How about arguements?
May 10, 2007 4:23am CST
Are you in the habbit of entering into arguements upon issues with your friends? Why do quitely started debates turn into hot arguements? What could be the main reason? Have you ever entered into any arguement? Do you believe that an arguement could help you establishing your views? What is your overall view about arguements? Five questions are given above. My request to you is not to answer all these questions.If you are willing you nay answer, but what I ask is to choose one question and give your answer to that. Often we see friends, when in company, starts discussion and debate upon some subject, such as the latest movie or some thing like that. After some time this will turn into a heated arguement. I think the villain behind this transformation is ego. It is egoism holds a person from admitting what the other fellow says is true. Though he kmows the fact, his ego don't allow him to admit that. So I think the answer for the second question (accorsing to me) is this. Friends, please come out with your answers and enrich this discussion.
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11 May 07
Im not into the habit of quarreling... I must admit my temper is not tt bad... Yet i have totally no idea as to why? My bf and i always quarrel... N everything its over those small nonsensical issues... I always tend to comment too much and he will get irritated... Guess its my character that kills... However, i do have a friend tt tend to quarrel with every single one... Whenever shes not satisfied or she feels tt its wrong, she will interfere... Irregardless of whether its her concern anot... Her ego is too high too... Guess sometimes we should control our anger because too much quarrels can hurt a relationship between family friends or boyfriend...
11 May 07
I have a really bad habbit to enter in arguments with my friends and even with strangers and aslo with my parents ..! Its not because of ego but it is cause of I can not stand people doing and beliveing wrong things!! Unkown to the right knowledge. So I get an inbuilt urge to go up there and correct them up..! But this do not happens every time..!! Some times I just cannot agree with people..!! Well I guess this "is" a sign of ego but before entering in an argument I make it sure that I know almost 70 percent of the topic..!! So that I can willingly participate in that argument. I do it just to increase the range of my thinking ability..!! I want to think in all four directions of life..!! Including bad and good aspects of life..!! So I guess getting in an argument is good way to increase your knowledge and that too with a hot enthusiasm...!! I like the spirit and energy which I feel inside me whenever I indulge in an argument!! Which make me fall in many other arguments too..!! Happy argumenting!! Have a nice day.
10 May 07
When I think of arguments I think of debates out of control. However, in a court of law lawyers give opening and closing arguments. In that case the arguments would be under control. I have discussions with my friends and colleagues about sports. Some of my colleagues support different sports teams than I do. We like to tease each other and we discuss the good and bad points of the teams we support but it is always friendly banter. I can not remember the last time I had a 'hot' argument with anyone. It is my nature to be peaceful.
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
10 May 07
As for me, I engage only in healthy arguments. Arguments for arguments' sake..it's not my way. Arguments should always be based on finding out solutions and those must have scope for weighing out pros and cons.
10 May 07
I have ever entered into so many arguments before. Some where academic and some football, but Thanks to God I later discovered how useless it was to waste time ones time for arguments. What really brings arguments between two parties is as a result of both parties agreeing with each other. Have a nice day.
• United States
10 May 07
I mean , Who hasnt entered into an argument ... all of us argue at some point or other in our lifes ... arguing is a part and parcel of our life ..... Humans have been blessed with the power and ability to think , and then present their views ... these views differ from person to person and this results into an argument ... I'm not saying that Getting into an argument is a good thing .. all I am trying to say is that avoid sensless arguments , arguments which are caused because you have not given proper thaught ... avoid those arguments ... but if you get into an argument to fight out ur rights or for freedom or against some thing unjust , and that sorts .... great .... then Argue till you u get yourself heard ....... Hope this was intresting ;-