wunderful

@wunderful (55)

Age 54

Joined myLot 15 years ago

If you can, help others; if you cannot do that, at least do not harm them.

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a cute little love story!!

sayo13 @sayo13 (414) • India 24 Jan 12

this story is about me and my boyfriend.one day we visited a mall.there was a jewelry and crystal shop.casually we went inside the shop and started looking at the pendants.one of the pendants was really appealing to my eyes but i...

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wunderful That is a very beautiful thing, it was sad that in the beginning you did not have enough trust in him to believe he bought it in good faith, perhaps if you had not responded with suspicion and criticism initially he would have told you. When we were dating, my...

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Are you able to love someone the same way as you loved before?

Princelierocks @Princelierocks (817) • India 24 Jan 12

Hey guys, I have some discussion to share with you. My thought is, when you love someone for the first time, everything seems so bright and good, you are even ready to forgive your partner for any mistakes they have done, the...

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wunderful Through your life you constantly change, and adapt, and learn. As a teenager/young person when we first fall in love there is so much mentally, and hormonally going on, changes within or brain. At this time we feel extremes. I thin that each time you love, you...

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Your kid lost the compition

C @ShyBear88 (59275) • Sterling, Virginia 24 Jan 12

Do you get all upset when your child doesn't get first place or win the hole compition? Are you know happy if they make second places r second over all or what ever spot try get? I was watching this show and this mom got all...

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wunderful I think you must always be realistic. I always explain to my child that they should enjoy the process and that winning is a lovely bonus, everyone works on different levels of ability, and you win some, you lose some, but if you enjoy what you are doing, that...

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Is it a taboo for muslim to eat in non muslim house?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 24 Jan 12

I met a little girl today at my sister's party and asked her to help herself with the foods. She is staying across the road. I was pleasantly surprised when she answered me 'I am a muslim.' She was not with her parents at that...

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wunderful It is more a problem of halal, and this can come down to the the cooking utensils, work surfaces, pots used in the preparation on foods. If you had cut your daughters ham sandwich with a particular knife, it may not be cleaned and used for the muslim child....

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Have you ever blocked someone on Facebook?

sunlight2009 @sunlight2009 (196) • United States 24 Jan 12

Is there any time that you have had to resort to blocking someone on FB? I have blocked a number of times, and do not regret it. The one I took great delight in blocking was someone who kept pictures of Hitler on his profile,...

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wunderful Yes, my husband, or seen to be ex husband ;) It made me feel like I could take control, as he had been harassing me through internet, phone calls, texts etc. I changed numbers, emails and put up blocks. Felt far happier and calmer. If someone's chat is stupid...

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I'm thinking about hiring a helper lady

mrsgoodygoody00 @mrsgoodygoody00 (895) • United States 24 Jan 12

I was unsure about what cat. to put this in, but hopefully, I'll get some decent responses here. I am a full time stay at home mommy, and I also work full time from my house and out sometimes, and go to school full time online...

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wunderful Yes, yes, yes, if you can afford it. I would suggest, if you are a church goer, approach the minister / preacher, ask if he knows and middle aged women who has raised children, who would appreciate a little extra cash and can be reliable, and constant for...

24 Jan 12

Paying to be a sheep!

hvedra @hvedra (1619) 24 Jan 12

Someone in another discussion said that the trouble with a lot of people is they try to live as if they are millionaires for a day rather than ordinary people with ordinary incomes. I got a glimpse of this on a show called...

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wunderful I totally agree with you, we seem to support and desire falsehood, and appearance rather than substance and content. Many of the idols of the day, specifically females, are famous for nothing other than their appearance and their bedroom antics, they are...

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In a great confusion....pls help me....

sajujohn @sajujohn (1005) • India 24 Jan 12

When I'm saying this I am in a great dilemma. Actually I have been loving a girl very much for the past 3 years, but never said to her. It was about 8 months before I proposed her(said that I love her and want to marry her).But...

love

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wunderful Hi, Is it not better for your family to approach her father, rather than you? Are your family circumstances and status equal? Or is there something the father would disapprove off? It sounds like she has considered your proposal, after completing her...

24 Jan 12

What Type Of People Do You Dislike?

