Getting SICK of the GARBAGE!!

Wow! I don't think you're mean, or too serious, or any of that stuff. In fact, I think you're pretty great! :P Sorry to hear that you've been having problems with idiots on here!

Wow, what's brought all this on?? Personally I find you one of the most interesting people here on myLot - I don't agree with some of your views and I suspect in "real life" we wouldn't exactly get along but I never have a problem with the way you express yourself on here even if I do disagree with some of the things you say. If someone has a problem with you on here, or doesn't like you, or backstabs you or whatever - do you really care? Does it matter what some random person on myLot thinks of you? Ignore them.

Do you mean people on this site have time to run around and gossip? Sorry to hear that. I do not have a problem with anyone being themself, that is part of what intrigues me about this site. Hope you get this straightened out.

Hello Progamer, First off, there's lots of fish in the MyLot sea. If someone doesn't like your comments, then let them seek their entertainment elsewhere! Personally, I enjoy your wit. Hence, the reason why I participate in your discussions, and why I enjoy your participation in mine. Having said that, I cannot fathom why some people expend their energy piddlin' on other MyLot members. Is there nothing better to do in life??? If someone leaves me a mean, freaky, sly, or otherwise unrelated or inappropriate response, I simply thank them for their input & move on. I tell you, I find it terribly disturbing that some people feel the need to lash out at other cyber members for their perceptions, attitude, or other displays of unparallel presentations. Personally, I relish the reality that we're all so different. Some folks strike certain fancies, others don't. It's a simple reality -- and the sooner we all learn it, the better off we'll be. Now, to specifically address your issue: If this member is causing problems for you with the MyLot administration, please do P.M. me, and I will gladly argue your case to the Admin's. Doing so will offer a balanced perception of your contributions here. Further, I would offer that enlisting multiple sources of support would be helpful. If this 'someone' is just lurking around, hen-chatting in other members ears, fear not -- eventually a gossip is always recognized as destructive, and is sooner or later hushed by the silence of conscious lack of interaction. On this I speak from first-hand experience. Gossip's have their 15 minutes, then they fade away. I have personally taken much glee in their eventual obsolenscence. In summary, don't let it bother you, my friend! You are appreciated, and should you require either a sounding board, or a voice of support -- no doubt you'll receive many volunteers!!!

Aww pro! I have a problem with you not being here for a hug too, you don't deserve this kind of treatment from anybody. The people acting like that towards you are probably just jealous because you have people that care about you and they don't.

Well bless your heart Gamer, I love you in any form! WTH is going on?? You're letting these people get too you, take a deep breath!! Breathe in.....breathe out. Now say Aaaah. You can't be wrong being you, so how can you correct such a thing? I just think people expect too much. If you can't please them, then stay away from them. I just can't imagine anyone getting upset with you. That really blows my mind!! Bay Lay Gray xx

Mean? You?! WTF?? Who are these people? Where did they grow their skin, 'cause it sure isn't very thick. Admitting I haven't read everything you ever posted, I have read enough to know that you can be blunt, but always courteous and respectful, which is more than I can say for myself, lol. Keep in mind that it takes very little backbone to go trolling around here. What you are asking takes maturity as well as a backbone, which we all know trolls are born without and rarely develop even in achieving late adulthood. I feel your anger & wish there was more I could do to help...believe me when I tell you you have friends here, Gamer because I have witnessed it and it is true. Grab a brewski and let the steam roll off. As angry as I have been known to get over backstabbing around here, let me tell you, it isn't worth the bloodpressure. *Pounding (lightly) Gamer in the arm*

Now after being a member for four months you see what has made so many of my friends jump ship. I used to be so enthused about this site I spent a few hours every day and worked hard to earn a few dollars only to see my discussions and responses being deleted also my reputation (star) being attacked. Unfortunately it is always done by mean-spirited cowards who do not have the guts to tell you to your face what they do not like about your postings. All I can say is keep doing what you are doing as long as your are still enjoying it, if not take a break for a while and then see how you feel.

You know what sweetheart? You just need to keep being your wonderful self. The people that are aggravating you so much need to get over themselves and find something more productive to do with their time. I don't blame you for wanting to confront them though. But there are people in this world that hide behind their words and never come clean about what they are saying. I for one am one of your strong supporters....I've got your back hon. Anyone that needs a good tongue lashing...you just let me know, and I'm sooooo there! Hugs to you my friend.

Some people are immature emotionally and don't know how to handle anything other than by acting childish and saying things behind others backs. It's common really. Instead of handling themselves in a grown up manner, they'd rather create conflict because it gives them attention. Sad really, but they crave attention so much they'd rather have some sort of attention than none at all.

Um, I don't know what the problem is, but personally I like you how you are. You're a mix. Same 'ol same'ol is boring.

I agree with what you say that if there is a problem with you, they have to let you know instead of saying it behind your back. But I guess not people want confrontation. They may see you mean, that is why they dont want to open things up like that with you. They are not sure if you would accept or understand...

Hi Hun! I don't have any problems with you at all! I think your great! If I did have a problem with you then we already would have talked about it by now as I always go to the person, I hate backstabbing therefore I will never do it. Sorry to hear someone is giving you grief! Luv & Hugzz, PurpleTeddyBear.

Sorry you're having these troubes - I would offer to put a curse on them but I think it would be more effective - although it may sound screwy to wish them balance in their lives. Obviously something is out of whack in their little lives or they wouldn't be making a habit of creating such frustration in the life of someone so helpful, amusing, serious when the ocassion warrants it, caring and wise individual. However, the curse offer still stands - even if it would come back to me ten fold!

I'm just coming back to this site for the first time to post in awhile, I have no idea what you are referring to, but honestly it's a message board. You might be taking things too seriously on here. It's not like you know these people in person.

Please don't get all discombobulated for the sake of a cretin ot two. Some of your friends think you're great and most admire you and really like you. These are the people who count here my friend.

Hi pro, I would have responded to this discussion sooner, but I didn't see it until now. Okay so I did think you were a bit uptight and I was taken back when you sent your first message to me, as I certainly didn't expect such a message LOL, but since that's all been cleared up, I don't think you are mean or serious. Maybe the reason others think this of you is because you jump to conclusions (as exhibited by the first message you sent to me only :P) by reading too much into something that has been said in a discussion? If this happens, don't to jump to conclusions and stay calm. Try not to let what others say on here upset you and just keep being who you are, whether you want to be serious or not. :-)

Yeah, PM me and lemme know who's messin' wid yah s'oze I can shun them, now that we are friends and all, lol. Oops, but that might seem like we are going behind their backs. We may just be backed in a corner here, but it breaks my wee little icy heart to think of anybody stressing you out. I haven't seen you do anything naughty yet, but how is this? I'll start following you around and peer over my spectacles to make sure you are not getting bested in any heated discussions. If I see anybody picking on you and I think you are in the right, I'll jump right in there and risk my valuable myLot reputation to defend you. Hey, and if I think you are being a jerk, I'll PM you and say so. Deal? Does that make you feel an eeny bit better? I hope so!

well my friend like i always say if people don't like me for who i am then they can go scratch,i don't see you being that way what so ever.i see you as being very open-minded,creative,honest,interesting which keep people on their toes,and your topics are quite awesome i have to say.some people just rather try to bring down other where you are trying to bring us up.i enjoy it and just keep on doing what your doing and don't let anyone come in your way or we will just have to just kick them to the mylot curb.take care!pattie

well i think your a great person. you have definitely been an encourager and so helpful to me on here. don't listen to what others say....stay the way you are. God bless