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melvinandheather1 @melvinandheather1 (540) • United States 20 Nov 10

How can it be that you can love someone so much but at the same time not be sure if your really ready for the rest of your life with them? How is it that you can see someone else, flirt with them, and then want to be with them. I...

love

marriage

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Drumman You don't understand because you think loving someone is an emotion. Love is an emotion but loving a person is not, it's a decision. If you decide to love someone then you don't flirt with someone else.

20 Nov 10

tokwa99 @tokwa99 (92) • Philippines 16 Nov 10

I believe that the are long distance relationship that works and there are isntances that it did not. In my own opnion...its not gonna work for me. I believe that physical presence is important in any given...

long distance

lvoe

relationships

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Drumman In can work in the short term, but eventually you have to close the gap. If you can't make a long distance relationship work it's out of selfishness. It means you love yourself more than you love the other person. You want your happiness now more than you want...

16 Nov 10

Amber @AmbiePam (85497) • United States 10 Nov 10

Do you guys have a peephole in your door? I used to. I lived in a downstairs apartment for three years before moving to a top floor apartment in the same complex. And I definitely used it! On the bottom floor I was also at the...

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Drumman Here's another link. The last one is someone's interpretation of the law. This one is the actual law. It looks pretty clear to me. You must have either a peephole or a glass pane in the door according to Sec. 92.153

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Amber @AmbiePam (85497) • United States 10 Nov 10

Do you guys have a peephole in your door? I used to. I lived in a downstairs apartment for three years before moving to a top floor apartment in the same complex. And I definitely used it! On the bottom floor I was also at the...

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Drumman What state to you live in? In Texas the landlord has to give you a peephole. It's state law.

11 Nov 10

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mrpoker0112 @mrpoker0112 (243) • China 8 Nov 10

i am one's husband aged 26,i got married with my lover one year ago.in March this year i came to shanghai from a desire to make money .afterwards my wife also came here ,cause she said she missed me so much.we both got each job...

competent

husband

regret

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Drumman I respect your desire to provide for your family and not just take the easy way out with a divorce. Don't get me wrong, sometimes divorce is the right thing, but not usually. Keep fighting man, you're efforts will be rewarded when you are aged and have healthy...

9 Nov 10

mrpoker0112 @mrpoker0112 (243) • China 8 Nov 10

i am one's husband aged 26,i got married with my lover one year ago.in March this year i came to shanghai from a desire to make money .afterwards my wife also came here ,cause she said she missed me so much.we both got each job...

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Drumman Hey friend, don't get your hopes down. You're young and I assume your wife is pretty young too. Marriages are tough in the beginning. Young couples usually don't make a lot of money. You're not alone in your situation. You've learned a good lesson. It's hard...

9 Nov 10

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gewcew23 @gewcew23 (8007) • United States 6 Nov 10

There has been a bunch of discussion over abortion recently probably due to the prevalence of pro-life candidate that would ban abortion under any circumstance. Yet there is two question that very few if any pro-lifer are willing...

abortion

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Drumman Trying to ban abortion is like fighting the war against drugs or just war in general. There will always be drugs in this country and there will always be war. That's just the way it is. People don't abort or not abort according to what the law says. They do it...

9 Nov 10

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JackRoy @JackRoy (243) • United States 26 Oct 10

Whenever it rains my daughter wants to in the rain. But if she plays in the rain she falls ill. We can't let her do so. Sometimes she insists so much that we have let her go in the rain. The very night she catches fever and cough...

play in the rain

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Drumman This does not sound like a hard problem. Tell her no. If you tell her yes then don't worry about taking care of her when she gets sick, it was your fault anyway.

5 Nov 10

teamrose @teamrose (1492) • United States 21 Oct 10

An atheist lady (health club and lunch buddy) talked to me today. She is an elderly woman with a 43 year-old daughter. The daughter is the youngest of her 4 children. The daughter was just diagnosed with rectal cancer. Needless to...

atheist

christian

prayer

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Drumman I agree with macdingolinger. This lady does not sound like an atheist. She may be leaning toward atheism, but she hasn't made her mind up yet. I try not to say I'll pray for people, because usually I don't do it. Instead I ask if I can pray for them RIGHT NOW....

22 Oct 10

blessing2u @blessing2u (496) • Philippines 7 Oct 10

Two years ago as I was sitting down in my beloved chair just outside my house, somebody, a good looking man came and talked to me about the Bible. When I told him that I have a religion, he smiled and told me with a soft voice,...

religion

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Drumman I would not say your religion is nothing. If your religion teaches you what you learned from that man then it is something! I guess yours did not though. Religion can be good if it teaches about the love of God and the saving grace of Jesus Christ. That is...

8 Oct 10

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dreemsofdark @dreemsofdark (714) • United States 4 Oct 10

Any of us that are believers in God believe in God in our own unique way. We believe that he/she/it is a certain way and we are ruled by what we believe in our minds that is right and wrong and what pleases and displeases...

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Drumman I understand why you think it's pretentious, but I disagree. Let's look at your example about God creating the world by thought. If you really believe that then you have to stick with it. If you don't think you can tell someone else that God created the...

8 Oct 10

GjAMastEr @gjabaigar (2200) • Philippines 6 Oct 10

Is it the Jews who mandated by the United Nations after World War II? These are mixed of races that Converted to Jews that came from some part of Europe and Asia Minor. These are like Ashkenazi Jews, Khazar Jewish, famous people...

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Drumman I don't have a lot of knowledge about this subject. I learned a lot from everyone else. Thanks for asking and for everyone's answers. I just wanted to say I think you have an epic avatar. Awesome!

7 Oct 10

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