I have 70 pages of friends at Mylot...Wow. How many pages do you have?

@stephcjh (38473)
United States
January 12, 2008 5:52am CST
I have been with Mylot for quite some time and have accrued alot of friends in that time period. I just checked and seen that I have 70 pages. That is alot of friends. Do you have alot of friends in your list here?
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@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
12 Jan 08
I think I have a lot of friends but I only have I think 17 pages of them. How on earth do you keep up with that many? Are they all active? I did go through my friends a few months ago and deleted some that were not active for 6 months or so.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
16 Jan 08
Alot of them aren't active here anymore. I hardly ever get messages or discussions to respond to from alot of them. It would take me forever to go in and see who is active and who isn't. I just keep the alert on in case they ever decide to come back like I did this year.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
20 Jan 08
Yes. I'm sorry to hear that. I hate when people are rude to us here. Alot of us do not deserve that treatment. I get rid of those also.
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@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
20 Jan 08
I probably should do that also - I guess it doesn't hurt anything to have them 'there' and like you said you never know when someone is going to 'come back'. Maybe I'll stop cleaning them out unless they get really annoying like a couple I've just deleted because they were 'jerks' and bashing all my discussions, who needs friends like that :)
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@tonyllenium (6252)
• Italy
16 Jan 08
in my list on mylot friends i have about 21-22 pages of friends!!so normally not all are active some was active in the past and now nothing or so and so..and somebody taked a break or they will be active as soon!!surely there are also a good part that i saw thier posts as usual,answer discussion and so on!!
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
20 Jan 08
yes, i think i need to delete a lot of my inactive ones too. Maybe a month without activity is enough
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
16 Jan 08
Several of mine are inactive as well. I added them way back when I first joined Mylot. I think some of them left some time last year and I hope they will return in 2008.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
20 Jan 08
I was gone for 6 months but now I am back. Some people may be just taking a break. They may come back also.
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
20 Jan 08
well ive 36 pages, but i do apply very strict criteria when i accept people. First of all, they must have at least 100 posts to their name. I really dont want non active members on my list. Second. I only put people on my list who have answered one of my discussions, or as a second best, have started a discussion that i have felt moved to answer, lol. However, a big no-no for me is when their profile says 18 male India, there are just so many of em, and what in the name of the goddess do they think they have in common with this old, stroppy lesbian? precisely blessed be
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
20 Jan 08
LOL. I just add friends or accept them because they request. If they donot work out, then I turn off their friend alert or delete tham. I hate to trun someone down. I try to give them a chance to see how it goes. Good luck to you also. I hope some old friends come back soon too. Good to see you again.
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@Inky261 (2520)
• Germany
20 Jan 08
I am on my 12th page full with friends. I do not know if that is much. For sure not if I compare it to you. I am here for 9 month with mylot and that means I aquire a little more than one page full per month. for me this is ok. Happy mylotting!
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
20 Jan 08
I think that is a good start to your friends list. I requested alot of my friends. Some of them requested me too. I just seemed to accrue alot since joining Mylot.
@pastorkayte (2255)
• United States
12 Jan 08
Hey I only have 6 pages of friends. But I must say I have some really great friends though and they are really good at answering my posts and keeping me up to date on stuff happening in the world. I dont watch television so I get more new here than everywhere else.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
16 Jan 08
That's great. I don't watch a whole lot of television anymore either. Most of the movies that are on, disgust me these days. I do watch the news and a few other shows, but I wouldn't care at all if I didn't have a TV. It is a waist to me anymore.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Jan 08
Thanks. I miss the good older shows that I used to watch when I was a kid. The were nice to watch with the whole family.
• United States
25 Jan 08
I agree completely.
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• Cambodia
12 Jan 08
Impressive :) Only 3 since I've been here since 3 days.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
16 Jan 08
Thank you. That is still good. You will have alot of friend requests here at Mylot. I request alot of friends here too.
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• United States
16 Jan 08
I only have 4 pages of friends and that is because I choose my friends carefully and try to interact with them all and have all their notifications turned on. I do not approve many who request to be my friends if they do not have the same interests as I do and also if they have too many friends I dont even bother to check their profile. I know they dont really want to be a "friend" but just add an other notch to their belt. Why on earth would anyone want to have over 1000 friends such as you have. What is the point?
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
16 Jan 08
There is no actual point. Alot of them requested to be my friend and I simply accepted. I requested alot of them also because I can relate to them. I respond to all of them as much as I can. I work alot of hours online every day and have plenty of time to interact with them. alot of them are no longer active so I accept or request more friends here as well. I like to have a variety of topics or discussions to reply to instead of the same old thing all of the time.
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@soorimd (300)
• India
12 Jan 08
i have no pages to mark my friends. but i have one true frirnd who is listed in my heart and he has 70 pages of frinds.i am lucky to have one such single friend and that is STEPCJH. thank you for being there when i really needed you my deerest frind
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
16 Jan 08
Thank you. You are very welcome. I am the only friend you have in your friend list? I feel so special. Thank you again. I appreciate you!!!!!!
