Have you tried confessing about your feelings to your crush?

Its just a little crush - Crush on you
@Zelmarq (11503)
Cebu City, Philippines
October 8, 2007 1:53am CST
We all have crushes, and maybe we had them even when we were still so young. As far as I can remember I first had my crush when I was 8 years old and even had crushed until now that im already 31 years old. I still like the feeling of excitement whenever I remember my crush while I was still in college. I guess he is the worst crush next to my boyfriend. I still rememeber the feeling whenever I remember him or see pictures and things that would remind me of him. Im just curious about his reaction if I confess to him that he was my crush way way back in college which was already 13 years ago. I wonder how he would react. How about you mylotters, have you tried confessing to your crush about your feelings or are you just like me who kept it to yourself?Hope we can share and enjoy this post. Have a nice day and happy mylotting!
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15 responses
@shadowing (309)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 07
Hi Zelmarq. Well, I never confess to my crush before. The reason is because I am a girl. Haha.
@Zelmarq (11503)
• Cebu City, Philippines
9 Oct 07
Well for me it does not matter, hehehehe, im also a girl I have plans to confess so that the feeling will fade.
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• Malaysia
9 Oct 07
Haha. Oh ok. Anyway, why after the confess the feeling will fade?
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@Zelmarq (11503)
• Cebu City, Philippines
10 Oct 07
I dont known if it will work, say its a sort of an experiment.
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@fab315 (1242)
• Philippines
8 Oct 07
got a crush on you - my secret crush is....LOL!
Hello! I'm a funny-bubbly person, I always make funny comments and sometimes dumb ones. I'm not a very serious type of person and growing up being the only daughter made it easier for me to deal with men especially when it comes to feelings.*hehe* My friends and those who know me don't really take me seriously when I make dumb comments. When I was in college, there was this guy that I had a crush on, he was a member of a dance group, his group taught us some dance moves for our school activity. My friends were teasing me to him but I ignored it. I was very friendly to him and he was to me as well. One of his friend told me that he likes me...LOL! but they didn't know that I like him too!. I always make cute comments to him but he thought I was just being friendly or being funny. We spent 2weeks practicing with them, and on our last week with them, he started acting strange, strange in a sense that he asked my number, asked some personal info about me..I blushed and laughed!! He still thought I didn't like him and in our last day with them, we went out, the whole group, they all were talking about personal stuff then the topic was changed to "who's your crush". When I answered I looked at him and said "you", then laughed...still he didn't believe me! LOL!! then I courted him...LOL! not really courting...he still actually didn't believe me..he thought I was just making fun of him since I knew he likes me. Then my friend told him that I really had a crush on him. He called me the next day and asked me out! LOL!! I was so blushing and giggling!! yikes!!I didn't actually want to hide my feelings since it was just a crush..and what the heck anyway, he goes to another school...*hehe* ciao! c",)
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@Zelmarq (11503)
• Cebu City, Philippines
9 Oct 07
hello their my friend, this is such a cute story, I am not that strong to admit such emotions to my crush in person. I have tried telling it through email and though even if I have regrettted telling him. I just thought that through telling him I will be able to erase the feeling and finally move on.
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@faraz007 (182)
• India
8 Oct 07
No as i dont have a crush on anyone.
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@Zelmarq (11503)
• Cebu City, Philippines
9 Oct 07
Oh, thas sounds cool. I hope you will have one. have a nice day!
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@djmarion (4901)
• Philippines
8 Oct 07
no i never did that. i was way too shy to express my feelings to him. but i did write it on a poem and had it published on our school paper. anonymous of course but the clue was all over the poem. lol. :)
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@Zelmarq (11503)
• Cebu City, Philippines
9 Oct 07
heheheh, its funny, I also made a ppem for him, and I invited him to join my friendster account, whats funny is that even when i see him online I get nervous and all as if he is infront of me. I hope this would fade since I already have a boyfriend now and even if he understands my crush feling with this guy I dont want to hurt him in the end.
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• Philippines
8 Oct 07
yes... i did but it doesn't really matter..since,its just a temporary kind of feeling..it just fades in a day or two...
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@Zelmarq (11503)
• Cebu City, Philippines
9 Oct 07
Mayeb it not the same with other people, like in my case I had a crush in my gradeschool days and one during my college days, I can say that its not temporary, it was something that I can still feel get excited with and something that makes me smile.
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• India
8 Oct 07
i've had crushes but never told anyone, my friends used to call me one crazy guy as i used to switch from one girl to another in a matter of months lol. It looks so funny to me now but yeah having a crush was wonderful.
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@Zelmarq (11503)
• Cebu City, Philippines
9 Oct 07
Its one of the cute things that happen in our lives and there are wonderful and exciting memeories that goes with it. Its good to remember good old days. I plan to express my crush to this someone coz its a technique that once you confess the feeling will slowly fade away. Do you think its a good idea?
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@goodsign (2287)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 07
I don't keep it to myself but I've thrown it out far from myself and my life. I don't want to remember any sad story on my past life. Creating new life in future is more enjoyment stuff to have.
