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prayers - Our mother, the virgin Mary
@liyan97 (2127)
Northern Mariana Islands
June 15, 2007 3:28pm CST
Hi....I have a nine year old son who suffers from a mood disorder, he often hurts himself. At times he bends is fingers to the point where it will become swallen, he bangs his head on the wall, he bites himself and last week he punched himself until he recieved a black eye! I am really scared and worried, because I don't know how to deal with it anymore! The doctors have changed his meds three times before & he still suffers from this violent behavior.I have to phsyically restrain him when his behavior becomes violent and it kills me inside! I hate to see my son in so much physical and emotional pain. Although it is tough, I have accepted it because this is the path that the lord has provided us. All I ask is that you please join me in my prayers for my son. It is my faith that has got me this far in life and I hope that the lord can continue to shine in our life and can provide spiritual help for my child.
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@susieq223 (3742)
• United States
15 Jun 07
It sounds to me like your son has more than just a mood disorder. I wonder about your doctors. Are they psychiatrists? Could he be autistic? Please excuse my nosiness. I am a retired mental health counselor and I have a hard time believing there isn't something that could help with his problem. Not just medication, but also other kinds of treatment. You have probably had him to a million doctors who have tried a a hundred things and I am butting in. Anyway, you do have my thoughts and prayers.
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@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
15 Jun 07
I live on an island called Saipan...I don't know if you have ever heard of it, but anyways....It has been said that he needs to see a psychaiatrist in order to get the "right" meds for him and to evaluate his mood disorder. Right now he has been diagnosed with (Mood Disorder [296.99], Epilepsy [345.1] and Learnig Disorder [315.2]) We are in therapy because that is all they say they can do at this time. Because unfortunatly we don't have a psychaiatrist on island. He is currently on Depakote...which is supposed to supress his mood swings, but honestly it is becoming worse as each day passes. Thank you so much for your thoughts, prayer and wonderful insight:)
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@GardenGerty (157562)
• United States
16 Jun 07
I worked with special kids at a preschool level for several years. We did have one child who would come in with bite marks up and down his arms. We would ask him where they came from and he would say "I did it at naptime at daycare." He would get angry and violent. Over the summer he was evaluated for food allergies, and was given a very restricted diet. He was like a different child. All of that is to say that maybe he needs to be tested for food allergies. I am praying for him right now, and for your other kids, too. I would also wonder about a sensory disturbance. I understand that you are in a place that does not have lots of doctors and lots of choices, and that is so sad.
@wachit14 (3595)
• United States
16 Jun 07
Yes, I agree that he should definitely be tested for food allergies as certain foods in children who are sensitive will set off a behavior that mimicks a behavioral disorder. Also, there is much better medication than depakote for mood disorders, but he needs to be evaluated by a psychiatrist. I pray that in your journeys you and your son will be led to a doctor who at long last can finally help him. I believe in my heart that this will happen.
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@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
16 Jun 07
Thank you so much for your insight. I have heard so many times before by others about a "sensory disturbance" I have to bring him to the hospital on monday for yet, another blood test and I will bring up the "food allergies" to his doctor. It is really frustrating because his doctor can only do so much....And the fact is he needs to see someone else! We went to Guam last month where he recieved a consultation from a neurologist and thats where the "Mood Disorder" diagnosis came from....But all he could do was prescribe Depakote. I have spoken to his doctor here about this issue but she told me that, I have to undrstand that she is not a psyciatrist and she can not prescibe the meds he needs. Even the therapist that we see told me the same thing! I love my island because this is my birth place, but I have already decided that the only choice for us is to move away. That way my son can recieve the treatment he needs. Thank you so much for your prayers:) & letting me ramble on about my problems...lol..I have recieved so many responses from other Mylot members, and I must say that it is members like you all that make this such a great place to be;) Thank You Again!
@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
16 Jun 07
Thank You:)
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
15 Jun 07
I feel so sorry for you and your son. I have seen children like that and I really feel for them. I have saud a prayer for the both of you and I hope the prayer will work. May God bless the both of you. I pray for the best of help for the both of you also.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
15 Jun 07
You are very much welcome. That was the least I could do for the both of you. I hope all of the prayers come true for you both.
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@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
15 Jun 07
Thank you so much for your thoughts and prayer! Words can not begin to express the appreciation I feel for your thoughtfullness....THANK YOU
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@susieq223 (3742)
• United States
16 Jun 07
I'm sorry you live in an area with limited health care options. That makes things much harder. Does your son have problems communicating? Does he seem to occupy another world? Is he attracted to objects that flutter, rotate or move in a regulated way? Since you do have access to a computer and the internet, do a search on autism and see if his behavior matches what you read. There is work going on for new meds for autism. It seems there is quite a rise in this illness and experts say one out of every 150 children could be affected. If you have questions, let me know. I will keep you in my heart.
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@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
16 Jun 07
I too believe that he suffers from a certian extent of autism because he does have some speech delay, he tends to fixate on certain colors and of course he seems to have a sensory defect. But the only thing that doctors have diagnosed him with is "A Mood Disorder[296.99] (unspecified), eplilesy [345.1] and a learning disorder [315.2]" He has been on the schools evaluation list for two years now, but nothing has been done! I finally choose to go to (NMPASI), they are lawyers who advocate for children with disabilities. They have assured me that my son will recive a psychological evaluation as well as speech and behavior at the beging of the school year in August. I am also praying that it goes through! The problem here on our island is that there are limited funds and thats why our children suffer. Thank you so much for your thoughts, I am truly grateful for all your thoughts and prayers.
@Feona1962 (7526)
• United States
15 Jun 07
I just said a prayer for you and your son, and I will pray for you when I say my nightly prayers...I surely do hope and pray that things get better for both of you...There must be something out there to ease your troubles...God bless you and keep you......
