Do you have stalker?

I had a private detective who was hired by an insurance company follow me around for weeks without my knowledge. When I saw the video tape I felt sick to my stomach. I felt so invaded. Video taping me, following my car as I drive, video taping me getting out of my car and putting a letter in the mail box. They captured me taking groceries out of the grocery cart and putting them into my car. They had asked permission from the manager of the grocery store to video tape me but he refused. They also did not go inside my church but they certainly followed me there. What did they think I was going to do at church? Cartwheels? They video taped me as I left my sister's house. My one year old daughter darted towards the road and I ran after her. My goodness, there must have been nothing wrong with me physically if I could run after my child! What mother wouldn't take a bullet for their child? When I saw the video tape the "running after my daughter" was a mere three or so long strides. After this I became paranoid of anyone sitting in a vehicle outside my house or anywhere near my house. I even called my lawyer's office once only to find out it was an inspector waiting to meet with the realtor to inspect the house next store. Even after my insurance request was settled, I still felt paranoid for about six months after, wondering whether someone was watching me. It is a terrible feeling.

Yes. My parents and some of my exes stalk me. You get used to it after awhile.

It is very alarming if someone is stalking you. We may not think as paranoia, but the way they knew something about and following you; it is like they wanted to take advantage against you.