What Do You Do When You Are Upset???

India
February 5, 2008 7:43am CST
heya what do you do when you are upset?? for what reason you are upset??
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• United States
5 Feb 08
Well i usually try to chat it over with some friends or sleep or watch tv, so i can get my mind off of it , or listen to music.
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• India
6 Feb 08
but then also just you listen to music and make your mood ok???
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• United States
6 Feb 08
well it takes my mind off alot because i have a really big passion for music : ]]
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• India
7 Feb 08
ohhk..... and what else you do after getting upset???
@lala766 (239)
• United States
5 Feb 08
I will take a walk or sit in my backyard and listen to the birds. Sometimes I go for a ride if I am not too upset. Music can make me feel better also. It just depends on how upset I am.
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• India
27 Aug 09
oh really???
• India
5 Feb 08
I pick up guitar and sing loud. Sometimes i watch movies, other times I just shut myself up and refuse to talk because if I talk I may disturb the entire environment so badly. I don't want to speak much when I am upset cos that time my mouth can speak lot of foul words...
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• India
8 Feb 08
this good. i like the way of making your mood good!! but then also if some on1 disturb you at that time you should control your feelings!!
@lala766 (239)
• United States
5 Feb 08
I will take a walk or sit in my backyard and listen to the birds. Sometimes I go for a ride if I am not too upset. Music can make me feel better also. It just depends on how upset I am.
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• India
6 Feb 08
but at which reasons you get upset???
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• Philippines
6 Feb 08
when im upset, i usually sleep.. if i cant do that, i spend time reading love stories, listening to mellow music, or maybe texting my boyfriend.. it makes me relax.. eating can also be a good thing to do.. i know a lot of people who eats a lot whenever they're upset.. good for them they dont gain much weight when they do that!
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• India
7 Feb 08
hey thats good!! but by eating food you really feel relax?? and what is the relation between upset and food???
• Malaysia
6 Feb 08
i usually eat a lot, scold others, keep quite and sleep. i get upset because i don't get what i want, people say bad things about me or i have problem that i cant solve.
• Malaysia
7 Feb 08
i think my scolding others i feel better. i will try not do this as hard as i can.
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• India
7 Feb 08
hmmm!!! you are right but y you scold other people?? its not good thing!!! only for that others say about you!!
• India
8 Feb 08
good you should try your level best to keep your feelings in your heart but that also not for long time its also not good to keep this thing in your heart for long time!!!
@mcc371 (918)
• United States
6 Feb 08
When I get upset or mad about something I usually clean my house from top to bottom and then after I have calmed down and thought about the situation I go and kneel by my bed and pray to God for his guidance and forgiveness and ask him to lead me on the right path and to have more patience above all.
• India
7 Feb 08
thats great!!! i appreciate with you!! but do you really clean your house from top to bottom!!
@rekhum (2420)
• India
6 Feb 08
I would just sleep on it or share it with my friends.I get upset at times for being away for home.
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• India
7 Feb 08
heya.... i also feel to leave my home when i get upsetbut our parents gave us birth and we cant leave our parents like this!!!
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@bunmi2501 (465)
• Nigeria
7 Feb 08
What I do when Im upset is to keep quite, and just walk away from the scene. I was once so upset with my boss for cancelling a project I've spent 3 weeks working on day and night that I just execused myself and I took a long walk for about an hour talking to myself on the road. I felt recieve by the time I came back I was able to talk to him about it without an form of rage in my tone.
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• India
13 Apr 08
i agree with you... every people should do like this... they should control feelings...
@atramesil (685)
• United States
7 Feb 08
that's an easy one. eat too much. and then eat again. and then get annoyed with myself because i have eaten too much am=nd oops eat again. it is a nasty vicious circle that I cannot seem to break free of. i'm off to eat again.
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• India
7 Feb 08
hey i dont like your opinion about this!! you should not eat always!! you should find the solution about this not to eat n eat n eat!!
• China
6 Feb 08
As for me I will listen to some music or do some other things such as reading some books that can divert my attention to something other things rather than addict myself in the upset or I will have a special treat to myself for example I will eat a great meal then have a sound sleep .after that sleep everything will be all right.
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• India
7 Feb 08
hmmm cool but sleeping is the best way to make your mood good??
• Canada
7 Feb 08
Depends why I am upset. If I am angry...I stop and ask myself..."What or who is pushing my buttons...and why?" Once I have that figured out I can choose whether i am going to allow my anger to spill out...or whether I can take a few deep breaths and calm down before saying something I might regret. When I am feeling blue or moody and do not know why I will go with it. Sometimes it can be because I am tired...or bored...and a warm soak in our bubble jet tub helps. I also find meditation, listening to calming music, talking to my hubby or close friends helps. Sometimes we all have 'off-days' and I accept them as a natural part of life and just go with it. Moods come and go...and the approach I take is not to invest too much energy in them and just let them pass. Raia
• India
7 Feb 08
hmmm i like your views about the topic!!! hmm i dont hav other option to say to you!!! you are doing right!!
@punlonnjack (1308)
• United States
6 Feb 08
i get upset with my huband alot of times for various reasons.i just give him the silent treatment and get on my computer.
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• India
6 Feb 08
its not good!! you should ask your husband to live properly!! you both should live together and you are doing wrong !! i think like that!!
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@beeyah (48)
5 Feb 08
i'm moody... so sometimes i get upset without any reasons at all. i usually watch tv or listen to music when i'm upset.
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• India
8 Feb 08
hey!!! i have being reading all views all say that we usually listen to music or watch tv!!! whats the reason behind watching the tv and make your mood good??? is this only the way??
@onesiobhan (1327)
• Canada
8 Feb 08
Yell. I've been thinking of buying a punching bag though. I think it would be a better way to work off my upset.
• Canada
13 Apr 08
Can't hurt! :-)
• India
27 Aug 09
what?? once saying punching bag, and saying cant hurt...
• India
13 Apr 08
hmmm... you really think it will work??
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
18 Feb 08
ususally I just watch movie without paying attention to what i am watching I just want to think with a noise background.. and know what happened.
• India
13 Apr 08
hmm... same condition is here.... i also sit and think... what else way you throw your angry mood away???
• United States
6 Feb 08
if im at home and i get upset, i just usually go to my room and go to sleep for a little while, after i have said what was on my mind. but if im out somewhere or at someone else's house, i usually keep it in. i don't like causing a big scene, theres no reason.
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• India
7 Feb 08
hey dont ever keep that in mind!!!! its not good!! you should change little bit!!!
7 Feb 08
Whenever i upset .i used to sit in silence
• India
13 Apr 08
just sitting silent you angry get over?? i have heard this for a first time..
• United States
17 Apr 08
I usually cry and my chest will get really red. I am sure my blood pressure is out of the sky...usually it is the inlaws that do this to me .... lol
• India
27 Aug 09
men , then why you go and cry??? go towards the person who is close to you... please mate, this is really bad...