@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
15 Jun 07
Thank you so much, I hope that one day I can return to comfort you in your time of need:) Thank You again!
@Feona1962 (7526)
• United States
15 Jun 07
You are very welcome, and so very kind..Give your son a huge hug from me and you take care of yourself so you can take care of him.....Bless you
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17 Jun 07
go ahead and print it off, i found this prayer after reading your post, hope it can be of some comfort. all my love louise x
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@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
17 Jun 07
Thank you so much:)
• United States
16 Jun 07
Sorry to hear about your son. I hope there is a cure for this. I am not a doctor so I don't know. Remember the sun always come out after the rain. There is always hope. Keep the faith and he'll get better soon.
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@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
16 Jun 07
Thank you so much for taking the time to respond. I too hope that with all the technology that this world is coming to, that one day there will be a cure for all illnessess, especially those which afflict children. Thank You Again
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
aoh! God is the answering God.He always hear us if we ask him a help.So why not draw to him while he still found.Anywhere we are God hear our prayer.Yes I will pray for you.Even how far we are God is everywhere..
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@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
16 Jun 07
Thank you so much for your prayers;) I appreciate your wounderful insight. Although, I struggle to understand all that has forsaken me, I have always and always will place my faith on the lord in my soul! Thank You again...
• China
16 Jun 07
I'm sorry to hear that.And I think you are a brave parent.Certainly,I will join your prayers for your son.Hope he recover soon.
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@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
16 Jun 07
Thank you so much for your suport! No words can trully express thae appreciation I have for all the responses I have recieved. nonetheless, I would like to say Thank You Again;) I see that you are a new member here....Welcome...& I hope that the time you spend here on MyLot will lead you to enjoy it, as well as I do:)
@micaella (396)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
I know and I can feel the pain you suffering in this kind of situation - I will Pray for your son and for you too. May God Bless You!!!
@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
16 Jun 07
Thank you very much for your thoughts and prayers! I hope one day I can also extend my help in your time of need:)
• Canada
16 Jun 07
me and my church group will keep you and your son in prayer
@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
16 Jun 07
Thank you so much, I appreciate all the prayers we can recieve:)
• United States
16 Jun 07
so sorry to hear. You and your family will be in my prayers =)
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@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
16 Jun 07
Thank you:0 I appreciate your kindness:)
@SARAJEV0 (27)
• United States
16 Jun 07
im so sorry to hear about that, and I will always pray for you and hope that your son gets better. Please let us know.
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@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
16 Jun 07
Thank you so much for your suport! I have placed all the prayers and responses that in my heart! I am truly greatful for the compassion that you all have shown in our time of dispair! although my sons condition may not take a turn right away, you should know that I have been sharing this discussion with him and it has began to heal his soul...Thank You so much!
@kjlian (19)
• China
16 Jun 07
I am so sorry to hear the bad news from you about your son's case! The only thing I can do, facing this thing, is to pray to Gold to bless your sonny!Please be patient to he!Under so much care from all of us,wonder will happen!
@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
16 Jun 07
Thank You......Although times can get rough, I do try my best to be patient with my son...Thank you for your words of inspirationL:)
• Philippines
15 Jun 07
I feel sorry for you as I am a mom myself and I fully understand how you must feel. Have the doctors told you what exactly is his sickness? How about looking for a really good doctor in that line? Do some research work so you will also know more about the disease and learn things that could help him, like the food that he should eat, exercises, etc., besides the medication he is taking. You and your son have my prayers.
@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
15 Jun 07
Thank you for your response! I have done various researches in the hopes that I can find something that would help. But honestly, I still can't understand where his need to self injur comes from. I have done everything from blaming myself to balming others....I really don't quite know how to deal with it anymore, I have three children and it has also taken a toll in their lives. My five year old is affraid of him and my one year old at times begins to mimic him. I am greatful for your thoughts and your prayers...THANK YOU
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
Don't worry my friend time will come all your worries will vanish. And you can expect for my prayers. I sometimes have a problem too and constant and devoted praying is a good healing for your child. My thoughts and prayers always be with you.
@azimsay (543)
• India
16 Jun 07
My grand son he saw me morning Ipray to god.He is marking me how to pray yo god.After Fifteen mts he told me pl give me prayers. Igive him prayers.
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@Sherry12 (2472)
• United States
16 Jun 07
Yes I sure will pray for your son. And I will pray for you too. You are a good parent for taking care of him and not givin up on him. All things are possible thru God, we will be praying.
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@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
16 Jun 07
Thank you so much for your response! No words can truly express that appreciation I feel:)
• United States
15 Jun 07
I am very sorry to hear what your family is going through! You and your son will be in my prayers! I was reading more on the post and you said your son was on depakote. That is for seizures and bi-polar. Could also be for migraine headaches. I agree with another responder that the symptoms sound more like he is autistic. Good Luck!
@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
15 Jun 07
Thank you for taking the time to respond:) Yes, he is on Depakote....The doctor said that it would help him with his mood disorer, but I am honestly confused:(...Because they are not exactly sure what type of disorder he has..they just labeled it as "A Mood Disorer!" I have been going through this for over seven years now and it has taken it's toll on me. I appreciate your prayers and hopefully, someone out there can help me and give me th peace of mind that I seek. Which is: For someone to diagnose my son with the (right) disorder and provide the (right) meds and therapy that he can benefit from! Thank you again
@MJLami (1173)
• United States
15 Jun 07
You are most definitely in my prayers. I hope there can be healing and support for you all soon. God Bless.
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@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
15 Jun 07
Thank you so much for your response, I am trully greatful:)