If lovers both don't' know each other well , should they break up ?

China
December 26, 2007 7:46pm CST
My best friend encountered this situation , and she is confused
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9 responses
@Katlady2 (9904)
• United States
27 Dec 07
If they don't take the time to get to know one another, then they won't really know if they are compatible in a long term relationship. If they try to get to know each other, then if problems come up, they can deal with them much better.
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• China
27 Dec 07
They should treasure each other and don't give up easily if you are really in love. Spend more time to stay and learn each other, it's worthful
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• United States
27 Dec 07
you need to specify the word lovers more. are they sleeping together or are just more exclusive with one another. they need to get to know each other more as far likes and dislikes, just let them know that communication is the key and they should really be open each others needs. that way if they do find out that they were not meant to be the break up will be alot easier,and they will at least be able to stay friends. and it is a known fact that within the first 30 seconds you know if that other person is the one or not.
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• United States
27 Dec 07
I think that if they really love each other they should learn more about each other, and try practicing on each other, like for one day some body just shadows the other to find out what they like and how they do things
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@xuyuting (72)
• China
28 Dec 07
they should give each other more time.may be they will know each other well.after a fews days .
@Jolsn4 (19)
• United States
27 Dec 07
I think that one of the best things about being in a relationship is getting to know each other well. When my boyfriend and I first started dating three years ago I was dating a total stanger. Even today I learn something new about him everyday and that is the fun of it. Tell your friend to start doing activities where they get to learn more about each other. For example, have your friend and her boyfriend take each other to their favorite place to eat. They could also take a road trip to somewhere for a weekend vacation. The more of these type of activities they do together the more they will grow together and learn more about each other. Tell your friend not to give up!
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
27 Dec 07
I think they should try to understand each other and know each other before breaking. I think one of the reason why thye do not know each other must be they might be online lovers or they might have been met through telephone. I think they should try to have a date together than to simply break up with each other. I think it takes some time to know each other and they both can know each other by spending some time together.
@mcrowl (1050)
• New Zealand
27 Dec 07
I'm a bit confused too. How can they get to know each other better if they break up? It doesn't make sense. The only way they'll get to know each other is by staying together and working through things together. Heck, my wife and I have been together for nearly 35 years and we're still getting to know each other!
• Nigeria
27 Dec 07
Separation for a while could be encouraged so that both could try to understand where they have made mistake but break up is not encourage. They talk about their differencies and make corrections but where no solution, separation could be encourage but not entire break up