Well I deleted myself

@IL2Knit (1141)
United States
July 3, 2007 3:03am CST
I just deleted myself from cafemom. I tell you I'm so angry I could spit fire and call it ice. For the life of me I'll never understand how some people can be so evil. Some of my friends there went behind my back and tried to cause trouble between me and my daughter. I just don't understand why. I thought if that is the way they want to be then I just don't need to be there for them to kick around. What would you do in my place? I don't like fighting, it isn't fun. Please cheer me up.
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23 responses
@Marie2473 (8519)
• Sweden
3 Jul 07
You did the right thing. People online can be really evil. most of the times they would never act like that in person, but because of the fact that they are hidden behind a computerscreen they get the guts to act out. Just stay here at Mylot instead =)
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4 Jul 07
You hit it right on the head marie, well said!
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
4 Jul 07
Yes you are right. I do like it here very much. I think most people here try to be nicer. And most of us just don't have the time for that junk. It is much more fun getting pennys and stars. LOL
4 Jul 07
Totally agree. There are some real malicious ppl out there who get off on trying to upset ppl when they hid behind a computer screen. I really like the end of Jay & Silent Bob Strikes Back where they go around calling on these type of ppl and 'sort them out'.
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@mimpi1911 (25477)
• India
3 Jul 07
that wasn't funny at all!! you did the right thing sweetie. why do you have to care, specially when it concerns you and your daughter!! you will lose nothing, i think, its the right move , just the right time. cheer up!! its their loss altogether. smiles..
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
4 Jul 07
Thanks Hunny. You made me feel better, I needed that. :)
@sid556 (31000)
• United States
3 Jul 07
sounds as if you did the right thing. Sorry that happened to you but no one should come between you and your daughter and you are right in not letting them. Cheer up there. don't let them get to you.
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
4 Jul 07
Thanks for your reply. I love my daughter very much and she loves me. We are very close. Thoes silly women can't change that. :)
@sid556 (31000)
• United States
4 Jul 07
Good job...don't let anyone come between you and your daughter. Sounds as if you are bonded tight enough that they could not.
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@Lucille7 (509)
• South Africa
3 Jul 07
Sorry to hear about your bad experience. I try not to have people in my life like that. Because I just do not have the time or the energy for it and then I end up spending more time on trying to console myself. So I would have done the same thing. Life is too short to clutter up one's life with this type of meaningless part time. Cheer up and try and have a good day...
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
4 Jul 07
Thanks so much. I must say I love that avatar. It is very pretty. There are a lot of pretty avatars here at mylot.
@Lucille7 (509)
• South Africa
4 Jul 07
Thank you very much! I appreciate that. Yes there are many pretty avatars here. I have seen so many of them that are really nice. Thanks again!
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• United States
4 Jul 07
I would do exactly what you did.Those "friends " were not real friends. The best way to cheer up is to go out or have a girls night in with your real friends.
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
8 Jul 07
That is what I think too. That sounds like a lot of fun. I think I'll just start planning that. Thanks. :D
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@makingpots (11922)
• United States
4 Jul 07
Oh, I am sorry you had a bad experience on that site. Look at the bright side..... more time for myLot. :) We will be nice to you here, IL2Knit!
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
8 Jul 07
So very true. I don't think I will ever get sick of this place. Thanks :)
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@williamjisir (22901)
• China
3 Jul 07
Cheer up, IL2Knit. Fighting isn't fun at all. How come we have such people doing these evil things to cause trouble between you and your daughter. It is wise for you to do so, but how can you delete yourself from cafemom once we have got a username on the website? I am concerned about that as well.
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
4 Jul 07
Yea I know I hate to fight. To get deleted I had to ask cafemom to do it. But first I went around and deleted my pictures and personal info. That way I could be sure that as much was gone as I could. I really don't know if a person could get any of my stuff by typeing in my name or not. I hope not. I'm not going to let them get me down again. Thanks :)
@meljessxena (2317)
• Australia
4 Jul 07
i cant believe people would do such a thing, actually yes i would, people have tried doing that to my family, you did the right thing, stay away from them, move on, they are just jealous. you dont need rubbish like that going on in your life.
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
8 Jul 07
It is sad really. You know I think of things to do that are mean BUT I never do the things. We can't help what pops into our head but we can help what we do. Some people just can't get it I guess. Thanks. :)
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• Pakistan
4 Jul 07
dont worry about that.You are here on mylot and you have lots of friends here.No need to worry,CHEER UP!
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
8 Jul 07
Thank you very much. I will cheer up. :)
• China
4 Jul 07
well I should tell you that you did right .do the things you want to do.
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
8 Jul 07
Thanks for your reply. You are so right. :)
@joahnna18 (368)
• Philippines
4 Jul 07
oh i'm sorry fot that incident.. don't worrry cheer up. and it's sad that people online make you mad. just stay here in mylot and meet new friends to cheer you up.. happy posting!
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
8 Jul 07
I will. I'm really having so much fun here. Mylot is a fun place.
@sunshinecup (7880)
4 Jul 07
If you are not one for that kind of stuff, I think you did the right thing. No since in putting up with that when there are so many other places you can come to like here. Mylot won't put up with them doing that to you here.
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
8 Jul 07
I never liked to figh. My father was always mad and yelling at us. I don't have the time for that junk.
@gmakesmoney (2923)
• United States
3 Jul 07
You did the right thing, being a member of sites that allow things like that just aren't worth it. It's always best to cut off the negative before they cause even bigger problems. You're a great person, don't let anyone get you down!
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
8 Jul 07
OK Thank you very much. :)
@brendakaya (2335)
• United States
3 Jul 07
I think you did the right thing. It's too bad that some people like causing trouble for others, but that's just the way some are. No need in putting yourself through that. Take care.
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
8 Jul 07
Thank you so much for your reply.
@RosieS57 (889)
• United States
3 Jul 07
Congrats on not letting the control freaks get to you any more. I recently quit Usenet for the same reason -- the control freaks being exceptionally nasty. Yay for you for breaking away. You'll feel better not having to deal with it any more.
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
8 Jul 07
Thanks. I really do like it here. But I have to say I did have more GOOD friens than Bad ones. I really miss some of them.
@Calais (10900)
• Australia
3 Jul 07
Good on you, you sound like the better person here...Nobody needs that kind of petty $hit.
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
8 Jul 07
LOL So very true. Thank you for your post. :)
• United States
3 Jul 07
Sorry that happened to you. I think you have done the right thing when it comes to hurting you and your daughter you don't need that type of people in your life. Take care.
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
8 Jul 07
You are so right. Thank you.
• Philippines
3 Jul 07
You did the right thing. Why suffer for the hands of people who have such attitude. They cant respect other people's view. I am glad that mylot is a lot more decent than the other sites. There are also villains here but they are not as harsh as those you were talking about.
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
8 Jul 07
It is nice to not have the Momma Drama that goes on. It can be fun there. I just need to stay more aware.
@mgmagana (3621)
• United States
3 Jul 07
u def. did the right thing! i hope none of those people r here in mylot! Cheer up! Just know I wouldn't have done anything any differently!
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
8 Jul 07
Thanks Hunny. There are Trolls every place I guess. I need to be much more carefull on the net.
@crazynurse (7489)
• United States
3 Jul 07
Just think, that is one less thing that is present to complicate your life! Most of us need to take steps to simplify our lives. You have! Life is too short to spend it being tied up with complicating issues. Consider the freedom you now have...one less worry! Fill that void with something that is special for you...that will bring joy!
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
8 Jul 07
So very true. I'm filling that void right now. LOL