It's so quite.....i dont know what happen?
By cheenlly
@cheenlly (3477)
Philippines
May 14, 2007 7:47am CST
I was really wondering, why is so quite here? i mean quite, since yesterday i had only few responses to my discussion. I dont know if i did something wrong to upset my friends here. Did I? Are you all upset with me because i didnt able to respond to some of you. If i do im really sorry my friends, sincerely im trying hard to respond to all of you my friends but please understand me as i dont have enough time to respond to all. For those who regularly appreciate my discussion, with all my heart i really appreciate you all and please dont think i am not if i cant add comment right then when you respond. I have read all of your responses to me and rate them but i just cant immediately comment on it and im thanking all of you. I was thinking maybe its my discussion getting boring, is it? Does is sound boring now? Please do tell me so i will be aware. Im really trying my best to contribute quality responses here and right now im really sad to see my discussion so quite. PLease enlighten me. Thanks in advance.
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22 responses
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
14 May 07
Hello,i also noticed that it had been slow here yesterday,i think the reason was that many people had been out for the mother's day and did not get time for mylot.I could see fewer people start discussions yesterday than ususal.I do not think there are any problems for you discussions,they are still of good quality,you do not need to worry,there is always some days when there are fewer people posting and replying.
Good luck.
@helpmehelpyou (534)
• Canada
14 May 07
i would like to think it was caused by moms day,,,,,,and the weather, usually raining on this day of celebration. hope everyone enjoyed a nice warm mom's day, by the way the attendance rose 2000 points since friday
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@dedicated_28 (1383)
• United States
14 May 07
hi, cheenlly. I can honestly say you haven't done anything to upset me. I'm sorry you haven't been receiving many responses. maybe it's been quiet due to Mothers day. your discussions are quality, and i always enjoy them. i'm sure nothing is wrong, everyone was probably just busy and you know that different time zone thing. smile, all is well:-)
@cheenlly (3477)
• Philippines
14 May 07
Honestly too like i told easy888 you both have no idea how did you make me feel better. Im really glad to hear you cheer me up. It helps a lot take away my sadness. Hearing from both of you makes me think that i do still exist here in mylot. Thanks a lot for being one of my friends here. Godbless you!
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@dedicated_28 (1383)
• United States
14 May 07
You are most welcome. May God bless you also.
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@kgwat70 (13388)
• United States
14 May 07
I too feel that yesterday was quiet but it was due to it being Mothers Day and families spending time with their loved ones. There was probably not much activity on here or any other sites because of the special day for our moms. I was out part of the day as well though I had time later in the day and evening to come on myLot. I am sure you did not do anything wrong. Now we are back to work and our other activities, things should pick up again. Plus we just got back a few days ago, so people are probably taking a little break.
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@GardenGerty (157903)
• United States
15 May 07
Do not take it so personally, thee just seems to be an ebb and flow on here. Yesterday was a holiday for many. For others, it was the beginning of a work week. Like I said, some times it just is quiet.
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
21 Apr 08
I am going to bring this back to the top of the page. Tee hee. This weekend (a year later) was very slow here it seemed as well.
HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
14 May 07
I guess people are taking a break. I have found out that people usually do that after payout and then they work harder at the end of the month. I am sure that all your friends will be back replying to your discussions soon =)
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@cynddvs (2948)
• United States
14 May 07
I know some of my recent discussions have been rather quiet as well. And I haven't been able to respond to as many discussions as usual because I've been so busy the past couple of weeks. I think maybe a lot of people have been busy here lately. It's almost time for school to be out where I live so I know a lot of people are busy preparing for their summer vacations and getting things ready for the kids. Not to mention Mother's Day was this weekend so I'm sure a lot of people were busy this weekend. I wouldn't get too upset about not getting too many responses right now. I'm sure it has nothing to do with your conversations. I'm going to try to get back on the ball with mylot and start being more active with participating in discussions.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
14 May 07
Sweetie it is not you I said ages ago that it is very quiet lately in here
I think a lot of the Older Members are just a bit upset at the moment like me because of what is happening here with Points and a few other Things to
So please Love do not think it is you as it isn't
@lucy02 (5016)
• United States
14 May 07
I don't think it was anything you did. Yesterday was Mother's Day so probably a lot of people were spending time with family. I haven't been on here quite as much lately due to being busy with yard work, helping husband, and housework. Hope to get back to normal soon.
@kelly60 (4547)
• United States
14 May 07
I think that Mother's day kept many of us occupied yesterday. Also, you say that you don't always have the time to respond to the discussions of others. Do you think that others may not have the time to respond to your discussions?
@apakabar2007 (1693)
• Netherlands
14 May 07
Nah....I don't think you upset your friends - at least not me. Yesterday was mother's day and I spent the whole day out....I loved that my husband and my daughter spoiled me the whole day. Other than that, I had also some problem with mylot. Couple of times, I couldn't get through. Soon as I hit the post response button mylot system hang. So all my typing was gone. And today....I don't feel well either. My daughter sick and me too. We're having this terrible coughing, sore throat, fever, flu and headache ... ouch.... Something in the air that makes lotsa people sick here...
So, there's always an explaination. And as for me, you are definitely not the caused. Cheer up !!!!
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@retardedrugrat (4791)
• Canada
14 May 07
Yesterday was a quiet day at Mylot, and I think thats because it was Mothers Day. many people do tend to treat their moms on Mothers Day and so that's probably why it was so quiet.
There are also the odd days here when it's quiet anyway for no good reason, and I think, especially recently too, that many of the members are getting annoyed because they're losing points and they don't know why.
Some of the longer term members are talking about leaving, and I'm sure some of the newer ones are thinking about it too.
Don't get discouraged if your discussions are a little quiet from time to time. It's something that happens for a day or so. I'm sure you'll find that they pick up again soon.
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@Woodpigeon (3710)
• Ireland
15 May 07
I wouldn't worry over much about it. I think some days are just slowere than others and really, as the weather improves, won't it quiet down at Mylot a little? I know I will be away a lot in the summer and with the children home and so forth I will have less 'turns' on the computer. I think we are just moving into that part of the year?
@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
15 May 07
I felt the same way a few days ago and even posted a discussion about giving up, but then I recieved so many responses from other members that gave me so much enlightment. I also thought that my discussions were boring but according to my responses, not everyone really had an opportunity to read them....so don't be sorry, you have yet to offend anyone here...It's just that there are so many if not too many discussions out there and so little time to reply to them.
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@amitavroy (4819)
• India
28 Apr 08
yes my friend this even frustrates me. lot of times i can see that there are no response to any thread at all. it looks like the whole is haunted although there are so many of them at one time
@Katlady2 (9904)
• United States
14 May 07
Please don't stress too much over this hon. There will always be days here and there when it seems as if no one is around. Usually people have gone on vacation, are working, or (like me the last week) have been going crazy with running errands and dealing with bills. Your discussions are awesome sweetie. You need not worry about that. So cheer up, ok? Take care hon and try to have a good day.
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@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
14 May 07
I know that usually the Sundays are quiet, i think that the main reason is that many people take the time to be with their families, and i know that in my country where Sunday is the first day of the week, it is also the busiest day, and people usually are starting the week at their job and studies and when they go come back to their house, they usually resting or going to sleep early.
Sunday is always a quiet day here, from what i have noticed.
@thefuture (1749)
• Nigeria
14 May 07
No friend, I must say you have never got upset with you, but on the contrary, I do enjoy your discussions. Please keep it up, cos you are one of those people who makes me feel I have friends. Don't be sad friend, but try and make yourself happy. Thanks and have a nice day.
