If you had a choice to..

I would choose have a love in my life. Which i must say, i already found, and no matter how things are, i won't ever lose that, never, and neither will she....we will have each other inside our heart & souls as long after live and even beyond....and if you don't believe me it means you have never experienced full and unconditional love.

I would never be with someone that i did not love being around! that a waste of time, why be in love if the person not good for you. The right person will help you grow as a person not make you fell like your loseing yourself. To be without it find,longs as i don't have to spend my life with someone i don't love deep down!

This would be an easy choice for me, because of what I have gone through in the past, I would, without a shadow of doubt choose a life WITHOUT having love. Love is too complicated, causes upset and can be very manipulative, controlling and too much to bear, I am too much of an independent, self-centred person to share my life. I've had 9 years of it and believe me it's like a prison sentence. Sometimes I think serving time in prison would have been far preferable to living with my exes.

My heart needs to have love! If this person loves me back, love has a way of making good changes in people! Life without love seems to me to have no purpose. Take care Liranlgo.

Definately I would choose LOVE. Noone has ever claimed that love is an easy thing, but all the complications are so worth it. I would not wanna live without love... That would be very lonely and kind of boring Me and my bf have our arguments and it is not always easy, but i can not see myself in life without him and his love =)

what's the use of life wiithout love? i would choose to have a love in my life because i believe love will help me go through and be happy.

i would choose to live life than be in love with a complicated person. i couldnt handle them being hard work for me so i would choose to be without love for the rest of my life

I prefer to have love in my life. I don't think I could live without love.

It is true that once a upon a time I was a joyful, happy go lucky lady. When I met and married my husband it had transformed me into a totally different person. I don't see things eye to eye with him most of the time and can't mix around with his buddies. I am so unhappy in the confine of this marriage. The unhappiness has made me a withdrawn person. At times I have even forgotten how to laugh. I rather chose to live a lonely life then live a life of misery.

I am sorry that I didn't read your lines thoroughly. Love is the upmost form of emotion. And to pursue love is inevitable period of man. That's also something which has been implied in the Genesis. But I still insist my opinion, as better to love to get lost in love.

i think i will choice life.beacase love is not all life,i choice my own life. i cant do that lose myself just for someone.it is not my want

well life isn't complete without love... its a bread and butter... love is a compliment of life... but when it seems like you loose your self because of the person you love.. it does'nt realy matter if you realy love that person.. that you can't change him/her to any of the things in life.. yet if you could bare to seek life out of that person you call your love... you might be wrong about it... you dont love him/her anyway... you feel he's/she's just your responsibility that you could not long to cary on to your shoulder... turning the topic into another, every person have their own limitatioin and yet every person have their own life... have their own meaning about it, have their own path to follow... it only takes you and that person to forever, if and only if you have the same path... well we dont know where are we to go... where are we to end up to.. but life has begining and there must be and end... nah... I'm talking much about the life... not with the topic here.. hahaha LOL...

uhm.. when i think that i already have done good things in my life and to God in the church i would choose love (but ofcourse i will not kill myself).. because for me what is love without life.. life is nothing without love and it is better to die loving and being loved but living without knowing how to love and being love.. haaizz.. i miss being inlove..

I will choose love over lonely heart. I lived without love before and just found my another half recently. I am happier than before. But, I do believe it is not the end of the world if you have to live without love!

its a difficult choice liran. ideally it should be LOVE over LIFE. but practically, its different though. i have lived a long tumultous life with my love, fighting day in and day out. i loved him, he loved me, but it didn't work. we fought each day over trifles and before actually realising, things were over. LOVE is still there but i feel, in some cases its like a labyrinth of pains, hurts and little love. so if what you have stated is the case, its always better to let go and live. and i feel, as in my case, i can still love him with not him being around and only by leaving him i will get closer to him. good luck!

Ha....I would like to choose the first choice. I would like to analyse the second one first. Man converts himself between being in relationships and loneliness. Man is born to desire for being in a relationship and no one wants to be alone. In other words, to be solitary means to desire for relationships. Those who doesn't want to be in a relationship that he got tired with will move back to solitude, in order to avoid the hurt that relationship have would bring about. My analysis stems from the view of post-modernism of psychoanalysis. It is really unimaginable to be solitary, for me. I have been in loneliness for a whole week during SARS peroid in China. That's a pure agony. For the first choice, if I find myself losing myself, that's love, that's also the joy of love. I got such feeling after one year I got along with her. But she was not a complicated one. Unluckily we got separated in two places and our affairs sounds to be suspended. I don't know why. And now I tried to reveal myself to her, but no reply.