bhastings09

@bhastings09 (6)

United States • Age 33

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How to help daughter to choose right friends/boyfriend ???

Neha Ahire @kanukrishna (423) • India 6 Sep 09

In Past few days i read several news about some teenager ( below than 18 years) girls run away from their home with guy... and after few days they (girls) comes to their homes alone and says he (her boyfriend) told a lie about...

help duaghter choose boyfriend

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bhastings09 Honestly, you can't choose your daughters friends or boyfriends. That's her decision. All you can do is to teach her the right things in life. Try to show her real men around her. But you cannot choose anything for her. That is her life, not yours. You just...

6 Sep 09

Should I tell him my feelings?

hunterh @hunterh (18) • Australia 5 Sep 09

I am currently in a relationship where we live together. I have been with the man for a year. He is abusive, hurtful, mean and disrespectful. I am planning on leaving him soon I am just getting my affairs in order. There is this...

decisions

feelings

love

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bhastings09 More than likely. What would it look like you expressing your feelings for him when you've got a man at home. It sounds like you have enough problems already. I suggest you get them out of the way first before trying to jump into something else.

6 Sep 09

Is it really OK for my just widowed mom to be on the lookout for love again?

tamark @tamark (27) • Philippines 5 Sep 09

It has been bothering me for several days already. I have a hunch she is making herself available again via the singles market (due to the fact that she is already a widow). It never occurred to me that she would give it a thought...

family

mother

remarrying

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bhastings09 I'm going to have to agree with alot of others on this subject. I feel like your mother really does need to find someone else. You say you love your mother, therefore let your mother love again. Your father is gone. Nothing can change that. That dont mean she...

5 Sep 09

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Have you ever eaten a bug?

pstclaire @pstclaire (98) • United States 4 Sep 09

Yesterday, my neighbor came over. My grandson and I were looking at grasshoppers on my vines. My neighbor commented that they were very tasty to eat. I kind of dismissed this and picked two up to show my grandson that the...

eating bugs

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bhastings09 Just the thought of eating a bug makes me want to throw up also. Some people do odd things and out of the ordinary. I wouldn't suggest anyone eating any kind of bug. Just to think that bug is alive and your eating it.. That's really nasty in my opinion.

5 Sep 09

Job Application: Through Online Or Walk In Applicant?Which Do You Prefer??

rberon1985 @rberon1985 (5359) • Philippines 5 Sep 09

There are two options for you to apply for a job. You can do it through online or be a walk in applicant. In these two options which do you prefer? With me, when i was still applying for a job. I used to do the online application....

job

online

walk in

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bhastings09 I've always preferred to do online applications. I'm not anti-social or anything like that. It's just alot easier and less intimidating.

5 Sep 09

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What is your opinion on cosmetic surgery?

langleben @langleben (42) • China 5 Sep 09

A friend of mine recently took cosmetic surgery. She did become a little more beautiful but is still far from perfect. She decided to try another kind of surgery in half a year. But I do not think that could help her. What...

cosmetic surgery

life

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bhastings09 I don't really think I would ever get it done. God made us the way we are for a reason. I don't have anything against it either though. But I do believe that sometimes people tend to go overboard with the surgeries. It's like once u get one done, they want ten...

5 Sep 09