Smmr13211

@Smmr13211 (3)

United States • Age 75

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Expectations are what making people disappointed...

lingli_78 @lingli_78 (12822) • Australia 18 Nov 10

Do you agree with me??? I used to have high expectations on people in the past... For example, I expect other people to do the same thing like I do to them... In other words, I expect to get the same treatment as I treat other...

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Smmr13211 I think if you have expectations for people, you're setting yourself up to be disappointed even if they are close relatives. I learned this the hard way by trusting a relative too much, when all she did was lie to me. I think if you expect less, and get less...

2 Aug 13

How Do you deal with being blamed for something you did not do?

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 28 Apr 08

Today I had to write an email to a friend who is a member of my e-zine, some how or other she got deleted and she thinks I have terminated the friendship. I don't send out the e-zine a professional email host does called zinester...

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Smmr13211 I don't know how true it is, but I had read somewhere (maybe an article on the Internet) that if someone is blaming you for something that you did not do, and you defend yourself too many times that they will think that you did do whatever they're blaming you...

25 Jul 12

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How Do you deal with being blamed for something you did not do?

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 28 Apr 08

Today I had to write an email to a friend who is a member of my e-zine, some how or other she got deleted and she thinks I have terminated the friendship. I don't send out the e-zine a professional email host does called zinester...

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Smmr13211 I had heard that when someone blames you for something that you did not do, the more you defend yourself the more they think you did it.

25 Jul 12