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
12 Jan 08
I have twenty-eight pages. Now that you know that, how are you going to get to answer all of them? I find that only a few of my friends are posting a lot, and I would like to get to the other ones. I wish that they would post more on writing and singing, as I am very interested in those subjects. I am trying to revise my friends list, add some more, take some off -those who I am more likely to get in a fight with, but I have not much time.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
16 Jan 08
Not all of them are active members here at Mylot. I do answer alot of friends every day though. I spend alot of hours on the internet daily and make my rounds to alot oof discussions. I wish some of the members on my friends list would come back and post too. I was away for a while but now I am back and working very hard here.
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12 Jan 08
I only have 11 pages but that's alot. I wouldn't count them all as friends though, I'm to lazy to remove most I spent five minutes going through the other day and removed like 10 and then though I'd have none left if i kept removing those who I don't see. I'm kidding, lol ~Joey
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
16 Jan 08
LOL, Joey. I don't count them all as "true" friends. I just mean that they are all my "friends" here at Mylot.
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@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
15 Jan 08
Hello stephcjh, I have many friends here too. Not all of them are active though. I don't even realize how many of them *laughs* When you asked here, then only I realized I should check how many of them that I can consider as friends here *smiles*
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
16 Jan 08
Mine either. I only consider a few to be good online friends. Most of them are just acquaintances. I am very choosie when it comes to calling someone my actual friend too.
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@Arshian (476)
• Pakistan
16 Jan 08
wow i have only 4
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
16 Jan 08
Hi. I am sure you will get more friends here. Just keep posting and responding qith quality and you will have alot before you know it.
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@mjweed21 (693)
• Philippines
16 Jan 08
I've started last month, so I only have three pages, as of now.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
16 Jan 08
That is very good. I am sure you will have more as time passes by.
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@honeylore23 (1081)
• United States
16 Jan 08
Well I am only a week old in this site. I only have a few friends. i think only 15 as of now. But I hope after months, i will be able to have many friends.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
16 Jan 08
Hi. Welcome to Mylot. I will be your friend if you like. I will send you a friend request. Thanks.
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@kritipen (4082)
• United States
24 Jan 08
That is a ton of friends. I have 7 pages of old friends Most of them are inactive and 3 pages of ne friends whom i have to approve. I think even a majority of those whom i have to approve are inactive.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Jan 08
Yes. It is alot. Most of them are no longer active. I need to trun my alert on for my new friends I just got. I try to keep active friends so we can all discuss things. I'm glad you are one of my active friends.
• United States
12 Jan 08
I have about 8 pages of friends. I used to have more but I deleted a bunch of friends that aren't active anymore and haven't been so for a few months. No point in keeping them, and I go through and delete friends that spam or don't make good, quality posts. So, the number of friends I have goes up and down regularly.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
16 Jan 08
I know what you mean. I delete the ones who spam me. I turn off the alert on those who are rude or make silly, nonsense discussion, but I don't delete inactive members. I was inactive for a while last year but just recently came back. I hope some more members come back this year also that I haven't seen or heard from in a while now.
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@rb200406 (1824)
• India
22 Jan 08
You have lots of freind really. I have peanuts compared to you.Its just around 10 pages for me.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
23 Jan 08
Hi. 10 pages is still very good. You will get more as time goes by. I requested alot of mine myself.
@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
25 Jan 08
I only have 7 pages. I think that is a lot for me and I want to add more. I am here a little over five months.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Jan 08
That is good. It is quite a few friends to have. You will get alot more than that along the way. Alot of people have become inactive, so I have requested more now to replace them even though I will never delete the inactive ones as they may eventually come back to Mylot.
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
4 Feb 08
I just looked. I was surprised. I have 6 pages. I have been on mylot about 4 months. They are all very different. So many from places I have never been. That's one awesome thing about being here. It's neat learning from others around the world.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
4 Feb 08
That is really good. All of my friends are from all over the world also. I requested some of them and some requested me over a years time. Actually it was about 7 months time. I was away from Mylot for about 6 months last year.
• United States
24 Jan 08
I have a 3 page of friends. But I limit myself who I add, I don't like to have a list of inactive members that just keep their profiles in a shelf just to collect dust. But when I do add friends I add the ones that have posted over 4,000 up to almost 20,000 - bigger advantage for me to gain posts. If ever I reach 70 or more it will be users only with high numbered posts. If I add a new friend because they requested me I want to make sure they are active. Sometimes I will even let them know. But of course I want to be helpful with them so that they can grow. Well good luck to you as usual - I can see you're close to 5,000 posts - keep up the good work and happy mylotting!
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
24 Jan 08
I know what you mean. Alot of my friends were active here but alot of them laeft here last year after I joined. Some of them have come back now. I hope alot more of them do also. I was away for 6 months but I am back now. Nice to see you here also.