BajaMa

@BajaMa (4)

Philippines • Age 51

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Legally best friends

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 13 Aug 07

Do you think you have to be your spouses best friend? I mean, if you're legally married to them, wouldn't it make sense that you should legally be their best friend? You know I think it would be so neat if there were a law...

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BajaMa I don't think one has to be his/her spouses best friend. You have each other for life, and being set to be together that long will have it's pressures also. And being too close will not give you the "outsiders" point of view. I myself have a part best...

13 Aug 07

tips on how to avoid sibling rivalry

djeljhay @djeljhay (12) • Philippines 31 Jul 07

well i used to be a single mom for 5 years,,,and now that i'm newly married i do have my another baby,, what should i do so that there will be no jealousies and rivalries between my kids who has different dads.

sibling rivalry

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BajaMa Maybe you can try to spend more time with your eldest? Spending time with the child and making him/her feel important will lessen the feeling of not being loved. Like pick him up after school (and after your workday) and treat him somewhere. Or make a...

2 Aug 07

Do you favor one child more than the other?

laydlexius @laydlexius (133) • United States 1 Aug 07

I have to say that it hurts my heart to see parents who show favor to a child over another. I feel that does nothing but causes seperation between siblings and that's not cool. In my household I did cling to my oldest son because...

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BajaMa As a mother myself, I do not intend to play favorites, as I know that I will affect them one way or the other. I always try to be fair. And I think that mothers or parents who play favorites just do not think hard enough on how to nurture their children....

2 Aug 07

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how to potty train your kids?

funkymummy @funkymummy (55) • Malaysia 2 Aug 07

i have a 3 years old son. i already started to potty train him since he was 2 and a half. he doesn't have any problem when he wants to wee wee. the problem is he doesn't like to 'pupu' inside the toilet. he wants to wear the...

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BajaMa I have two kids of my own. My firstbon, a boy, started going to the toilet for #1 and #2 when he was already 3, and I started to train him when he was 2. My second child gave up diapers when she was just 2. I guess it all depends on the maturity of the child....

2 Aug 07

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