AidanKay @AidanKay (265) • Australia 5 Nov 09

Maybe dislike is a strong word. How about, what type of people annoy you? For example: People who talk a lot? People who are way too loud when they speak? People who are rude? I personally get a little frustrated when people...

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wunderful I would say bullies and know it alls are the most annoying, loud is not quite as bad. Bullies are just the worst.

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Eating out, Homecooking or Take Out?

missybear @missybear (11391) • United States 3 Nov 09

If it wasn't for having family come visit we hardly ever go out to a restaurant.The last time we went out to eat had to be over 3 years ago when we went to Chili's. I much rather cook at home and sit on my couch and watch TV...

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wunderful Eat at home, after working in catering for a number of years I wouldnt trust them to cook my food. What they do can be yuck.

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Will you ask "Cheater's assistance?

msedge @msedge (4011) • United States 5 Nov 09

I just watch the show "Cheaters".They give assitance to those who have been cheated.If you feel cheated and ask their help they make surveillance for your partner and take evidence if your he/she really cheats.I can see it can put...

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wunderful If something goes into the public areana it is there forever. If you think they are up to something check it out yourself, its not that hard. If you mistrust them thre is probably cause.

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Men can be pregnant?

SACHIN2708 @SACHIN2708 (1634) • India 5 Nov 09

Hi I am research on this topic so I want your opinion that if any boy will have physical relation with another boy so there is any chance that that boy will get pregnant?

sachin2708

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wunderful no. except in the case of that trans genderman, who kept his female reproductive organs intact, but was artificially inseminated

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Are you on Facebook?

iriscot @iriscot (1289) • United States 5 Nov 09

My daughter-in-laws, sons, and granddaughter are all on Facebook and they insisted that I join and put my information on "my wall". We used to email each other and pass the latest news around, but not anymore. It seems that I have...

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wunderful You can earn on your farm to upgrade, it doesnt need to cost, but some people do pay for upgrades, isn't that the point of free stuff? It hooks you in. My brother put my kids pictures and info about what they were doing, this is dangerous to me. He has a huge...

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Unwanted Visitor

ANTIQUELADY @ANTIQUELADY (36440) • United States 5 Nov 09

There is a lady here in town that comes from a good family, has a great personality but has a bad drug problem. She recently just got out of jail after serving a year's sentence for writing false prescriptions. She stole a pad...

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wunderful I think you are exactly right, a word to the local police and her family may be good too. Its wrong to target vunerable people. But I guess she is desperate. Do they not come out clean? Bad choices I guess.

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Can there be a VEGETERIAN HAM BURGER? :P

mrnischalgurung @mrnischalgurung (424) • India 5 Nov 09

I'm veg so i wanna know that can ham burger be made with vegetables k. i just wanna know that. if you have any idea then help me

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wunderful use soya or quorn if you want a meat base, veg only can be mush, a bean burger when done right is great. just google beanburger

5 Nov 09

Should i shave my chest hair?

rjl1989 @rjl1989 (190) 31 Oct 09

Would youngeer women (eg. 18-22) find me more attractive if i shaved my chest hair? What about lower back (small area above my bum) or bum? (theres only a little there too)

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wunderful coming over the neck of your t shirt is a no, otherwise it is all or nothing, have shaved is bad, my hubbie is a ll over hairy and I just got used to it.. apart from the neck. Its soft. It doesnt define you. Dont worry. Pay attention to your teeth and breath,...

5 Nov 09

Diapers

Strom222 @Strom222 (11) 5 Nov 09

Just had a baby 7 weeks ago and have had several diaper brands since.all seem to work OK. Wondering if anybody has good insight as to the best brand and why?

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wunderful Its more when they get bigger and wriggle that you need to worry, and produce larger volumes of 'stuff' the well known brands do perform better but supermarket own brands are fine, generally thicker, which is ok. Make sure they are breathable, some cheap ones...

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Talking to a young child about skin colour

liquorice @liquorice (3887) 4 Nov 09

My daughter who's nearly 4, often talks about how some colours are pretty (like pink, red and purple), and how other colours are not (she doesn't like brown, black or grey). And today she told me that people with brown skin are...

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wunderful My daughter just turned 6 said asian people were bad because they are black. She was very serious and I have no clue where it came from. My partner is middle eastern and some of his family are really dark, tere are asian and black kids- not many- in school, I...

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