) • United States 5 Feb 09

It seems that all the help that is available for homeowners is if you are on ther verge of foreclosure. My home loan is more than the current value of my home because of the whole mortgage fiasco and I am unable to refinance...

bank bailout

mortgage

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Too funny~ you know the belly flab ad always on mylot?

sunshine4 @sunshine4 (8703) • United States 5 Feb 09

Well, it got the best of me and I clicked on the belly flab ad. I couldn't stop laughing when I saw that it was someone from my town who is advertising! How weird is that? I wanted to leave her a comment, but they were closed...

belly flab

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vrajase I have clicked on ads in the past but with all the scams I do not click them anymore. I have never seen anyone I knew on them but if I did, I would talk to that person and make sure it was her who posted it, instead of someone else who just used a picture of...

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How do you know you are a good listener??

MsCompton @MsCompton (21) • United States 5 Feb 09

List characteristics of a good listener...

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vrajase I actually took a seminar on how to be a good listener about 5 years ago, this is what I remember.... give eye contact pay attention to what the person is saying give cues that you are listening; oh, nod your head, I see... don't keep your arms...

5 Feb 09

when was the last time that you asked a stranger for help?

TnWoman @TnWoman (1895) • United States 5 Feb 09

hello everybody here at Mylot. when was the last time that you asked a stranger for help? this afternoon on my way home from work i decided that i would stop and get some gas so that i wouldn't have to stop in the morning on my...

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vrajase The last time I ask someone for help was this past Saturday. I was out hiking on a nearby trail and when I returned my car was sandwiched between 2 others and I was not able to get my vehicle out. I asked a couple walking up to the trail to help me pull out...

5 Feb 09

What is your favorite TV show?

MsCompton @MsCompton (21) • United States 5 Feb 09

Which TV show best suits you?? list below...

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vrajase Dexter is one of my favorite but I rent the series because I do not get the channel, I think it is Showtime or maybe HBO. Currently, I am still a fan of American Idol and record it on my DVR for future viewing.

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2 credit cards down and three more to go

bubblyapple @bubblyapple (2653) • Philippines 4 Feb 09

I have shared here in mylot that I have stopped using my credit cards and have started to pay them off. I have made a decision to fix my finances. One way would be to stop using credit cards and racking up debts. So now, I am...

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vrajase Congrats!! Keep up the good work and don't stop now. I made the decision to stop using credit cards 10 years ago. Back then I was depressed and unhappy because of my credit card debt but then I made the decision to stop. It took a long time and now I do have...

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Good looks vs. Sense of Humor???

zorlone @zorlone (411) • Philippines 4 Feb 09

You are dating two people. The first is someone who just walked out of a magazine! Impressive good looks! Perfect body. Eye candy however angle you look! Flaw: He/she has no sense of humor. Then comes this second person. Terrific...

good looks

good looks vs sense of humor

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vrajase Why choose? I would date both and if it got serious with either of them, that would be the person I would choose. In your scenerio...I am looking for something serious the person with the sense of humor. If I am not, the hot one because anything else...

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Stress and Depression

atish19 @atish19 (180) • Mauritius 4 Feb 09

Lots of people have died because of stress and depression. These two factors are today the most important topics. There are many reasons leading to these problems. For examples, lack of money,home loans,don't have time for...

stress and depression

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vrajase I do not believe that medication can solve the problem but cover it up. If you want to help your friend here is what I would do. Teach her to live within her means. Today people have a need for instant gratification and buying things on credit. It took me...

5 Feb 09

Still in love...but not loved....

cristina_2008 @cristina_2008 (69) • Philippines 5 Feb 09

"If you would be loved, love, and be loveable." - Benjamin Franklin "Love is not love that alters when it alteration finds." - William Shakespeare "To live is like love, all reason is against it, and all healthy instinct for...

love

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vrajase love is a feeling that has many dimensions and if you always want to be happy you need to work at it.

5 Feb 09

Advice.

Lore2009 @Lore2009 (7378) • United States 5 Feb 09

Who do you go to for advice? I used to go to some people who I thought were my friends, but they ended up giving me only politically correct perspectives. Now I only go to people who advise me with wisdom or helps me to lead my...

advice

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vrajase I tend to ask a few people for their opinion and then will do a little research using the internet. Before I make any final decisions, I always consult the one person I trust the most, besides myself, my husband. I then will take all the information and make a...

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Go To Jail...Do Not Pass Go...

twoey68 @twoey68 (13627) • United States 5 Feb 09

So I'm curious. How many ppl here have been to jail or even prison? Were you wrongly convicted? Was it as terrible as they show it to be on TV? Has it changed your life at all? I've been to jail one time for about 3 hours. I...

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vrajase I have never been to jai or prison and pray that I never do.

5 Feb 09