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@Zelmarq (11503)
• Cebu City, Philippines
9 Oct 07
Thats great that you have moved on, I am also in the process of moving on and letting go. I am helping myself to forget all the past, though I dont consider it as soemthing bad that happened but im letting go.
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@shak143 (1280)
• India
8 Oct 07
I had crush while iam in college and that's the last one.i confess her that she was my crush she didn't reply for that and she jsut went out saying that she is not suitabole for me.I can get a gal who is more beautiful than her but i said i need you for that she didn't replied and simple went away from my life.....that's ti from then onwards no crush nothing as i won't it to be happen again.
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@Zelmarq (11503)
• Cebu City, Philippines
8 Oct 07
Oh im sorry about what happend my friend. Life is like that, we cant expect people to feel the same way we are feeling towards them.
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@mimpi1911 (25479)
• India
8 Oct 07
Hi zelly, I have had some huge crushes in different stages in life and lemme tell you it felt wonderful each time. The innocent excitement was enormours and could match up to nothing else on eart. A couple of times my girl friends did let my crushes know about it all. And that's it, I never went further to datings and stuff like that. I really contemplate trhe nostalgia. Smiles.
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@Zelmarq (11503)
• Cebu City, Philippines
8 Oct 07
Those were the days of our lives, as if our hearts would go out because of so much excitement. I dont have enough got to confess, im just scared to do it. Id rather keep it to myself.
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• Philippines
11 Oct 07
i had a crush with a friend back in college. at first i was too shy to tell him so what i did was, tell him that i know someone who has a crush on him. naturally it got him curious and he pestered me for days about the identity of this person. when i told him it was me, he was speechless for a while and thought it one of my jokes.
@Zelmarq (11503)
• Cebu City, Philippines
19 Oct 07
Maybe thats the case when the girl confesses, they guys are too speechless to say anything.heheheeh Maybe they are too flattered to sepak thats why.
@vanities (11401)
• Davao, Philippines
10 Oct 07
no i havent think of telling it bluntly to my crushes when im still at school or even when im still single..i jsut dont like the idea i guess..i just admire secretly, maybe its just me...
@Zelmarq (11503)
• Cebu City, Philippines
11 Oct 07
thats cool, I also admire secretly, but its ok to tellcoz its already 13 years ago and its only history.
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• Philippines
9 Oct 07
I did not personally tell him but I do give him a clue. I did not flirt him but I just make friends with him. He also on the other hand had a secret feelings for me. He was studying my moves and actions when we are together. So one time while we are playing cards, just a yes and no question on the card, like I am the fortune teller I ask the card if who was his crush. Well, he answered that his crush was wearing a blue jeans the morning of that day. I told him that there are too many women wearing blue jeans out there. He answered that his crush is our classmate. I told him to tell me who that girl was and I would help him to her. And I finally ask him the name. He just said to me that the girl wearing that time with color green t-shirt was his crush. And it happened that I was the one who was wearing a green t-shirt. After days he propose and after days I accepted him. We are dating for more than five years and now we are married.
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@Zelmarq (11503)
• Cebu City, Philippines
9 Oct 07
Wow, thats a happy ever after story. Now, I can finally say that we still have happy ever after love stories and they are not just in books and in movies. I am happy for both of you. May you have many many more sweet years and cute children to come. Have a nice day and happy mylotting!
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• United States
19 Oct 07
NO! lol. I could never tell my crush that I like him X.X Well....them (you'll understand if you read my discussion "I like 2 guys...tey have no idea) lol! I kind of answer this post in my discussion too =P I'm just too shy! I don't think I could ever tell a guy I like him...and it really sucks! I wish I could. My best friend tells me I def. should, but I know I could never get out the wors X.X
@Zelmarq (11503)
• Cebu City, Philippines
23 Oct 07
I just have the courage to say on yahoo messenger. lolz...
@mycharm88 (2292)
• Philippines
16 Oct 07
Hello zelmarq!! Ohhh..i must admit i did it twice!lol... the first one was in elementary, we were neighbors and i just liked him for his character and he is one cute guy, we were close friends but nothing really happened like we dated because we were so young back then, though he admitted that he liked me too.. Anyway the feelings faded til we grow older.. the second was in college, i had so many crushes way back when i was small but i think the one in college was the greatest crush ever and became my first love... he knew that i liked him and in my heart i feel that he liked me too, so the feeling was mutual and i waited for the time that he proposed and i accepted him, we were happy and i thought he was the one,we were together for almost 6 yrs but it ended two years ago. I don't know the feeling grew cold and now i have found the new love of my life and i'm happy with him. you take care my friend c",)
@Zelmarq (11503)
• Cebu City, Philippines
19 Oct 07
Wow, thats a nice story as a whole. Maybe you were not really meant for each other. Theres a saying that goes we are allowed to mmet the wrong people in our lives to find the right one and Im glad that you have found a new love and hope he will be the one you will grow old with.
@mlhuff12 (799)
• United States
25 Dec 07
I've had a crush on this guy that I used to work with. I felt that we came close, we talked a lot. Enjoyed working with eachother. I had never told him about my feelings. I sorta wish a did because now I am working somewhere else and I still think of him quite often. But I also wondered if he had ever picked up on how I felt for him on the way that I acted or looked at him.
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