Another behavioral problem being called a disease

@deebomb (15304)
United States
July 16, 2007 12:19pm CST
I just read about a couple in Reno Nevada that were letting their babies starve while playing internet video games (Dungeons & dragons). They let their little boy 22 months and daughter 11 months old got hungry while they played. They had plenty of food just were too busy to take car of the babies. Besides being malnourished the little girl had cat urine in her hair and the little boy has genital infections. Last month, experts at an American Medical Association meeting backed away from a proposal to designate video game addiction as a mental disorder, saying it had to be studied further. Some said the issue is like alcoholism, while others said there was no concrete evidence it's a psychological disease. Patrick Killen, spokesman for Nevada Child Abuse Prevention, said video game addiction's correlation to child abuse is "a new spin on an old problem." http://news.aol.com/story/_a/internet-obsessed-couple-let-kids-starve/20070715195409990001 This is the part that got me. Another disease as an excuse to get away with bad choices and misbehavior. When enough people do stupid stuff these days it becomes a deaease.
4 people like this
8 responses
• United States
16 Jul 07
I find this whole article appauling. I enjoy my computer time as well as playing games online and I have 3 well fed, well taken care of children. I play Dungeons and Dragons on computer games as well as a face to face version (when and if I have the time LOL). My children love video games too and play them a lot. My youngest who is 16 months love to sit on my lap while I play a game or create graphics on Paint Shop Pro. I don't EVER forget my kids are there--we still eat meals together, play together and if someone wants mom to read them a book, mom LEAVES the computer. If one of the girls want to play dishes, mom does that too. My husband does the same thing--puts the baby on his lap to watch (dad plays different games than mom LOL) but he will still read books, throw a ball, and build things with the teenager. I don't take my computer outside when we go out to bbq or play either. I guess its all in a choice you make. And I love my kids dearly and WANT to spend time with them. I have to agree that someone just wants to use video games/computer games as an excuse to get away with making a bad choice. If they didn't want kids and wanted to play games, then why not make the choice for birth control. Poor children...
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
16 Jul 07
I too find this whole thing upsetting. One haas to have self control. But I'm afraid that given time they will clame this kind of bosession a disease. and I find that apauling.
@yanjiaren (9031)
22 Jul 07
I think this is awful and totally wrong. Abuse is abuse and neglect is neglect..Whatever the problem these people are having they are nasty in neglecting their own children. If they can treat their own kids like this what else are they capable of? It is not only an illness, they are totally sick in the head and need more than medical treatment!!
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
22 Jul 07
hi yanjiren, Well to begin with the DR are not calling this a diease or an addiction. But I don't think it will be long before they do because of the preassure that is being put on them. Once sonething is called a dieasea it then takes the responsibliaty from the persone because it then isn't their fault. It is the fault of the dieases.
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
17 Jul 07
They might be internet addicted, but that doesn't excuse their horrible behavior. My middle cousin drinks too much and acts mean when he does it, but it's his choice to drink and I don't excuse his behavior. I think these people ought to get help for their addictions,If help is needed but don't blame the game. I
1 person likes this
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
17 Jul 07
I'm sure they could hear thoses babies crying because they were hungyr the mother took time from the game to go to work. she could have taken 15 or twenty minto fed the kids
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
16 Jul 07
I hope the authorities took the children away and they are now with good people. I cannot understand how anyone would be so engrossed in a video game that they neglect their own children. That is terrible! I am glad those experts of the AMA resisted the idea of calling video game addiction a mental disorder. The parents were not stupid, they were criminal.
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
17 Jul 07
The babies were taken away and the parents face jail time.
@us2owls (1681)
• United States
17 Jul 07
Disease my butt. This was pure ignorance, laziness and selfishness. I hope they jail these two for a very long time without access to any of the things they seem to enjoy most in life. On top of this they both need neutered so they can never have any more kids to abuse and neglect. Whoever this Patrick Killen is he needs to go back to school and learn about life, he certainly doesn't need to be in the job he is in if he makes that kind of stupid excuses for out and out abuse and neglect.
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
17 Jul 07
You are so totaly right. Those 2 did plead guilty to child neglect but that's not enough.
@Flight84 (3048)
• United States
17 Jul 07
I don't call it a disease. I call it being pathetic and irresponsible. My husband and I both play video games, but we never allow it to consume us. It's not that important, it's only for fun. Then you have the people that become obsessed and like the couple in the article. How in the world can you neglect your children for video games? I have heard that they are trying to call it a disease. People need to get a grip on reality.:)
1 person likes this
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
17 Jul 07
These two were soerraresponsable that it its beyound understanding. They ate whne they were hungery but could not take the time to feed their babies. they went to the bath room when they needed but could not take 5 min to change a couple of diapers. Aparently the cat got fed.
@cmsk2005 (1770)
• United States
20 Aug 07
This is sad to read something this kind, this is a disease if addiction is a disease but medical treatment for this disease is not so simple better councelling of other type of psychological treatment can give a better result for it. Its certainly a problem in their behaviour and self control system, just like any other addiction, when someone in control it goes well, but it starts problem when any person goes out of control.
1 person likes this
• United States
16 Jul 07
that is judt sick and crazy. lazy! thats all really. that is no disease. they are just people that dont care about anything but them selves and their own enjoyment. you know they had to lock those babies in another room somewhere while they were playing the game cause they was most likley crying over hunger. this angers me!
1 person likes this