To forgive or not forgive?!

I think you can forgive, its the forgetting that's the hard part it will always be there in the back of your mind that they did it and will they do it again. it makes it hard to trust .

If "sorry" is one of the hardest words to say, then forgiving must be one of the hardest things to do. Why do we hold on to memories that cause awkwardness and anger? Will time heal old wounds? Anyone can forgive. Anyone can accept forgiveness. Forgiveness frees a human being. It releases us from the past and frees our energy for other things in life. The healing power of forgiveness is essential for the health of our mind and body. Lets forgive and forget, eventhough they have hurt us, the chains around our hearts open up and we become free from the jail of our painful past. We will then be at peace with ourselves.

yes i can

it depends on what the person has done. if its someone you care but had hurt you badly. its really hard to forgive.

always forgive people even if your not sure forgivness will tell if the person is true or not.

IM not going to be as optimistic as the posters above. Depends whats the person has done. I may forgive but it would take a long time. As for adultery, that is something I would never forgive. Getting cheated on is one of the most painful things to experience, and it changes a person and how they trust future people. A person who can do that to a loved one, just isnt a person thats worth forgiving.

Remember the enjoyment, forget the sadness and forgive the hurt.