I feel so terrible, I feel I will be banned, how many people will miss me?

United States
July 21, 2007 7:53pm CST
I have gotten into a big uproar with someone else here on mylot whom disagrees with me. I wrote discussions asking honest opinions, and this woman writes me and tells me she has reported me just because we have had a disagreement. I also reported her, and explained the situation, but I am still feeling bad. As far as I know, I have never been reported, and I KNOW I have never gotten into such a big fight with someone before as I did today. I guess it is just inevitable. People are going to disagree, right? I didn't name no names, I just said I was angry due to this woman's response. But, like I said, she reported me because of a simple disagreement. So, my question is, how many of you will miss me if I'm gone? I know I will miss all of you.
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@youdontsay (3503)
• United States
22 Jul 07
The nature of a discussion to that someone will disagree with you at some point about something. I'd miss you.
• United States
22 Jul 07
I'm glad I have some real friends here who will miss me if I'm gone. I sure hope this disagreement tonight will not resort to such things, because I AM a good person. You are completelly right, people will disagree.
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@missak (3311)
• Spain
22 Jul 07
I try to use this forum as an information tool and not think that there are actual persons behind it. But whith some people, what they write is so real that it is inevitable. You are one of thoose people, and I will miss you of course! I hope thi woman don't have the power to take you out anyways...
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• United States
22 Jul 07
I too will miss you, my friend. I sure hope she don't get me banned due to a complete disagreement. Thanks for the response.
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@patgalca (14265)
• Orangeville, Ontario
22 Jul 07
You should not be banned due to a disagreement. This is a DISCUSSION forum. You can't have a discussion if everyone is not allowed to give their opinion. You did the right thing in reporting back because sometimes myLot just looks at the report and deletes without any follow-up. Hopefully YOU following up with have worked in your favour. There is no reason to be banned for disagreeing. Name calling and such will get the discussion deleted, and maybe even the name-caller banned. You're still here, aren't you? I'm sure we'll see you around for awhile now.
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• United States
22 Jul 07
I seriously doubt if you will be banned. The other person's opinion is just that, only their opinion and nothing else. I doubt if even 1 person in 100 agrees with them. I can't see myLot getting worked up enough to ban anyone over any of this. Just change the subject to something else and that will be the end of it.
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@royal52gens (5380)
• United States
22 Jul 07
Don't feel bad. You have reported the situation to admin. It is possible that you or the other person could be suspended for a day or two (or ten). LOL Trust me, it can happen. It is also possible that the discussion could be deleted.
@wooitsmolly (3613)
• United States
22 Jul 07
I read the discussion and honestly that unnamed person (lol) was not just stating an "opinion" but rather attacking the original poster, not to mention calling her names. How ridiculous. If anything, she should be banned. It's people like that that get me so angry! I hate how close-minded and completely ignorant people can be. I doubt you will get banned... I feel that you did nothing wrong? Good luck and I hope you don't get banned for something so stupid!
• United States
22 Jul 07
It was me, jimbo...
• United States
22 Jul 07
It was too me and you better watch out or I'll do it again!
@NeoComp (1320)
• United States
22 Jul 07
Yes I believe I am going to miss your posts and miss you being here. I really liked reading your posts. I hope you do not get banned. And even if you did get banned. Did you know you can always come back under another name? Well I hope you are not banned anytime soon. Have a good day.
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@yxinxin (466)
• China
22 Jul 07
I don't think you will be banned. This is a forum and here everyone can give different opinions. You have your point of view and I have mine. I may or may not agree with you. That is quite natural. If we all had one opinion, then there would be no discussions or forums. I often find you tell your own story and I enjoy talking with you. Don't leave or I'll miss you.
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@yeewong (73)
• United States
22 Jul 07
i will miss u. weve commented to each other before. it was a disagreement & this is what mylot is all about. our opinions. im sorry that happen to u. r they really banning u from here? have u gotten anything from mylot about this complaint? well, good luck girl. & dont forget to cash out if they do give u the boot. which i dont think they will. u just did what they want, ur opinion right?
@Idlewild (6105)
• United States
22 Jul 07
You're not going to be banned, not if it's only one person reporting you. My advice would be not to get into a back-and-forth argument with the person. If I get into one, I cut it off after a couple of comments and just move on to another discussion. If someone really disagrees with you, they're not going to change their mind, no matter how much you say, so you'll just be wasting your time talking to them. Better to spend your time on something else.
• Philippines
22 Jul 07
Why would someone like you who make sense be banned. It happened to me. SOmeone strongly disagreed with me and you know what that person did? He created discussions about me and I was shocked when I found out. However, I had decided to use the Private messaging to express my anger to that person. He stopped immediately and even said sorry.
@worldwise1 (14888)
• United States
22 Jul 07
Take heart, Jennifer. You probably won't be banned. This is a serious problem on MyLot. I think the rules should be changed so that someone who dislikes you for some reason can't just report you. Of course people are going to disagree, but we have to be adults about it.
@punlonnjack (1309)
• United States
22 Jul 07
Hello jennifer,I dont know you but I feel you shouldnt be banned. I had a discussion as well where it seemed my oppinion was wrong and everyone else was right..Its my oppinion. But the people that responded to me made me feel like I was wrong. It is very upsetting I aggree. They are suppose to be discussions not whos right and who is wrong..Good luck jennifer and I dont know you entire story and Im going out on a limb here but Im on your side. I am new to mylot and would love to get into some discussions with you sometime.Dont give up or give in. You have a right to be here like eveyone else.
@rosie_123 (6118)
22 Jul 07
Well I admit I don' know the full story here, but I don't see any reason why you should be banned just because one poster disagreed with you/ Thisis a discussion forum - and we are all adults, so it stands to reason we will not all agree on everything. I don't really understand why this poster reported you anyway - surely we shuldn't go around reporting everyone who just makes a comment we don't personally agree with? I'm sure it will all blow over soon anyway.
@MAX1966 (1030)
• Netherlands
22 Jul 07
well i dont know you. but i dont think you will be banned just because of o disagreement dont worry,it will be fine
@abhax123 (1697)
• India
22 Jul 07
Hey hey hey dun worry
• United States
22 Jul 07
as long as it wasnt anythiung bad u should be good
• United States
22 Jul 07
Well - it seems that this said member likes to just jump all over you. I'm hoping that the star ratings get taken into consideration, because yours is an 8, & I just saw her jump down from a 5 to a 4. I have seen members banned for no reason at all whatsoever, & maybe the other person who likes to just flame away will end up being banned for her malice.
@bambi_doe (566)
• United States
22 Jul 07
I will miss you Jennifer21 as I liked most of your postings and as you say it is a discussion form and if they do or do not agree with you that is why they are a discussion. hugs and good luck
• United States
22 Jul 07
Hi Jennifer21. this is Caramel22 responding to this discussion. You know I couldnt miss this. Anyway, I would truly miss you if you were to get banned. You could come back under another name you know. I think Judyt00 is an over opinionated person. She was wrong and childish for even reporting you. You did nothing wrong and you have the whole mylot community who has been keeping up with this discussion behind you including me. Our opinion is what keep the mylot community growing, fun and interesting. I highly doubt that mylot will ban you. I have never met you a day in my life but I find you one of the most coolest opened minded person I know. I think Judyt00 has personal issues far beyond anyone of us can imagine and that she has to take her frustrations out on someone and that person just happens to be you. I stand behind you 100%. I really like you and I think you are a really sweet down to earth person. I will talk to you soon cause I know you are not going any where.