One of the few groups of people that I hate.

Yes, it does sound like he is one mess! That makes it tougher for you and anyone else that deals with him.

I understand why someone like this upsets you because you are a hard worker. But part of why this guy is the way he is is because no one has ever made him stand up to become responsible for himself. His mother should refuse to support him any longer. If he doesn't get a job , help with bills, and such then he is kicked out. As long as she allows him to behave this way he isn't motivate to doing anything with his life. What will happen to him when his mother passes away? Does he have someone else to go leach off of?

I can relate and I totally agree with you! I've been on my own since getting kicked out at 13yrs old and I've struggled BUT I pulled it off..so to see a grown man or woman acting like a total slacker just disgusts me to no end! If a 13-14 yr old kid can manage to survive on the streets and raise themselves AND turn out to be a respectable hard working adult then why is it an already grown person doesnt have the abilty to..AND how can ppl like that look in the mirror and be okay with what they see and who they are??? "And he is always crying about how hellish living with mommy who gives him everything and supports him without requiring him to lift a finger around the house or to go get a job, is for him" pfft what a drama queen!! If its so damn horrible, get off your rump, pack up and move the hell out!!

We meet a lot of different people in life with different personalities. This dude that you were talking about grows up in an environment where most people don't understand. It might be because of several factors and one of these factors is how he is being spoiled my his mom. But I personally believe that it's kinda flattering if someone spoils us but if it's already too much, here goes the problem. Both the guy and his mom are ought to be blamed for what happened i think. It's because I see that his mom spoils him a lot and the guy allowed his mom to do that to him...........

Thanks for the comments friend

I think that person really needs some more attention not coz' they are lazy and confused about his life but coz' they are missing some more love and support from someone who really matters to him the most. I too have one such kind of person near my neighbourhood who is much like same as him. But when he finds his true love the person has changed now they are married and are leading a peaceful and happy life...

ouch.. i am guilty of this... i don't have a job at the moment and i am living with my parents. but i have reasons for it. but unlike that dude you are talking about, i have plans for my parents and siblings. i do almost all chores at home and i do it with a happy heart. i take care of my parents and my siblings. and soon, i will be in sweden with my boyfriend and i will be working there, too one day. and i will soon help out financially, too. when that day comes, i am the happiest, most fulfilled person in the world already. happy myLotting sharone!

yeah he sure sounds like a mess ans all this is due to the fact that his parents still stick up to whatever he does and this gives him the courage and whatever he needs to behave this way.Too bas cuz you gotta be blaming the parents not that he innocent but letting such bully to rot. I'm 21 and i live with my parents and i dint think its wrong.I'd be finishing my college this may and then after i gotta be hunting a job.I have to depend on my parents till then cuz i got none depend on.Moreover I'm doing my engineering and this costs hell.I cant pull this all by myself.

You shouldn't hate anyone.

Hate is a pretty strong word to use. I don't think you really hate people like that. You probably just have no respect for people with no job ethics. Maybe he has no ethics at all. As long as his Mom and Dad are going to keep supporting him he is going to keep on doing this. So they are enabling him and are as much to blame as anyone. There are all types of people in this world unfortunately some of them are not nice people. Don't let it get to you.

Hate is a strong word and I think that one reason that people end up like this is because of the fact many people are falsely led to believe that they should have everything else that someone else has without working for it. This is what is called an intitlement mentality. And when this has gone on in someone's life for many years it can be very hard for them to change. And this is why that I think that even if someone is one public assistance of any kind they should have to do some sort of work, even if it is nothing more than reading to people who can not read. Or maybe even talking to others or something. And I think that unless that someone has a provable need for medication that most medicines are over rated, and if someone needs so much medicines especially for things like depression, then they need to be in a special care place until they don't need so much medicine. I don't mean everyone I mean just people who do not have any goals or anything, and while in a special place they should be taught some kind of skill or trade, because even someone who makes baskets can sell these for a profit and make a way to live. In my opinion. And it does get on my nerves when I see people taking so many things in life for granted when they could be doing something like making their life easier. I don't hate people like this but I think that they need to be made to know that if they will not work then they won't eat. And by work I mean I think that they need to be doing something. Within their ability. I know too many people who are really disabled and they have found a way to work. Including a lady that is can not move any part of her body from the neck down due to an accident as a teenager, She is a motivational speaker. Most everyone can do something it is my opinion.

It's people like him who are the reason there is so much violence in the world. People like him that could be the reason for mass murders.

Yes your right. However, mother is always a mother who ca not take to make their childrens burden. Like you I never experienced also those things. Because I was left with my parents when I was at the age of two years old up to the present. Since, he is bond with that condition may be the only things that we can help is to tell him the wrong things that he had. And eventually motivating him most of the time in a right way of approaching him. Sooner or later he will realize and start to make himself a productive one.

That deffinately does sound frustrating. I hate people who complain about their life when they have it all. I have a friend who tries to compare her life to mine all the time. I was talking bout how i was broke and she agreed that she was and how she expected her parents to pay for stuff for her (they're rich) but my parents cant afford to randomly give me money unless its important. If i couldnt hang out with my boyriend one day a week ill say something and shell be like I couldnt hang out with mine today:( even tho she hung out with him 3 consecutive days before that.. Some people just take everything for granted. They need a rude awakening.

Sounds like this guy has some problems. Are you his mother's in home care provider?

youre right people like that have no future and not willing to take some responsibility on his life, im too was baffled for that kind of behavior he must be in psychiatric treatment so that all his woes in his life would be out and start a new life if ever he will reform .

I have been suportign myself since i was 14 and paying rent to them while i went to school there is no reason for a growen person to be supprted by there parents at that age i cannot understand that. If it were me i would be busting my A$$around the palce tryign to earn my keep adn to make things easier for them. But i guess this goes back to spare the rod adn spoil the child.

Ugh I hate that type of person. I came across that a lot in college, girls whining that their parents bought them a used bmw for their birthday-oh god the horror! Some people just expect a handout all their life.

Well i can put the situation like this, let his parents leave him to his fate he will know the importance of them. At least they should lrt him know what kind of trouble he is to them.

its not that i hat people like them but i just dont see the beauty and worthy of not having a job or those that you have said... people should seek personal growth an part of it is having fun and makig evry moment of their lives inlcuding decisions worthy.. eople i really hate are people who could not understand how it is to be in pain.. they somewhat discourage you on your endeavor.. www.fjordz-hiraya.blogspot.com